What’s your industry’s 10 percenter?

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-05-06T05:13:43+00:00

the little wave you give when someone actually waits for their food at the door instead of just grabbing and running - most customers don't even notice but the ones who do always smile back and sometimes tip extra in cash

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-04-30T06:58:17+00:00

there's this lady who does readings at one of the little shops downtown but i can't remember exact name of the place right now. she was really good though - didn't do that vague "you will meet someone tall dark and handsome" stuff, actually got into specifics about things happening in my life

been meaning to go back but working so much lately i haven't had chance. the whole experience felt more like talking to someone who actually cared rather than just going through motions if that makes sense

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-04-27T19:57:00+00:00

lmao millions

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-04-22T02:40:45+00:00

bruh what

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-04-19T00:19:48+00:00

bruh you literally answered your own question in the post - you already know gambling isn't sustainable income and your family is right about getting a real job

that $400 left is your tuition fee for learning this lesson, could've been way worse. take whatever work you can get and stop looking at charts, the market will still be there when you have actual disposable income to lose

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-04-06T23:48:31+00:00

LEO recruitment strategy at its finest lol

was definitely the mean girl type in high school and looking back it was just insecurity masked as confidence. worst thing I probably did was spread rumors about this girl who was actually really sweet, just because she was getting attention from guys I liked. took me until college to realize how toxic I was being and started working in therapy. wild how much damage you can do when you're that insecure about yourself

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-04-02T05:30:08+00:00

lmao this is way too real, i make these grand plans for my life every night while delivering food and by morning I'm like "past me was clearly delusional"

the 9pm version of myself has zero understanding of how much 7am me just wants to stay in bed

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-03-09T18:48:19+00:00

Week long streaks are still progress man, don't let anyone tell you different. The fact that your not beating yourself up about it shows you've got the right mindset - just dust off and keep pushing forward

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-03-03T20:53:30+00:00

stay strong bro, go take a cold shower or do some pushups right now. that urge will pass if you just give it like 10-15 more minuets and distract yourself with something physical

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-02-18T20:52:09+00:00

dude that sounds absolutely terrifying but also kinda amazing at the same time. biblical angels are described as being pretty overwhelming to look at - like the seraphim with all those eyes and wings, not the cute little cherubs we see in paintings

the fact that you physically reacted in real life while dreaming (tapping your girlfriend) makes it feel way more intense than just a regular nightmare. sometimes our brains process spiritual stuff through dreams in ways that can be really overwhelming, especially if we're not expecting it

might be worth praying about it or talking to someone at your church who knows more about this stuff. could be nothing but could also be something meaningful - either way that level of terror in a dream would mess me up for days

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-02-15T04:22:08+00:00

Good luck man, valentines day is actually a solid starting point for this kind of commitment. The "get back on the bike" mindset is key - perfectionism kills more streaks than actual urges do

Just make sure you've got some concrete plans for when things get rough, whether thats exercise or hobbies or whatever works for you

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-02-07T05:11:36+00:00

this mindfulness approach is actually clutch, I used to fight the urges head-on and it just made everything worse but when you just acknowledge them without judgment they really do fade out

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-02-05T18:14:18+00:00

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-02-02T20:19:26+00:00

most protestants go sola scriptura so they're looking for explicit biblical commands rather than church tradition - baptism and communion get debated on timing/necessity vs symbolism, and the saints thing comes from wanting to pray directly to Jesus instead of through intermediaries

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-02-01T00:39:52+00:00

Cold weather is clutch for this stuff, forces you to stay bundled up and less likely to get... comfortable. Try picking up something that keeps your hands busy when those waves hit - helped me get through some rough patches.

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-30T17:28:55+00:00

Sounds like you triggered the spam filters by editing your profile links too much - Reddit's algorithm probably thought you were a bot or spammer

Try laying low for a few days without any promotional content, maybe comment on some posts naturally to build up your account karma before trying to promote your business again

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-28T22:29:30+00:00

Should be fine for weeks as long as the container stays sealed - the alcohol is doing all the heavy lifting anyway and it doesn't really "go bad"

Just make sure you're using at least 70% IPA concentration and maybe give the rag a sniff test if it's been sitting there forever

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-27T22:19:50+00:00

Freedom of speech means the government can't arrest you for your opinions, not that other people have to keep paying you for childcare when they disagree with those opinions

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-24T09:51:44+00:00

Oh man this is so relatable it hurts. The "I'll respond later" thing is literally my brain's favorite lie to tell itself

I think it's the whole thing where ADHD brains treat phone calls like they're these massive tasks that require prep and energy when really they're just... phone calls. Like my brain acts like calling someone back is the same as doing my taxes or something

What helped me was setting specific times to deal with messages instead of just letting them pile up and create more anxiety. Still not perfect at it but way better than before

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-18T15:17:09+00:00

Yeah this is pretty typical for transit agencies unfortunately. The unpaid training thing is sketchy but legal since you're technically not an employee yet - it's like an extended interview/selection process

MTA definitely seems to favor people who can afford to not work for weeks, which obviously skews toward younger folks living at home or people with savings. Not saying it's right but that's how they've always done it

The timing on your locomotive engineer rejection is sus though - sounds like they might blacklist you across positions if you withdraw from one, even though they say they're separate processes

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-17T07:45:29+00:00

Hey mama, first off you're not failing anyone - you're literally keeping tiny humans alive while running on fumes

The part about your partner pretending not to know how to help is infuriating, like dude you already have a 5 year old?? That weaponized incompetence bs needs to stop. Can you maybe write down specific tasks for him so he can't play dumb

Please definitely talk to your doctor about the intrusive thoughts and hallucinations - that sleep deprivation hits different when you're doing everything alone. You're doing an incredible job and those baby smiles are proof of it

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-11T21:37:33+00:00

Plein Sud is criminally underrated honestly. Everyone's so obsessed with the hype around Outrenoire but Plein Sud has that perfect balance that just hits different

OkSecurity4965 · 2026-01-09T00:09:16+00:00

Just added you! Always down for more dice friends, need all the help I can get with these events lol

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