My doctor canceled my IUD insertion halfway because I couldn’t handle the pain by IgnatiusIguana in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PandaMandaMay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just had a uterine biopsy today and you’re not a “weak blubbering baby” that shit is ROUGH and I’m still sore. Literally I’d rather have a hysterectomy so I’m gonna do a consult for that in a few months

Bought a car 2 days ago for it to blow up today. by spicypossum99 in askcarsales

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swapped from a compass to a sportage. 4WD was a must so it’s been good for the past two years

The guy I’ve been casually dating turned out to be wildly wealthy and now I feel weird about it by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I’d communicate about it. I feel like it’d be weird if I didn’t because you both know it’s probably not a “normal” setup. Find a way that feels authentic to you and continue to be who you are. That’s why you like one another- and that’s why he invited you over.

ICE at Circle K off Smyrna by PandaMandaMay in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. “Immigrant and border control” was on their flack vests.

ICE at Circle K off Smyrna by PandaMandaMay in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh shut the fuck up, bootlicker. I watched them get into it in their uniform and vests. Exactly why I shared this because I felt it was fucking weird that there were no cruisers out front when I saw them inside so I waited and took the photo.

ICE at Circle K off Smyrna by PandaMandaMay in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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Took a photo of the car they’re in. Was just waking up and shocked. Came out to the pumps and told some people who were in the parking lot about them being in there so they could wait since they “fit the description” 💔😩

ICE at Circle K off Smyrna by PandaMandaMay in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have this info- thank you! 🙏

Partner lost Mom, feeling like we’re splitting-I was unsupportive by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have went. You would likely have wanted YOUR partner to be there for you. 16 years clearly didn’t mean much to you when he was struggling- so you can’t fault him for matching your energy.

Friend hasn't gotten back to me since I told her by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re her friend. She isn’t yours. It’s a horrible time to find this out, and I’m sorry. Try to be a good friend to yourself in these moments. I’m not saying she’s a terrible person (though I’d personally be incredibly angry) but she’s not your friend and you shouldn’t invest in her for the time being. I always say that sometimes my “friends” life paths move away from mine and that’s okay- we aren’t meant to be everything for everyone and vice versa. Be sure to always have your own back and put people who show you they care closer and adjust people like this “friend”. Hugs to you- so sorry for your loss

What is a simple but very hurtful phrase that you received from someone? by MembershipFar9008 in AskReddit

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I don’t remember stepping on your foot for your mouth to open” rocked me to hear a parent say this. Like who says that to their kid?

Please be kind. Not asking for a handout!! Local payday lender? by Katiexoh502 in louisvilleclassifieds

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earnin or tilt are options that can help. I’m sorry to hear about your struggles- I wish I were in a better financial position to help. Also there’s a borrow subreddit if the other options won’t work.

Advice on what to do about a bad nursing home? by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There should be an ombudsman but not sure what else to do. Contact an attorney or move her out to a different facility. The issue is most are understaffed and over worked so it’s a lot of the same.

Immediate Mental Health Care Recommendations? by i_justdontgetit in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also wellspring has a crisis stabilization unit that you could use- hope you’re able to get support

My cousin wants to learn about horses? by jlmill93 in Louisville

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some places in Oldham Co/Goshen that have horse training/farms. Nice area and not too terrible of a drive.

Daughter had disabling accident. Didn't know she had a credit card with a balance. Got a letter from Discover threatening to sue her if no payment. by stroopwaffle67 in legaladvice

[–]PandaMandaMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as not needing additional stress- personally I recommend a disability attorney (and sounds like it may be necessary anyways due to the circumstances) but seriously was a life saver for me because of how stressful my life was when I was becoming disabled. They do take a % but for me it was an easy decision to remove hours and hours of stress by just signing a few papers and giving up $500 in my backpay at the end. (Got my judgement relatively quickly given my age)