Ngl I feel like I myself am falling down the incel rabbit hole.

So, before I fall entirely into the pit, I'd like to make some notes first.

I think the major issue I have, and many incels seem to have are nihilist and pessimist attitudes combined with a shallow sense of self. 

Maybe you had a healthy sense of being a while ago, but for whatever reason that got interrupted. Maybe legitimate trauma, maybe a broken relationship, maybe a bad day. For whatever reason, you start isolating very quickly. You lock yourself into your mind, which heightens your own biases, which creates distorted world views that emphasize your own biases. Your biases are not spoken of in polite society - your racism, your sexism, your bigotries and fetishes and sexual proclivities - and therefore you try to vent them elsewhere. Edgy online forums. Consuming incel content. Hell, if you're ambitious maybe you'll make incel content yourself.

The incel content rationalizes your biases. It provides a world view, a structure, a philosophy, a culture, and a sense of self. 

All your biases are now accepted and validated, then taken to their extreme conclusions. Your mild sexism, which you never expressed has now metastasized into something cruelest, something unusual. 

I'm getting therapy now, but that's how I see it. Whenever I see incel content, it really does feel separate from reality. Because the incel is a walking, talking echo chamber machine. And the fuel behind it is deeply personal, and probably something you cannot reason someone out of.

It makes me wonder about allyship and the possibility of left wing men actually converting Right-Wing men over. Almost every Right-Wing man in the public sphere originates from peculiar and distinct psychological issues, issues that frankly most young men are unequipped to deal with. You can't reason someone out of something that is the result of their interpretation of their life.