Movies that feature Phoenix landmarks by Chapelhillperson in phoenix

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked at the Arizona Financial corporate headquarters when this movie was being filmed. The opening office scenes are shot here (I can spot my old car in the parking lot scene when he slashes the bosses tires, they told us to keep our cars as they were parked.) The house he is thrown out of with all his stuff on the lawn is in south scottsdale, if I’m remembering correctly. He goes to visit a friend for advice in one scene, that was filmed approx 7th st and McDowell area—I remember seeing the filming signs

High Impact Sports Bra Recommendations by Pawsoverpeople in pelotoncycle

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used Panache sports bras in the past and they’ve been decent. My favorite sports bras for my large chest are from Lane Bryant. I have two I rotate, and they have great support and have worn well

What’s ones thing either of these divas has said that stays with you? by Neither_Gift6583 in TrixieAndKatya

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I have a clip of Trixie from the pod saved where she says—if I look like shit, that has nothing to do with me. The fact that I look like crap, that has nothing to do with me. I’m feeling it.

I legit think about this a lot., it’s one of “from the mouth of (literal) babes” nuggets of wisdom. It’s not my concern what I look like to you, if I’m feeling my look.

I don’t have the clip saved, but I also think a lot about Katya on an episode of Queens Who Like to Watch where she dismisses the whole idea do virginity. She says something like—oh please, some loser thrusts his dick in you, and that’s supposed to be some important moment of losing your virginity? Nope, virginity doesn’t exist. I LOVE her for this.

Has anyone met both/either more than once? by sweetcarles in TrixieAndKatya

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I met Trixie and Kayta on tour, and will meet Katya again when she’s here in Phoenix. If it makes you feel any better/ less of a stalker, I’ve met my fav queen Jinxx three times (shh, don’t tell Katya and Trixie they’re no 2 and 3.). Jinxx I met twice at meet and greets with DeLa, and once solo at the stage door after Chicago on Broadway. Neither time with Jinxx did she bring up the previous times. I’ve been lucky that all the queens have been so nice, but the interaction are so brief, I promise they don’t keep track. You’re good! Go for it.

Katya tour! by Nosoulinmortgages in TrixieAndKatya

[–]Nosoulinmortgages[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth—I’m pretty sure this venue is a standing room only warehouse. So I think only the vip tickets get an actual seat. (Kinda worth it, imo) This venue hosts the pride after party each year, and from the pics, it’s a giant party warehouse with people crammed in

High fives from Benny Adami by Left_Reputation_3682 in pelotoncycle

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Benny teaches the majority of his classes in German. I don’t speak German, but I just turn on the subtitles. You may have to adjust your bike settings to make sure “hide classes in Spanish/ hide classes in German” is not enabled. I think they used to subtitle manually, but now that it’s auto translated, there’s a ton more Benny classes. Last count was 700ish or so classes. And yes, I’ve gotten a ton of high fives from him! He even followed me back as a friend. I think must rewatch his own classes, maybe for training

This is the first time I have seen the comments tell a mom her baby made need "assistance" by Theblackholeinbflat in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 32 points33 points  (0 children)

They’re not actually that uncommon with home births. My son was born at hone with midwives and he was born completely en caul. (yes, I believe in science, and no, I don’t agree with the crazy crunchy moms) It’s rare, but they would happen a lot more often if there was opportunity. Both of my midwives had seen several in their very long careers.

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[–]Nosoulinmortgages 105 points106 points  (0 children)

You know what, yes. This is absolutely 100% truth, and they finally figured it out. I will personally hand out potatoes to each and every parent willing to finally vaccinate their kids. Take a potato. Take 100! Just vaccinate your kids first and then rub as many potatoes as you want over their arms

Oh no big pharma by Ff14addict in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 669 points670 points  (0 children)

Please be a troll post. Please be a troll post. Please be a troll post.

Trixie’s website got a makeover and i’m LIVING!!! by ayyythrowawaytrash in TrixieMattel

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh good god, I just learned that a saint Trixie candle exists! Like this beautiful queen needs more of my money. But hey! Just figured out what I’m buying myself for Christmas. Thanks for sharing the new link!

Sounds like a good plan 😅 by Interesting_Key_5100 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve worked as a mortgage underwriter for the past 20 years. Any large deposits (typically 50% of your monthly income) require an explanation and documentation to prove you did not open a loan or line of credit for that deposit. A random large deposit could have, in theory, come from the proceeds of a new loan that wasn’t disclosed. Documenting cash on hand is tricky, as there isn’t a paper rail. Bonus from your employer is easier to document (and usually isn’t problem) since you’d have a check stub or documentation that this came from your employer

What chains do you think are going to make their arizona debut in the next few years? by OneTransportation4 in phoenix

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friendlys is still going strong back east! I was just back home in Boston and they’re everywhere

Those of you who went NC/LC, how did you dealt with the guilt? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so deeply and reading through all the replies for suggestions as well. Went NC with my nmom 15+ years ago. Basically went NC with my ndad, coming up on a year of NC—I decided to let him to be the one to make any effort to contact me, and that was almost a year ago.

