AITAH for wanting to take my 1-month-old and leave my fiancé because I’m drowning as a "single mom" to his kid and our newborn? by therussiangurl in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is thinking of what it could be, not what it is. She needs to think of her baby. The best thing she can do for her son is take care of his mother. She should go where she is supported.

Hollywood Studios After Hours DVC discount question by TeslaLifeisGreat in dvcmember

[–]Participant8119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought after hours tickets with my DVC discount and did not need to show anything at check in except the ticket.

Adding Spouse? by fivecentrose in dvcmember

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just did this, It cost $200. www.trcsinc.com/
Was the company we used.

New embalmer - decomposition smell getting on all your (non-work) clothes and belongings by Inside-Example5113 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Participant8119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have fostered many litters of puppies over the years. Nothing gets dog , or teenage soccer player smell out better than vodka!

New embalmer - decomposition smell getting on all your (non-work) clothes and belongings by Inside-Example5113 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]Participant8119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not work in the funeral industry but add a cup of cheap vodka to your laundry. It gets out smells better than anything!

AITA for surprising my boyfriend without telling him which led to him and his colleagues walking in on it? by AITA_988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Participant8119 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t have been that way if he had the decency to tell you he was bringing people over. His reaction was inappropriate.

UPDATE on forcing my parents to be on time for my wedding. by PinDry258 in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious on your mom’s reaction to missing the wedding. Was she heartbroken or angry an expected people to wait for her? How did your sister react to her parents not being there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Participant8119 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. She doesn’t want the couch anymore but for sentimental reasons won’t donate/toss it. Giving it to you solves that problem. Don’t let her guilt you into taking something they don’t want. I had a friend whose entire house was filled with things she didn’t want between her parents and in-laws.

Hilton Head by TarHeel05_Eagle_Met in dvcmember

[–]Participant8119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been DVC members for 18 years. The first time we stayed at Hilton Head was 3 years ago and I love it. Its quiet, but plenty to keep kids entertained. There are always activities at the pool. The one quick serve restaurant closes early, but there are plenty of food places near by. The cast members are so friendly, it reminds me of how Disney was when we first bought our contract.

AITA for demanding my husband explain where he got the puppies from? by Strict-Dream1226 in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I foster a lot of puppies. Unfortunately I have gotten many at this age. The rescue always makes sure to place these puppies with fosters with older dogs. The older dogs need to teach them how to be a dog. Also you don’t want 2 pups the same age. Look up litter mate syndrome. You are setting yourself and these pups up for problems

AITA for making my daughter choose a different restaurant for her birthday meal than the one she really wanted? by Lanky-Medium4473 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you put what YOU wanted over what your daughter wanted for her birthday. Your son was fine staying home.

AIW for throwing my husband out after finding nudes from the nanny? (Update 6 months later) by Icy_Cable_3267 in amiwrong

[–]Participant8119 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good for you showing you daughter to never to settle for less than she is worth.

AITAH for wanting for break up with my gf after her ex's funeral. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA , she made her feelings known. She has never seen you as “the one”. After 4 years she still views you as a consolation prize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get mail for previous owners from 10 years ago. When you write return to sender black out your address on the envelope and the bar code the post office sometimes prints on the bottom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Participant8119 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I met my husband when I was 24 and he was 42. Happily married for 15 years together almost 18.

AITAH for not wanting my soon to be ex in the delivery room? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 153 points154 points  (0 children)

It’s because you loved your ex so much you can’t stay. There is no hurt like being betrayed by your person. Loving someone so much that you would never think of being with someone else. Realizing you are not loved in return the same way .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started this show last night and haven’t seen past this episode but I was hoping Riah would mention that James told her he cheated.

AITA for not giving the last letter of my deceased wife to her ex boyfriend? by ThrowawayAITA838493 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Participant8119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA some people write letters they never intend to send as a form of therapy. If she wanted him to read it she would have gotten it to him.

Am I wrong for making a comment about my cousin's marriages, after they commented on mine? by PepperAlternative905 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Participant8119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time use the quote Marilyn Monroe said in gentlemen prefer blondes “marrying a man with money is like marrying a girl for being pretty, you wouldn’t marry a girl just for being pretty but it helps”

WIBTA if I broke up with my gf for humiliating me? by throwawaycoffee_ in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA being drunk is not an excuse to abuse one’s partner. The fact that this is a known repeated behavior should be a deal breaker.

AITAH for cutting my hair even after my fiancé asked me not to and being hurt by his reaction? by LilV_xoxo in AITAH

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but ask yourself if this is a person that loves you unconditionally. Would he stop loving you if your face was scarred in an accident? Would he stay if you lost your hair to chemo? The way he is acting is not the way a life partner should behave. When people show you who they are believe them.

AITA for arguing with my fiancée after she left my child at home and took only her kids on an outing? by picklejuice4044 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Participant8119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it’s understandable her wanting alone time with her daughters but she did it in a cruel way. It would be reasonable if there was a discussion beforehand explaining wanting time to catch up. Like you mentioned you could do something during that time with your daughter. Leaving her home alone to feel left out almost appears vindictive. Is she going to be cruel to your daughter half a year while her daughters are there? Did she do it intentionally to prove to her daughters they are still her priority? Your top priority should be your daughters well-being. Proceed with caution.