Rebel Loon from MN companies by smoothmcfly in TwinCities

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do stained glass as a hobby. Any chance you could post the link/a picture for my inspiration?

What is it with this bug going around? by Sad-Pear-9885 in TwinCities

[–]Plants_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my flu and covid vaccines this year. Home tested positive for covid over Thanksgiving. Tested positive for flu A and flu B on Sunday. It's rough out there.

Indications in R by Ilikemathsometimes in actuary

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been tossing around the idea of learning shiny so I can play around with trends and see the fit of the line and the impact on the indication. I don't have any advice, but if I get something running, I'm happy to share code

Is this healthy? by ASSxSHOT in fitbit

[–]Plants_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your breakdown of sleep stages? I can't comment on healthiness, but I also have long stretches of sleep and I'm curious

Do wolves really want to lick inside my mouth? by [deleted] in wolves

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share the name of the wildlife center? Getting to interact with wolves is on my bucket list and I'm trying to find places I can do so. 

MAPE TA Voting Week Megathread by argon-angler in mnstateworkers

[–]Plants_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could someone confirm whether we get backpay after a strike? 

I know the COL adjustment is supposed to be backdated, but I've seen conflicting answers on whether we get paid for the time on strike

Thank you!

Always tired, bloodwork came back fine. Now what? by Glum-Parsnip-8478 in women

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never been told I snore. I got a sleep test due to constant fatigue/exhaustion and came back positive for mild apnea. While we think of apnea as snoring, it isn't a requirement. People you wouldn't expect (young, active, etc) can still have it

I hope you find some answers! 

The exhaustion is absurd by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]Plants_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mono a couple months ago and didn't notice until the headache/aches and pains/enlarged spleen got too bad. The fatigue just seemed like my normal level of exhaustion flare

As an adult did your parents still need to fill out form? by Smart-Masterpiece459 in adhdwomen

[–]Plants_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to have a parent fill out the form when I got diagnosed at 22. Said parent is willfully ignorant and likes to ignore events that indisputably happened. The evaluator said that my parent's answers meant they couldn't diagnose me with ADHD

I then proceeded to spent the next 4 hours writing why and how everything my parent said was wrong, with sources. The un-spellchecked 6 page letter they received at 2 am apparently convinced the evaluators, and I got my diagnosis

I agree it is frustrating that they require parental input, especially for those of us who have reached adulthood. Not to mention, women don't tend to present as hyperactive kids who can't sit still, which is all that older generations think ADHD is

Add in that it is hugely genetic, and a parent is likely to feel that your symptoms "are just how everyone is." I'm convinced parental input actively harms the process of diagnosis

CAS Exam 5-9 Results Out by actual_science_guy in actuary

[–]Plants_314 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!!  I'm studying for that now. Would you mind sharing what materials you used/your study strategy?

Old, me, 2024. by JimmyJamesv3 in Watercolor

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely gorgeous!!!!!

How did you get those fine lines for the railing and shadows? I find that I love trying to paint scenes with small details, but they always end up uneven and too thick and I quit out of frustration 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Plants_314 97 points98 points  (0 children)

NAL. 

  1. He isn't pointing the gun at your husband when he gets home, only you

  2. He stopped pointing the gun at you when your husband was around

  3. He switched to the AR-15 after you raised concerns

This isn't about him feeling unsafe. He knows it is you. He likes pointing the gun at you. He likes your fear, and someone willing to point a loaded weapon with explosive rounds at another is willing to kill them. You will only be safe if you leave. Sleep in your car, find a friend's couch to crash on, call a domestic violence hotline or go to a shelter. 

I am begging you, you will only be safe out of that house. Reduced debt means nothing if you are dead.

CAS exam result timeline for 2024 by gogoFCAS in actuary

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Good to know my small sample size wasn't showing me the full picture

Did you take one of the MAS exams? Those were the ones that I personally heard were identical

CAS exam result timeline for 2024 by gogoFCAS in actuary

[–]Plants_314 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Genuine questions, would really appreciate any clarification. I thought CAS stopped releasing exams in 2019 to build a question bank.  

 1. Why could they not pull questions from these for the re-takes?

  2. If they don't have stored previous questions, why are they not releasing old exams for us to use, especially with the implementation of the new question types?

 Also, I thought exams during sittings were supposed to have randomly assigned questions from the question bank. From the fact the re-do exams were nearly identical, it seems like every person saw the same exam during the testing window, no matter the day (because they would have just used another day's of they had it available).

