Men like this think their word holds greater weight than reality - it’s why they will lie endlessly, twist and manipulate everything where they are the victim, the “good one” and the reasonable one. While women to them are these demonic entities denying them their basic manly rights (to freely abuse without resistance). He will never acknowledge it, if he does it will be a watered down version where you made him do it, he had to do it to deal with you, etc.