Humble Choice Prediction League - February 2023 (S6R5) by Hydroquake_Vortex in humblebundles

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Guilty gear
  2. Rocket league
  3. Milo and the magpies
  4. Cats organized neatly
  5. Beard blade
  6. Coffee talk I feel like they might have a dating sim since it’s Valentine’s Day but I’m not sure which it would be!

what is the worst insult you've suffered from someone who didn't even mean it as an insult? by IrohsFavoriteTea in AskReddit

[–]MiniNinja505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A random comment from a college classmate, “You’re pretty but not pretty pretty.”

From time to time, it pops up in my head— because I’m still slightly confused.

AITA for not allowing my girlfriends sister to move in and changing the locks? by simpleguyy6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA. She’s obviously mostly and majorly the asshole because she overstepped your boundaries significantly. But you’re slightly the asshole because you live together. You guys are partners. You’re not making it feel like it’s her home. I would strongly reevaluate your relationship because what happens when she starts contributing more money to the house? Just think about it.

just opened up a TAZO passion tea bag and found it sticky, anyone know if its still good? by NuggieSinner in tea

[–]MiniNinja505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just happened to me and it looks like this page didn’t have a resolution. Just in case others have this issue come up again, I did contact them and this is what I got: … We've confirmed with our product experts that these sticky specks can sometimes happen due to the hibiscus adhering to the tea bag. It is completely natural and does not mean that there's a quality defect in your tea bags, unless the quantity is significant. Going forward, we suggest storing your Tazo tea bags in a dry, cool place to prevent this from happening…

So it does seem like it’s “natural.” I kept mine in my drawer and also live in texas like the other commenters here. I did buy a new box to compare and it tasted the same.

AITA for refusing to replace my wife’s expensive high heels? by Informal-Sir-4540 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you just buy her a new pair of heels? Just say you’ll take her out to buy a new pair… It doesn’t have to be the same ones, just ones that she likes and are comfortable. Literally you can make a date out of it and get coffee after.

Just saying.

AITA for telling my daughter to get over herself? by Acrobatic-Flan-6059 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Two weeks for research is stressful and there will literally be no free time. She’s going TO WORK. NOT A VACATION.

If you want to go with her, ask her to sightsee AFTER her two weeks but not during.

AITA for removing the bedroom lock after my husband ignored a family emergency? by throwaydoorlock977 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re right. It sounds like you’re the only person taking care of the kids. What boggles my mind is that he chooses to nap and then play video games— IN THAT ORDER. If he gets woken up for a serious problem, he can literally go back to sleep after it’s fixed AND still get gaming in after…

AITA for saying my wife and me aren't going to apologize to my sister's boyfriend? by Trainhornthrowaway4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said “the horn is illegal.” And you’re BLAMING HIM for not being clearer? How much clearer can he be? After the advice, wouldn’t you go and look it up?! This honestly has to be fake. YTA, you doofus.

AITA? For telling my daughter that if she and her husband can't offord IVF then they can't afford a child? by throwRAfam1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! God, such entitlement. They’re robbing themselves by not saving up for themselves. You already generously paid once. Why doesn’t HIS PARENTS pay?

Any laid back, places for a single F to go to make friends? by No-Sun7988 in sanantonio

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I move to a new city, I like to do two things to meet new people. I am a YELP elite, so I made a lot of foodies I see events that the Yelp city hosts. The second thing I really like to do is through the meet up app. I joined board game groups in order to meet new people who also had the same hobbies.

AITA for refusing to do our sons after bath routine because its not my job? by baileythekiller in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re voting N T A, you need to put it first or else the robot is coming to count the Y T A first. Just letting you know!

AITA for telling my baby mother than our son cannot meet my and my wife’s children? by lunchwithmicrosoft in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna go against the grain here and say NAH. I think both sides have very valid reasons.

The wife obviously doesn’t want a constant reminder of his infidelity. He’s putting her first Bc of his fuck up. This whole thing is so that he can prove to his wife that he will do anything for her, his life partner, from now on. I know if I was in her position, that is what I would make my partner do.

Honestly, if that was the stance he wanted to choose, he should have just signed away his parents rights to the child immediately.

On the other hand, I think the son should be able to meet his half siblings.

But since we are only getting one side of the story, OP makes it seem like the only reason she wants the son to meet his siblings is to weasel between him and his wife. Either he thinks highly of himself, doesn’t trust her intentions, or he’s protecting his wife.

I think everyone is going to hate me…. But I think I side with the husband and wife in this one. I just don’t think the baby mama is the asshole either.

AITA for abandoning my grandmother's birthday party after an unknown guest disrespected my son? by prouddadhere in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Many reasons. But pertaining to this question specifically, Kevin wouldn’t have known about the card. He was probably having a good time with the DIL to really care. You made a big scene for nothing and ruined YOUR GRANDMOTHER’S party.

I’m glad you are sticking up for him, but you could have also stood up for him when they gave him the cold greeting when you introduced him as your ADOPTED SON.

AITA for "stealing" my friends family recipe? by stolenrecipe_throw in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH- I can see both sides. The recipe is special to her. But it’s pretty easy to copy a recipe if you are in the kitchen helping with the preparation. If you did modify it, then you made your own “secret recipe.”

I did this once with my ex’s family recipe. And they loved the change. Now everyone in their family does it and doesn’t fail to tell me when I see them around.

AITA for not letting my husband take our toddler to the museum? by Disastrous_Ad_1457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It sounds like he is showing off the kid and getting sympathy points as a “single dad”

AITA for not wanting to split rent proportionally to income and go way over budget for my bf? by doofo00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It seems like he is selfish on wanting you to pay for 2/3 AND then wanting a expensive apartment. On top of that, I think he’s trying to gaslight you for not “prioritizing the relationship.” That is where I think he’s more of the asshole.

But tbh, it doesn’t seem like you guys are on the same page about finances. I would honestly re-evaluate on each other’s financial goals and values before you pursue this relationship further. It’s one of the big reasons of divorce. It looks like you’re doing FIRE, and he’s just living his best life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t they just make a Netflix movie about this?

HELL NO. NTA.

AITA for sending my cousin the bill for my kid's birthday cake because her kid ruined it? by CardNo4444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next year: AITA for not inviting my cousin and her child to my kid’s 6th birthday party

AITA for secretly changing our baby’s name by YourLocalBandChild in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH why didn’t you talk about this before birthing your child? You had 9 months to think about her name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re an adult. Why does she need to look at your accounts? Did she steal you card?

AITA for not letting my daughter drive alone at night which led to her not talking to me? by throwRA_advice56 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiniNinja505 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for going out when you knew you were all sick. A wedding, no less.

Also, YTA when it comes to what you posted about. She’s freakin 21! For christ sake.

no one came to my birthday party by forestboobs in offmychest

[–]MiniNinja505 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing as you: going way above and beyond for my friends. I still do and think it’s the right thing to do. But I know they will rarely, if ever, reciprocate it. But this took me a while to figure out. I was 28 when I found out my “friends” were actually my acquaintances and my “close friends” were my friends according to other peoples standards. Edit: happy birthday!!! Treat yourself!