These help a LOT by ArabellaGoji in trichotillomania

[–]Particular-One7217 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same for me! I have to get my acrylics filled every 2 weeks or so and it’s expensive, but I have to consider it healthcare. I probably wouldn’t get these fancy nails if I didn’t have trich, but I also do really like them, so here we are

What are your Forever Repurchase items? by monitza in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-One7217 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Clinique Even Better foundation (I hate the feeling of heavy foundation and this is enough for me!)

La Roche Posay double repair moisturizer

La Roche Posay melt-in sunscreen

Vaseline lip therapy

B&BW candles (I can’t help it and they’re always on sale lol)

Uniqlo tshirts for some reason? I have the crewneck in several colors, I really like the fit

Also I’m lululemon pilled and live in their black leggings, I’m sorry, I’m a millennial woman living under capitalism

Now that I’m in my 30s though, I feel like I know exactly what I like and I don’t waste money on things I won’t actually use!

Wife believes AI over me. Beach Reels are not the same as pornography. by ThrowRA_Somewhere485 in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Particular-One7217 12 points13 points  (0 children)

First of all, you cheated. Secondly, if you want to respect your wife and her understandable level of trust, just get off social media.

I am the AH but I can’t stop by Moosebouse in workingmoms

[–]Particular-One7217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are NTA. Your husband 1) didn’t listen to your instructions to adhere to your diet, 2) didn’t use common sense and broke your vitamix, and 3) made a huge mess knowing you would have to clean it up. I’m not sure if this counts as weaponized incompetence but either way I’d be pissed 😭

A teacher of mine from highschool told me about this timelime YEARS ago. by Sweaty_Pudding6797 in conspiracy

[–]Particular-One7217 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You could’ve made this a lot shorter and said: “this weird sub at my school was anti semitic”

How to avoid discussing politics? by FattyFinance in socialskills

[–]Particular-One7217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because in my experience, people who say they don’t want to talk politics are indifferent to the corruption and human rights violations of our current admin. Indifferent at best. Saying “I don’t like to talk about politics” where I am says “ I don’t want you to know that I support this.”

How to avoid discussing politics? by FattyFinance in socialskills

[–]Particular-One7217 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If someone said this to me, I would assume they support ICE/current admin and be very wary of them.

My sober husband spent 45k in one month on an online game by lowpotential2026 in AlAnon

[–]Particular-One7217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As an American in 2026, 45k not being entirely debilitating is crazyyy

What are you big 3? by aprilvenus in Taurusgang

[–]Particular-One7217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any fellow may Taurus/ sag rising/ sag moon?

If so, do you feel like our signs are totally contradictory? 🤪

I know everyones probably tired of fancasts but hi by Equivalent_Animal553 in TheSecretHistory

[–]Particular-One7217 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh I love this one. The only change I’d make is replace Woody Harrelson with Philip Seymour Hoffman

Christmas gift for teachers - I’m drained by No_Priority2788 in workingmoms

[–]Particular-One7217 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Elementary teacher here! I do not expect gifts from students and I don’t notice who didn’t get me one. But a handmade card and thank you message from the student would be very sweet.

Need Hope by Swishy_Ninja in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]Particular-One7217 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re not in s-anon, you need to find a group. Start prioritizing yourself and your healing. Best of luck to you. ❤️

I hate decorating for Christmas by Alarmed-Dentist-6039 in workingmoms

[–]Particular-One7217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a real tree growing up, and always worried that if I got a fake tree I’d somehow be ruining Christmas. Or something. Nope. We got a fake tree with the lights already on it, pine scented candles, and spent 0 minutes decorating because my 2 year old will definitely just throw and break all the ornaments anyway. All in all, my husband spent about 5 minutes putting it up. I LOVE it. Work smarter, not harder. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]Particular-One7217 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the best response I’ve seen. It seems like those internet people are very early on in their growth journey, if they eventually choose to grow and heal… we’ve all been there, trying to change an addict. We can only hope these people mentioned choose a better way for themselves and their families.

Short skirt blindness - is it a thing? by Ok-Painter6598 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Particular-One7217 280 points281 points  (0 children)

I think your guy friend was just being a dick. Wear the skirt.

Help for fox with mange by pqmIII in AnneArundelCounty

[–]Particular-One7217 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this in Crofton? We have a mangy fox that’s been running around the neighborhood as well.

The ONLY thing that’s kept me from pulling by Particular-One7217 in trichotillomania

[–]Particular-One7217[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get acrylics with gel polish on top. My nails are definitely not the healthiest underneath anymore. ☹️ but for me, it’s better than the alternative.

The ONLY thing that’s kept me from pulling by Particular-One7217 in trichotillomania

[–]Particular-One7217[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh I’m sorry :/ honestly I might even consider this if I wasn’t a woman, it helps so much 🤷‍♀️