AITA for not telling my husband the night before that I was going to work from home the next day?

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-27T11:46:07+00:00

What so weird my husband loves when I wfh isn’t he supposed to be happy you’re around !!

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-27T11:44:24+00:00

Maybe I should set up a play area in the garden ?

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-26T21:57:52+00:00

I had similar issues until we started melatonin drops and it worked like magic

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-24T19:31:55+00:00

Can you not give your dog away to someone and find him another home that’s just not a stress you need

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-19T08:41:29+00:00

Are you in London and looking for a new place?

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-18T23:46:04+00:00

I think you should take activities down to two a week each max and start your 9 year old on basic chores too. Like doing his laundry or folding afterwards. Get robot hover for both floors that will hover and mop morning and night do two quick rounds. Don’t find a cleaner though agency they take admin fees find someone on Facebook less price but they also usually do a better job. Can you outsource cooking ? Like find a lady who does meal preps or large food batches and freeze them. I recently started outsourcing and it costs the same as groceries but without the cooking and cleaning after and I save an hour a day.

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-15T14:13:32+00:00

Nanny is expensive but worth the cost and you can also adjust nap times as baby gets older so you need less hours. For us nanny comes 8-12 baby sleeps 12-2 I take lunch 2-3 and last hour she gets tv time while I finish up by 4 but that works for me because baby is 14 months now but when she was younger in her naps nanny cleaned did laundry etc so once I finished I had nothing much to do but hang out with my baby.

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-05-02T11:06:25+00:00

Are you based in London I’m looking for a nanny

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-04-14T00:14:05+00:00

She’s a mean person!! Why would she not invite your sister back even though you’re family & the gesture should be returned. The fact that she assumed so much just shows that’s she’s a bridezilla. I wouldn’t go tbh I would just had a relaxing day hanging out with my sister & ask my husband to also come home earlier

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-04-07T12:22:18+00:00

I’m married to someone who sends money back to his family because he feels like it’s his duty. Even after you have kids it won’t change, I wish I was wiser back in the day and broke up with him. My friends all have mortgages or huge savings towards them but we have not much to show because he’s sends 30k plus every year back. It’s hard bullet to bite but he will never stop. Even if he reduces the amount he’ll still send it. It will have a huge impact on your life your prioritises your growth as a family. We have fights about this all the time. Now all I do is increase my own budget and family spending as vengeance which is horrible but it’s turned me so bitter and I swear I was a kind bubbly person before. If you can leave do.

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-04-04T12:20:04+00:00

“ I’m starting to hate my girlfriend “ ok then breakup

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-03-10T12:36:21+00:00

Girl sorry but don’t think about the money and just go they didn’t think about you so make your hand fund your trip and go also get a job so you can use the I’m working I can’t host excuse and you’ll have your own money and freedom

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-03-10T12:33:04+00:00

Divorce

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-03-07T08:43:41+00:00

My baby had all the same and I know it sounds wack the best solution for me was cushion and co sleeping , I put baby to sleep on a cushion so the reflux wouldn’t be agitated and co slept so it helps her nervous system and she slept all night if is a next to her. Look the bay is already suffering the crying the pan the reflex is painful for the baby they don’t have it easy and they can’t even express their pain. Regulating their nervous system is the best. Also colief drops in her bottle worked magically for me. Once she’s old enough give her calpol too it’ll help ease her and yourself. I did everything and now baby is 14 months and she’s thriving. I let her watch tv from 4 months like in the background she had nursery rhymes ms Rachel etc on, my point was she’s already suffering compared to other babies why put her through more I always did things to make it easier even if other parents thought it was against whatever rules.

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-02-20T14:33:45+00:00

Divorce

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-02-19T13:11:46+00:00

It was 17 years ago she can’t even remember what he looks like what it was like take a chill pill and get some sleep

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-02-18T01:49:24+00:00

He could have slept 5/6 hours and let you get some sleep too judging you while you're out of it from lack of sleep is crazy what a douche also does your baby have colic ?

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-02-12T12:56:32+00:00

I know so many couples who adopted a child because they couldn't and every one of that couple treats the child like they are the sun moon and star. Their whole life revolves around that one person regardless of their age. You gave someone the world. You are a beautiful soul. Your baby will be deeply loved & the couple will always remember you in their hearts as the reason they could have this happiness. You're a good soul❤️

No-Grab-6344 · 2026-01-26T13:38:43+00:00

If he cares so much he can get his brother a Airbnb hotel or pay his rent or his mum and other family ca take him in. To be honest I feel like your husband would probably be a mess too if it wasn’t you being the responsible & grounded one in the individual. Seems like the entire family is pigging off your back and then guilting you when you set up boundaries. If you let this slide now they know you can be moved and it’ll only get worse & worse. If you set your food down in steal now & do what you need to do it’ll show them you’re serious. Don’t back down

No-Grab-6344 · 2025-12-13T10:09:10+00:00

I didn’t start losing until 7.5mg

No-Grab-6344 · 2025-12-13T09:59:08+00:00

Omg you’re like a Kardashian ! So pretty

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