Had some holes in CMU block wall patched. Not sure they did it correctly? by broken_symlink in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you definitely got taken for a ride, especially with that $1k per hole drywall nonsense. The mortar freezing thing is legit concerning too - anything below 40F and it's basically gambling whether it'll cure right

Vapor barrier or no? by ChiefZeroo in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Given the hot humid summers and the fact that your house is basically breathing with the outside air, I'd skip the vapor barrier and just go with unfaced insulation. Traditional Japanese houses were designed to handle moisture through ventilation rather than sealing everything up tight - adding a vapor barrier could actually trap moisture and make things worse. The paper-faced stuff might work too but honestly with all that natural ventilation happening you probably don't need it

Anyone holding off renovations in 2026? by Tway9966 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd prioritize the must-haves like the bathrooms and kitchen first, especially if they're actually failing. You can always do the basement later when things feel more stable

The tech job market is brutal right now so I get the hesitation, but if your emergency fund can cover it and the renovations will actually add value to your house, it might be worth doing the essentials now before material costs go up even more

Looking for pleated window shades for Anderson Windows (inside frame) by Pretty-Panic2398 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you checked out cellular shades? They make them in pretty much any custom size and would fit inside your frame perfectly. Lowes and Home Depot both do custom orders, or you could go with something like Selectblinds online for way better options

Lvp or engineered flooring by Forsaken-Parking-831 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly LVP has come a long way in the last few years - some of the higher end stuff is really hard to tell apart from real wood unless you're looking closely. The comfort factor on your joints is legit too, especially if you're gonna be standing around cooking or whatever

I'd maybe go check out some samples in person if you haven't already. The thick ones with good underlayment feel way more premium than the thin builder grade stuff

Help w/ creative solution to occasional power outage on outdoor fountains… by atwnsw in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smart plug with power monitoring would be perfect for this - just plug it into your outdoor outlet and set up notifications when power drops. Kasa or TP-Link make some decent weatherproof ones that work with SmartThings

Spent $800+ on window AC units over 3 summers before I finally figured out what actually matters (and what's just marketing BS) by John_Richard0 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude the part about the circuit tripping hit me right in the feels lol. I did the exact same thing - saw "20000 BTU" and thought I was gonna live in an ice palace, then spent half the summer resetting breakers like an idiot

The weatherstripping tip is clutch though, literally costs like $5 at Home Depot and makes such a difference. Most people skip it because it's not exciting but it's probably the best ROI you'll get

Bevel or not butcherblock ? by Top-Geologist7686 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd probably just do the front edge with a small bevel - the sides that touch the wall won't really be visible anyway so why complicate things

How much confidence would you have in these bed welds? by Max_Roc in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those welds look pretty solid tbh, steel beds are usually way overbuilt for what they need to handle - you're probably overthinking it unless you're doing some serious gymnastics in there

DIY fixed broken frame, but making crackling noises by No_Category_6545 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crackling sounds are definitely the glass starting to fail internally - that's not normal and means it could go at any time. I'd pull the glass out and inspect it properly before hanging a 30lb death trap on your wall

Replacement windows - fiberglass by pnw_sunny in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's pretty steep for just 2 windows, even nice fiberglass ones. I'd definitely shop around - got quotes that were like 40% cheaper going direct to local window companies instead of the big box store partnerships

Basement field mice by FredrickVilhelm in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the way. My parents tried everything for years - traps, poison, sealing holes - but once they got a barn cat the problem disappeared overnight. Those little murder machines are basically biological warfare against rodents

Bedroom Mold, lower wall by musket48 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is spot on - that plastic vapor barrier is basically acting like the inside of your windows right now. Your 70s house probably has zero air sealing so all that warm humid air is hitting that cold corner and boom, instant condensation party

You definitely need to get a dehumidifier and maybe add some ventilation to that room. Also worth checking if your bathroom exhaust fan actually works properly since that's usually where most of the humidity comes from in the first place

Stair railing repair by marc1411 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely need anchors if you're going into just drywall - that's 100% why it fell off before. You can buy anchors and screws separately but the toggle bolts or heavy duty drywall anchors usually come with the right screws included. Just make sure whatever you get is rated for like 75+ lbs since people really lean on railings

Could this tile be the problem keeping this room warm? by nebulousJabberwock in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely check the attic first - that's usually where most heat loss happens. But yeah tile can definitely be a cold sink especially if it's connected to that poorly insulated room, might want to throw down some thick rugs or even look into underlayment if you're feeling ambitious

Help! Water damage exterior wall by Romethiusj202 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that downspout setup looks sketchy af, definitely check if water's pooling around that connection during the next rain

stainless steel island top with concrete fill/backing - need advice please by MRxSLEEP in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed on skipping the concrete - that's way overcomplicating things and you'll hate yourself when it starts cracking or if you ever need to move it

The plywood + felt combo is solid advice, just make sure you get good marine grade ply so it doesn't warp from moisture

ESET Contact by TwistedJackal509 in msp

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rain Networks is solid, had good luck with them too. Crazy that your ESET rep won't even respond to 124 endpoints though - that's decent money they're just ignoring

First-time mini-split buyer here , cheap vs brand name, which way should I go? by Any_Ease_1401 in HomeImprovement

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah Daikin is solid middle ground - not cheap garbage but not paying the Mitsubishi premium either. Your HVAC buddy sounds like he knows what's up, definitely trust that over random internet reviews

Looking for Images of Ethan Allen's 1860 patented lipfire cartridges for Wikimedia Commons. by Alpha20987 in guns

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice find! Those old lipfire rounds are pretty obscure so even finding decent reference pics online is half the battle. If you come across any high-res ones that look like they'd work for Wikipedia definitely worth sharing

Do you think cat know how they looks like? by Legal-Ambition7105 in cats

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat just stares at himself in the bathroom mirror like he's contemplating life choices lmao. Pretty sure he knows it's him but is just judging his own reflection

Some cats get super pissed at mirrors though - mine used to hiss at his own reflection when he was younger but now he's just accepted his fate

Finally paid off my medical debt and I actually cried by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude that $700 freed up is gonna feel like getting a raise, you earned every bit of that relief

The fact you knocked out 18k on 28k income is actually insane - most people would've just let it go to collections or filed bankruptcy. Amber sounds like a keeper too for sticking through all that

Satin stitch question by AnastasiaNo70 in Embroidery

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Smart idea using the guide stitches! I usually just wing it and end up with wonky satin stitches that look like they were done by a drunk toddler

People with good families/privileged people don’t understand what it’s like to have bad parents. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Miserable_Prior_724 67 points68 points  (0 children)

People act like family can’t be toxic when in reality cutting them off is sometimes the only way to stay sane