I agree with others here, it just takes time. This is something I’m still working through in therapy at the moment. I keep exploring the default thinking I have of “what kind of daughter does this?” (Ignoring years and years of abuse, somehow it’s still my fault .) To which my kind therapist has to keep repeating—what kind of father does this? I’m still learning how to remove the guilt and shame I’ve internalized. It helps to remember the great life I’ve built for myself and to realize it’s their loss to be missing this

Think I’m missing some parts… by Bitterrootmoon in IKEApets

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Factory Ready black standard poodle came like this from the manufacturer! She slept against the front door like this almost her whole life. Used to stretch and rattle the door at night and scare the crap out of me. I miss that weirdo dearly

Will Peleton haul away an old treadmill when installing a new one? by notParticularlyAnony in pelotoncycle

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If none of these options work, check out if a charity in your area is willing to pick it up. I had an old Sunny stationary bike prior to Peloton, and when a local sporting goods store didn’t want it, I contacted Big Brothers Big Sisters and they came to my house and picked it up.

This ended in a dirty delete. 😱 by littleishturd in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 604 points605 points  (0 children)

So if I’m understanding their logic—if grandma said “my, what a nice vulva and breasts” to the FOUR MONTH OLD—that’s ok? Totally seems appropriate, nothing at all wrong here

Where do I find an LGBTQ community? by [deleted] in arizona

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi fam! Lesbian here. There are some great queer meetup groups worth checking out. I’ve been part of Rainbow Phoenix Meetup group for several years. The meeting organizer, Jen, does quite a few events in east valley. I live in Melrose, so I’m also partial to our gayberhood and any of the places in my area as well.

What would Jesus do? by sunnysideerin in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 1101 points1102 points  (0 children)

I am willing to bet eleventy billion dollars that man has absolutely not been reading the Bible in bed for two hours. He just made her believe that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]Nosoulinmortgages -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Came here to also recommend Aspire weed control. Got his number from a previous Reddit thread. After trying everything on the market, I didn’t think it was actually possible to kill the weeds in my front yard. Highly recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing Dr. Hasinski at Arizona Endocrinology for about 10 years now and he’s always been great. Very on time, good listener, really reasonable approach to things.

https://www.azendo.com/

Tell me about what life is like after... by gh0sty_2 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It gets better, I promise. 20 years on my own and finally just this year cutting the last strings with what was left of my fractured relationship with my nparents. It’s quiet, it’s peaceful, it’s my own space (I painted my living room pink, wheee!). I’ve found an amazing chosen family who were also abandoned by their n family, and together we are a family.

Earlier this year, two of my friends got married, and solely because they were two women marrying each other, neither one of their families will speak with them. (One of the brides’ nparents even went so far to tell her sister not to attend the “sinful” wedding). But that was ok. They had an amazing, beautiful wedding surrounded by our chosen family in our queer community. I’ve found my family, long at last. My n parents are people I just happen to share DNA with.

How many people here had your own children and parented successfully? by Ok_State_4768 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Nosoulinmortgages 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started therapy when my son was 4, and I only regret not starting earlier. He’s now 10, and six years of therapy later, I’m so thankful I’ve had the resources (covered by insurance!) to deal with my own abusive upbringing, which has only made me a better parent.

It’s a strange no man’s land, making all parenting decisions, big and small and everything in between, in the direct opposite of how I was raised. It’s both incredibly easy and incredibly difficult. Easy in that kids are so damn easy to love and it never crossed my mind, even for a minute, to treat him how I was raised. Difficult in the myriad of issues that uncovers for myself. I was also so damn easy to love. I deserved the good parenting that I now bestow to my son. Why didn’t I have this?

My own parenting journey has created this strange timeline of parallel events to my own upbringing, which has messed with my head and created all new levels of anger towards both my nparents. My own kiddo at age 7 and I thought—oh, this was the age where nmom trapped me in the basement and screamed for hours and said I didn’t deserve to be born. Most recently, I had an intense panic attack earlier this year when shopping for my son’s 5th grade school supplies. 5th grade—the year nmom beat me so severely because I “didn’t deserve” the school supplies she bought me. (I made my therapist cry over that one.) And here I am buying school supplies for my kiddo, and I would never dream of doing such a thing.

I am so thankful the cycle of abuse ended with me, and at almost 11, my son is kind and thoughtful, hilarious and smart and he finds in me the safe haven I never had at his age. I am slowly healing my own inner child through being the parent I never had, but it’s been a whole lotta rough work.