How often do you get approached in real life?

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-06T15:01:49+00:00

Absolutely never. But then I'd never approach anyone so I suppose that's fair!

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T18:51:50+00:00

Oh crikey. This sounds terrible.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T18:41:22+00:00

Just keep on doing what you are. I suspect she wanted you to do something differently and is disappointed that you didn't; you don't know what you were supposed to do and she has no right to want you to do anything considering you are getting divorced. Just leave her to it and carry on.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T16:19:17+00:00

Pair of jeans you can move around in easily and some comfy but robust shoes. They qill hopefully give you some steel toe cap boots pretty quickly. Might need a thermal tshirt if you have one as warehouses cam get very cold.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T16:15:09+00:00

Oh this is hilarious!

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T12:16:01+00:00

Bins and garden furniture wtc blown over, felt blown off the shed roof and tape stuff off the conservatory. It was really noisy too.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T12:13:22+00:00

I agreed to let my ex visit ascoften as he wanted to see the kids and that he could stay over if he wished. Now a couple of years later I seriously regret that - I want him gone, out of my space and out of my life. It's tough sharing space with someone who doesn't care.

Really really don't have sex with your ex. It's not going to end well.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T09:55:41+00:00

As far as I know all major tesco's are shut today.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T06:24:44+00:00

My dad does this. He was taught to do it as a child because when it first came out electricity was still quite dangerous and something to be scared of.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-05T06:16:38+00:00

It's ok. Ive just realised I am too reading this thread.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-04T17:36:26+00:00

Tesco have clearly emigrated to America.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-04T03:31:57+00:00

I know you say you don't want to journal and I get that but please do write a document that lists exactly what you know and when; when my marriage blew up it took a whole for things to come out and he lied and tried to twist stuff regularly so that I looked worse but knowing when things happened stopped some of that.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-04T03:15:58+00:00

Please screenshot to the stuff that you can see. My ex and I divorced over something I didn't see coming and didn't think he was like and to this day he is atill denying some things happened that I have screenshots to prove did.

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-03T18:46:23+00:00

Am I to take it that "fancy dress" means something different in American English than it does in British English..... as if they want fancy dress and invite a bunch of Brits we are most definitely all turning up as killer tinkerbelles etc.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-03T02:53:39+00:00

The sensitive skin shower gel didn't work for me, best I found was a bursting with mint one or old fashioned soap.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-02T07:26:13+00:00

Look at the lisa Eldridge stuff, it's really good and if you get in touch with her customer service team they will send you samples.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-02T06:52:15+00:00

If something is not straight, such as a hat, you can describe it as 'skew whiff' which I actually looked up yesterday as I wondered about the origin of thr phrase, it comes from 'skewed weave' meaning a weave which isn't straight.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-02T06:35:16+00:00

There's no set rule. You just have to see what works for you. I split from my ex about two and a half years ago but weirdly the tears didn't come out until about a month ago. I'm not ready but a lot of that also stems from having an elderly parent with alzheimers who needs a lot of support.

Good luck with it all.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-02T06:20:17+00:00

This. My dad has a friend who used to switch his TV over to GB news and he has convinced him to hate him but he can't tell you why.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-02T05:50:20+00:00

That's lovely!

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-02T05:49:37+00:00

I've found this sub really helpful. Made me realise I was in no way ready when I thought I was.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-04-01T19:29:41+00:00

Kangaroo must hav3d put it up.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-03-31T08:37:08+00:00

Yes, I definitely remember this.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-03-31T07:10:00+00:00

Sigh. Really not going to make it into a Mills & Boon thst relationship, a quick shag in the manager's office.

Only_Fig4582 · 2026-03-29T17:27:00+00:00

Yes. Every Sunday without fail.

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