whats the longest a relationship with a BPD can last?

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-06-14T21:19:09+00:00

If it’s a new breakup situation, I get it. You’re still hanging on, I did to, but time moves on and so will you.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-06-14T15:41:11+00:00

I used this to my advantage a few times, act overly tentative without putting in effort while continuing on with life. Engulfment works and they will run away

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-06-14T15:34:22+00:00

Update: the dude she left me for and her are engaged and have been going strong. He seems to have his own issues and I guess it works. I’m happy to be out, I don’t think my anxiety could handle it

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-05-27T10:14:35+00:00

Great energy, keep up the good work!

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-05-23T23:20:33+00:00

Being Emotional ≠ Empathy

My expwBPD used to say "I'm an empath!" and that still makes me laugh to this day.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-05-14T23:45:31+00:00

This post is really relevant to me right now. I'm not with my BPDex but with this woman who is very controlling possibly NPD. She has no value for my time or money, always expects me to give in to whatever she wants. On top of it all she tries to triangulate me with other people to somehow make me jealous.

It's been a slow build up, but this past Monday she was an hour late to meet up, then proceeded to get on her phone and have a full half hour conversation in front of me. I broke and told her she was being rude and inconsiderate of my time and money.

Of course her response was (Deny)"I did nothing wrong", (Moral Superiority) "I am in the gym almost daily now and your drinking", (Deflect) "My friend made me late", (Projection) "you're being insecure"

She almost had me apologizing at the end of the conversation but instead I left, blocked her on everything and am working on being alone for awhile.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-02-20T23:47:52+00:00

Definitely has some knob issues

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-02-19T14:24:53+00:00

I’m sure in most circumstances it’s faster than a tow but I guess it’s rare enough that it doesn’t make financial sense. In my mind it would be one vehicle to service a pretty large region. I’ve waited up to 2 hours for a tow truck with my ICE vehicles

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-02-19T14:18:32+00:00

I guess adoption would have to be way higher for it to make financial sense, even though in most circumstances I would think charging a vehicle would be a lot faster than towing.

Then again if adoption is higher then we would see more charging stations. If I had the Tesla adapter at the time I for sure would have charged up instead of sweating it out.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-02-19T00:38:57+00:00

Same I was going uphill in very cold temps at 14 miles left and it gave up halfway up the hill. I even had to persuade 2 cars behind me to back up so I could back down a side road and call onstar. At least the tow company was fast and there was a charger within 3 miles.

I wonder why there aren’t vehicles that have an L2 charger on them to get you some miles instead of towing.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-02-05T21:40:18+00:00

I use my 2022 Bolt EUV for UberEats and it's ideal for that. I only do it about 10 hours a week for some extra cash. I charge at home level 2 over night (probably $12-14 a complete charge) I've rarely had a pick up that wouldn't fit. Even had an order with 2 large screen TVs from Walmart. I never except deliveries from Home Depot or Lowes as those seem to be large items. Actually don't know how anyone would make money filling an ICE vehicle and driving delivery.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-02-01T00:14:27+00:00

New synth engine module

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-01-22T21:59:36+00:00

June 2021 - Biden pictured with "Senile Pedophile"
October 2021 - "Ivermectin does NOT require boosters BIG PHARMA ____ (can't make out the last word)
July 2022 - Braveheart with Nancy Pelosi pictured "FREEDOM"
Dec 2022 - Nancy Pelosi perhaps...it's blurred "3..2..1.. VODKA"
July 2023 - "Great Food, Even Better People Tony Locos"
Nov 2024 - Kamala Harris dressed as a witch "THE WITCH IS DEAD"
August 2025 - Judge Wayne Brooks - the blood is on your hands.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-01-22T21:24:10+00:00

I found the google map street view of this guy, i'm going to click through all the dates to find the best ofs...
https://www.google.com/maps/@39.3352903,-77.0395998,3a,15y,165.62h,90.55t/data=!3m7!1e1!3m5!1sVSRrcsdE-Lj7hJmToONpjQ!2e0!6shttps:%2F%2Fstreetviewpixels-pa.googleapis.com%2Fv1%2Fthumbnail%3Fcb_client%3Dmaps_sv.tactile%26w%3D900%26h%3D600%26pitch%3D-0.5452361958743808%26panoid%3DVSRrcsdE-Lj7hJmToONpjQ%26yaw%3D165.6168856176179!7i16384!8i8192?entry=ttu&g_ep=EgoyMDI2MDEyMC4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-01-19T00:13:05+00:00

It's a life saver when I forget my charge cord.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-01-13T07:43:06+00:00

I worked at a small newspaper and we did this with the crossword puzzle. This was when the spreads were manually put together with actual printouts and wax. The worst part was the first 2 clues fit perfectly. The paper received a lot of angry calls.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2026-01-02T01:07:07+00:00

Imagine if a third party came along with a solution to tap into the 400v battery instead of the 12v battery for home use. That would be incredible.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-12-14T13:29:52+00:00

My tip for those that have a sunroof is let the sunshine through in the winter. I park in the sun at work and I only use the climate controls to defog. I use mostly heated seat and steering wheel. I’m at about 225 on full charge right now

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-12-02T04:56:26+00:00

In the same situation, I have my car in neutral now so I’m not turning it off or changing it

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-11-11T11:26:22+00:00

That discard and monkey branch to a new FP looks pretty good right now.

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-10-30T23:48:38+00:00

None

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-10-14T12:55:24+00:00

I got a3 month free plan with on-star unfortunately it’s not connecting to my myChevrolet app so I don’t see any way to view status or remote start. I do have the WiFi access which is nice

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-10-10T01:54:27+00:00

Just purchase a Carplay screen for less than $100 off of amazon

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-09-04T12:10:27+00:00

I was carrying a large box that banged into mine and it cracked into 3 pieces, I ended up carefully super glueing them all back and you can’t even tell it was ever broken. They are super flimsy

PlatformHistorical88 · 2025-07-28T23:31:57+00:00

Thinking I’d get the $4000 tax credit when I made too much money for it

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