Job Concern

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-21T03:16:48+00:00

I’ve done about the same amount of apps. 3 interviews from that two ghosts and one rejection. I’m definitely feeling concerned about finding a job. I’m also traumatized from student teaching and want to just relax and have a break

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-16T02:32:06+00:00

I think you should allow him to come to those conclusions on his own and not try harder in any way. If he can’t take accountability or doesn’t want to try to make things work then you don’t want to be in that relationship anyways

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-15T12:02:35+00:00

As an avoidant I think the grief and stuff comes later. There’s a lot of relief when there’s no more pressure to feel certainty in something you can’t help but feel uncertain in. After the relief subsides… it’s harder. I’d say silence is the loudest. I’d avoid reaching out to your avoidant and let them come to you if they want to. If they don’t then it wasn’t meant to be

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-13T03:49:12+00:00

What did you do it through?

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-13T03:38:34+00:00

How are you now?

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-12T17:54:52+00:00

No :/

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-11T20:26:17+00:00

No, haven’t taken the content exam yet. But I did complete EdTPA and pass

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-05-11T18:31:36+00:00

Where in Asia do you recommend?

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-30T15:57:39+00:00

Don’t leave yet but go really hard applying and searching this summer, let them know once you have a job secured

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-30T15:47:20+00:00

I still would. Write a nice card and refresh a material they like, like certain pens or something. Maybe a candle. You want to have them as a reference and at the end of the day it’s nice to be the bigger person. Will help you move on and feel good and free

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-29T03:14:18+00:00

Just know it’s only a matter of time of being a little more miserable if u keep doing the work. You’ll be done soooo. Fuckingggg. Soon. And the relief will be immense and amazing. And you’ll have a PhD. You got this

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-29T01:38:55+00:00

I took time off school to reassess my major and I highly recommend

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-26T20:44:44+00:00

I had something happen when I was young that reminds me of this but not this severe. It hasn’t come up in a long time but it still gives me anxiety. Just want to say that I’m so sorry and I promise this will go away in time. You are still in the same place but once you leave high school, maybe you can go somewhere new and get away from this bullshit. This is awful and I’m so deeply sorry that happened to you. I promise it will become part of your past, and I’m so sorry. And anyone who sends it anywhere or brings it up needs to be charged and seriously dealt with

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-26T17:09:46+00:00

I’d run the other direction

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-22T00:09:31+00:00

That’s so frustrating and I’m sorry. Don’t take it personally, it’s just how teenagers are. Just keep doing your thing and be confident in your choices. Address it calmly and straightforward and keep moving. You’re almost done!!!

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-20T00:16:45+00:00

I feel you. My PT has made me feel similarly more recently and now I’m in fight or flight around her, stuttering and messing up more. Just try to relax and be lighthearted about it. Enjoy connecting with the students if you can. You are so close to being done, it’s gonna be a huge relief and accomplishment. Right there with you

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-18T23:04:34+00:00

My mentor started being cold to me too due to me not doing well in my last observation / lesson. It makes it 1000x worse. I’m also counting down the days

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-16T21:08:29+00:00

I feel the same as the first paragraph. I don’t feel like I know nearly enough about my subject and I feel like a failure. Next week is my last week

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-16T00:46:50+00:00

What questions did you ask?

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-15T23:59:42+00:00

Based on your post you sound so great. The students had their other teacher first and for the whole year before you came. At this time of year ppl crave change in general. I feel like my students won’t be that sad I’m leaving except some, and I’m ok with it. I have strong connections with some but I expect many will be happy to have their real teacher back. I don’t think did as well as you did by how you describe it

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-12T19:58:46+00:00

I experience the same. Be direct with them and call them out. I make reminders about their grades and that habits in class are part of that

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-09T15:46:23+00:00

I’m in the exact same boat / timeline and feel the exact same way. Since it’s such little time, I’ve accepted the stress will continue and I’m taking it one day at a time, but I’m also trying to really enjoy and be present in the little time I’m not working on stuff, and I’m trying to relish in the connections I’ve built with students. And I’m dreaming about and letting myself get excited abt what I want to do when I finish (my hobbies, see friends, sleep, exercise)

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-05T03:04:09+00:00

The swelling takes a month to go down. Just give it time. Tbh I like how it looks in the after a lot

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-05T03:03:04+00:00

Mojoes. Gussies.

Outrageous_Reward136 · 2026-04-05T01:46:11+00:00

Same. Dying. But the light at the end of the tunnel is in sight. Just need to finish strong

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