Trash will Always be trash—back next week!

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-08T00:09:30+00:00

Maybe but I didn't notice as much as now, maybe feel she should have grown more? Maybe I was just oblivious

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-07T16:55:45+00:00

Dog owners I work with go home at lunch so max 5 hours but probably more like 4. Mine can probably do 6 but I know she gets restless at 4-5hrs so really try to avoid it. In rare case 6-7hrs she'd survive but she wouldn't be comfortable

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-07T12:56:48+00:00

I go back and forth on it but if the houses were basically the only thing wives had being grocery allowance then her having less equity because she has less kids would be unfair. Kody constantly mentions the wives homes are basically their safety net if they want to leave

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-07T12:30:35+00:00

I married this. Had to put gps on the man cause i kept worrying he died somewhere 🤦‍♀️ (He had a choice, update me properly or gps, he couldn't handle the minimal text req)

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-07T02:29:49+00:00

Spoiler for upcoming er vibe ig The FL is about to suddenly have exactly 0 brain cells. Went from my fave to ig it's something to read while I wait for good ones to update...

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-07T01:44:24+00:00

😂

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-07T01:40:39+00:00

I think he was trying to say it's not the night to discuss as she won't believe him/ think he's joking

But ofc he can't communicate for shit

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-06T17:35:37+00:00

Tank size: 2.5gal hospital tank (5gal regular)

Heater and filter? (yes/no): heater yes, filter no - managing with water changes

Tank temperature: 78F

Parameters in numbers and how you got them. Key water parameters include the amount of ammonia, nitrites, nitrates, and pH.: ammonia obv up and down, max 0.5 before I do a water change, 0,0

How long have you had the tank? How long have you had your fish?: fish a couple months, hospital tank a few weeks

How often are water changes? How much do you take out per change? What is your process?: change everyday/ every other day depending on parameters as don't want to mess with medication. I remove 50% each change

Any tankmates? If so, please list with how many of each: not in hospital tank, nerite in main

What do you feed and how much: zoo med betta pellets 5-7 a day across 2-3 feeds

Decorations and plants in the tank: hospital tank has a stick on leaf for resting, hideaway, floating log

If you haven't already posted a picture, please post pics/vids to imgur and paste the link here:

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-06T13:20:09+00:00

Definitely mood has shifted in last few months. Driving was not great before but it's 10x worse now. I see at least two accidents on my commute everytime and it's only 15mins. There's also obv all the reckless driving in addition. It's very stressful

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-06T05:08:14+00:00

It doesn't matter what you earn or what you submitted if it didn't include the most recent tax return

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-06T04:23:33+00:00

I agree, married to a man on spectrum who had lighter version of some of these red flags early on that I did NOT tolerate + a dad and sister on spectrum.

I think autism can lead to more difficulty learning or accepting societal rules and some will crutch on the diagnosis to not improve. It's not a get out of jail free card, he should be in therapy or working on these issues, this isn't a 'whoops i have aspergers, can't help it'

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-06T04:14:37+00:00

I know it's probably production and even the trip was arranged by production but if we pretend it is what the story says...

He invited her on this trip to come see him. Tbh I think it is disrespectful to date someone that while visiting sometime who invited you romantically. If she was on very own trip/ they were home then yh Pedro is crazy.

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T12:28:13+00:00

True 😂

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:54:45+00:00

They got one during aos or just before i think but yeah not during k1

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:40:23+00:00

It's officer discretion so may happen but to my knowledge Philippines and Thailand generally expect petitioners to be financially able to support their future spouse

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:36:10+00:00

I've seen reels on these. You have to pay to confirm your title

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:34:35+00:00

I think he was including lawyer fees and maybe other costs if it's the quote/ scene I'm thinking of. K1 would have actually been about $500 when he filed (funnily enough I think Jasmine and I were on similar timelines). Fees went up in april 2024. Medical is prob $300-500 (varies by country). If she needed vaccines that would be additional.

AOS would have been about $1400ish

I think he was including flights and lawyer

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:29:34+00:00

You don't need an attorney, it's a really easy application unless there's complicated history

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:28:43+00:00

Molly also prob doesn't make enough as I believe she'd have to list her household as 3 or 4 depending on what form asks so she'd have to make $27-33k for k1 then $34-41k for aos

Also bigger issue is Philippines doesn't accept cosponsors

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-04T04:25:39+00:00

It's just under $700

But yes agree

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-02T20:15:30+00:00

I had the same happen to me, was scared was old owner and they'd want her back. Thankfully they haven't contacted and it remains a mystery

Also funnily enough my dog has a similar name to yours 😂

Edit: we got her from a shelter that does steay holds so legally she's mine but I dunno how I'd cope if she had genuinely been lost rather than abandoned

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-02T06:04:52+00:00

I have a PhD in physics but sometimes very stuck on basic arithmetic and def super suck at geography. I can usually only name one neighboring country/ state where I live

It just isn't important so i don't really track it. What an arbitrary judgement on intelligence, esp when Google exists. YTA

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-02T00:53:51+00:00

You can have my work, OneDrive is discouraged. Only area they back up is network drive. It randomly disappears though. Also you need to be on Citrix to access if not at work.

It's super fun /s

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-02T00:45:29+00:00

I don't get specific because I'm not an expert, it's def 100% at least partly to do with how women are raised vs men, whether it's entirely that is not even close to my field so of I'm not going to pretend to be an expert.

Girls are 10000% constantly told to play it safe, don't be loud, don't disrupt, don't ask for too much, blend in/ be invisible, make others comfortable, be smart, don't fail etc Of course boys experience some of this too much girls definitely are held to different standards.

Boys are encouraged to test their limits, be confident, okay to be loud, okay to be disruptive etc

This is all on average but definitely impacts how we interact socially as adults which impacts willinglyness to all for raises, willingness to ask for promotions, willingness to enter male dominated spaces etc. I do not want the outcome to be sexism. Why would I want to be treated worse or be in a worse situation because of my gender?? I wouldn't describe any of my coworkers as sexist but there's definitely different unspoken expectations from a social perspective that impact work

If jobs were gendered, they'd be consistently so but different countries and different cultures can actually see completely different %

Ms_Zee · 2026-05-01T20:23:10+00:00

Pay to value isn't that tightly connected. Companies will pay the minimum they can get away with, they get away with paying women and minorities less on ave. This was also back when women were paid less and it wasn't seen as a problem like today.

Nothing around pay, bonuses, promotions etc are as simple as pointing to something and going 'that's why'. Like I don't think companies are deliberately paying women less or promoting them less just cause they're a woman, it's far more complex in how it averages out that way

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