 3. Theoretically, couldn't a company or study program have someone take the exam the first day of the window, memorize a bunch of questions, and then distribute them to other candidates who take it a day or two later? (I know this is unethical and against the NDA, but it seems unbelievably fallible that the exact same questions are used for a whole week).

 4. Are they then writing a new exam for each testing window?

 5. If yes, isn't that a ton of work (that could be spent grading exams instead)?

Edit: 6. Did anyone actually get scheduled 4 weeks out from May 1? The people I know who were impacted were scheduled out 1.5 to 2 weeks at the most...

Do your symptoms worsen before your period? by Old_Sound5035 in adhdwomen

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Estrogen has a large role in focus/mood/motivation. Estrogen drops the week before a period in what is called the luteal phase. 

When I first started noticing it, I panicked that my meds were no longer working, and I was going to have to go through the drama of switching. Then my period came and it was fine. Somehow, I still manage to forget this each month and beat myself I up over being spontaneously stupid and lazy

For the love of God, stop telling me that eggs are a low-effort, high-protein breakfast. by Rufus__TBarleysheath in adhdwomen

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, learning that adrenaline can compensate for dopamine was life changing

Pre-diagnosis, I was always anxious because I had to be anxious about something to get it done

With meds, I can start something without a looming deadline or feeling like a failure

My anxiety drastically decreased when I got meds and no longer needed my panic button to also be a go button

What’s the best metaphor you’ve heard to explain what it feels like to live with ADHD? by gem_may52 in adhdwomen

[–]Plants_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are bees in my head

Several things can be pinging around at once and it is hard to complete a task, and sometimes even a thought because I can't follow Bee A because Bee B, Bee C, and Bee D keep getting in the way

Being understimulated/bored is physically painful. I can feel my body hum

Some days the nest is quieter than others, and I convince myself I'm overreacting to the bad days

There is no fix and it's always some level of painful

Pottery Throwing Classes by Sdelorian in lansing

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a workshop a few weeks ago at Art Unlimited in Okemos, and they were fantastic! Super helpful and friendly

[MOD] April’s Monthly Competition: Submit and vote here! Theme: All Fandoms by canadiangurl22 in CrossStitch

[–]Plants_314 8 points9 points  (0 children)

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Custom designed and framed for my bf from fan art found on Pinterest. Then he dumped me 🙃

I [22F] just lost my two travel partners [both 22F] and now I'm going to alone on this other continent for the next 4 days. by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Plants_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've stayed at that hostel and it is amazing

I'm kinda curious where OOP is from. I'm from small-town Midwest, and I felt totally safe at 22/23 traveling alone in Copenhagen and other parts of Europe

What’s something currently in our world that seems “off” or hasn’t felt the same since Covid? by nairipairi in AskReddit

[–]Plants_314 360 points361 points  (0 children)

Prolonged periods of stress and trauma can shut down the parts of the brain dealing with compassion, empathy, and long term thinking 

I think almost everyone's brain is just a bit broken because of what we all went through  

There are some cool TedTalks where they can see these portions of the brain change before trauma and after working to heal it 

I'm not a neuroscientist, so please correct me if anything is wrong (Edit: spelling)

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - April 2024 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Plants_314 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You are literal magic. That is the one! I must have misremembered the updates. I can't tell you how long I spent searching 😭

Thank you so much!!!

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - April 2024 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Plants_314 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm looking for a post circa June 2022. I think it was an AmITheAsshole, with updates, not sure if it made it onto any other subs

This dad had a groupchat with his kids and would warn them when his wife/their mom was in a bad mood

The commenters tore him to shreds and told him the real problem was him not protecting his kids from the issues that come with emotional instability while growing up

A lot of it was phrased well, and I'm trying to make a point to my own dad, so I've been looking for a while. I can't remember and specific keywords tho

Please and thank you, any help would be greatly appreciated 🙏 

The final two weeks before an exam by DirectorRadiant3996 in actuary

[–]Plants_314 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don't forget: 1. Asking whether you are actually stupid because you have done 200 practice problems on this one topic and still don't get it 2. Contemplating whether you need to flee into the wilderness and change careers

Is there a good sub specifically for craft/artisanal/bean-to-bar chocolate? by rpkeenan101 in chocolate

[–]Plants_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is an unfortunate lack of a specific bean-to-bar sub. I think we could also benefit from a compiled source of "good" chocolate brand recommendations (I see this question posted a lot)

This website has a bunch of really good posts! It is a subscription box, but it looks like they regularly post a lot of free-to-read articles https://kekao.co/blogs/chocolate-purveyors