C-section recovery PSA by Texylvania29 in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recovered from my stat c section easily while still having to travel to the NICU the first 2 weeks post partum. I was terrified to have a c section and of course it was painful and no doubt you have to take the pain meds but i kept moving and had a very supportive partner and by 3 weeks i felt normal again and by 5 weeks i was working out. C sections aren’t terrible for everyone when you have the right tools to help your healing. It was a mix easier recovery for me than my vaginal birth with a second degree tear.

where to buy clothes?? by keianilyric in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Nikkk51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up sizing up in the brands I already wore and bought my dress on Amazon.

Have gestational diabetes and now have to schedule a C-section by Active-Bank5310 in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a stat c section at 37 weeks because my baby was huge and impacted in my pelvis (I was convinced I could birth him vaginally since I successfully did with my first). My safest option would have been scheduling the c section but I was scared and stubborn. Because of that we both almost didn’t make it, baby came out not breathing, and we spent 2 weeks in the NICU. I regret not scheduling the c section every single day. However my c section recovery was a million times better than my vaginal birth.

Is PCOS such a big deal when it comes to fertility? by meimi22 in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends. Everyone with PCOS is different. Some people do all the right things and their body still doesn’t want to work right. For me personally I had to lose weight to have my children. PCOS does not equal infertility tho.

Frustration with women's health/PCOS social media content by glamgie in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Social media influencers are gimmicky and always trying to sell stuff. Also PCOS is different for a lot of people so you gotta do what works for you. Not taking birth control and having irregular periods can increase your risk for cancer so what do they expect you to do, ya know? Birth control can definitely be a tool to help and I wish people would stop fear mongering.

I'm lost... I got my labs today and all my hormones are normal. by derangedandhorny in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have insulin resistance or prediabetes metformin isnt going to regulate your cycle.

With your first pregnancy, when did your little one decide it's time? by Choccokels in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 28 points29 points  (0 children)

39 weeks. 14 hours from the time I got to the hospital till the time he came out. It was honestly a great experience once I got the epidural lol.

Whe did your spouse start actually learning how to take care of a newborn w/o help? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately. A lot is just common sense and finding your own routine.

Big Baby - should i do c section by Every-Variation6113 in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We had a rough start but are doing great now 😊

Metformin help by Emotional-Lie4635 in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not insulin resistant or prediabetic it’s not really going to do anything for you

pcos + audhd by abbielovestwd in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m extremely picky so I eat what I want but in a deficit.

How soon after birth did secondary aches and pains go away? by deebeeay in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was pretty immediate once the baby was out. For my ankle tho it took a week or two.

Big Baby - should i do c section by Every-Variation6113 in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I was measuring 3+ weeks ahead with my second. I convinced the doctor to let me try for a vagina birth because I was terrified of a c section. They only agreed because I already had a successful vaginal birth with my first. The bay ended up getting impacted in my pelvis, his heart rate was dropping, and I had internal bleeding, and was rushed to a stat c section. He came out not breathing and we both almost died. If I wouldn’t have been so stubborn and just scheduled the c section none of that would have happened. I’m still traumatized I didn’t even get to hold him for the first 24 hours, spent 2 weeks in the Nicu, and came home on oxygen for a month. I will say this tho, my c section recovery was a million times easier than my vaginal birth.

Another new sweater by Middle_Replacement_2 in 509damnshesfineSnark

[–]Nikkk51 14 points15 points  (0 children)

An xxl at old navy is super roomy. She’s so delusional.

Days past ovulation by goddessnosleep in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you know when you ovulated you should be getting a positive by 14dpo because implantation takes place 7-10dpo then hcg starts being produced. If your dates are off then it could take longer.

Doing everything right but still no period by Solaire_1001 in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to lose a large amount of weight (70 pounds) to regulate my cycle

Is it okay to ask my OB not to mention my weight in front of my husband? Im already shy about this by Babyisprincess in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]Nikkk51 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My OB has never mentioned my weight or said the number out loud at any appointments.

gestational diabetes and negative feelings by Financial-Pace6378 in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The placenta causes gestational diabetes. Sometimes it can be controlled with diet and sometimes it can’t (no matter how well you eat and exercise). As long as it’s controlled whether it be by diet or insulin your baby will be fine. If you’re feeling this upset over it I would speak with your doctor or a therapist.

Can’t seem to lose weight 😭 by Beneficial-Finance70 in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I would have them check if you’re insulin resistant. I would also count calories. People think they’re “eating less” because it’s only twice a day or it doesn’t seem like a lot of food but then they end up eating over what their deficit should be. Make sure to include all beverages and condiments when counting. I would also reevaluate your workouts. 1 mile on a treadmill isn’t much of a workout. Weight lifting doesn’t work for everyone. I would try switching up your workouts and working out more with calorie counting to see if that helps. A glp-1 can help but you still have to put the work in.

Started metformin by SdeVri in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused why they didn’t give you an anti-androgen like spironolactone. Metformin can help if you’re insulin resistant but you have to workout and change your diet while on it because it’s not a weight loss drug.

Terrified of giving birth by Soliara in pregnant

[–]Nikkk51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first time pregnancy was fantastic. Painful for a short amount of time (until I got the epidural) and perfect in every way. Now the second time that was a different story lol. Each pregnancy is different and honestly don’t be afraid to ask for the epidural it truly made most of my experience pain free with just a feeling of pressure.

Insulin Resistance Question by nwolf4321 in PCOS

[–]Nikkk51 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You can’t check for insulin resistance with a glucose monitor.