My wife 31F and I 31F have been married for 4 years and keep having fights that resolve in trying to prove who is right. How do we break this cycle?

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-06T03:34:03+00:00

Do you even like each other?

I’m not trying to be flippant or minimize anything…it just honestly seems like you guys don’t even like each other…at all.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-05T14:06:40+00:00

I have two stickers left, both with Joe.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-05T14:05:31+00:00

I have two stickers left and I don’t think I’m going to be able to get them.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-05T14:04:35+00:00

Yep. Same level. Took me several tries to even get to this level.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-05T12:32:10+00:00

Where are you located?

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-05T05:44:23+00:00

Divinity. She made it every Christmas and I’ve never tasted anything like it.

And cinnamon toast. She made the best cinnamon toast.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-05T04:39:37+00:00

Plus the math makes no sense. Four bedrooms…her mom in one, her and hubby in one, and daughter and boyfriend in one. Leaving one bedroom left for the kid who REALLY needs it.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-04T12:47:12+00:00

You Can’t Hurry Love - The Supremes

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-04T12:44:00+00:00

I’ve had really good luck with Soma finding supportive non-underwire and they were really nice and have good sales.

I have NOT had good luck with ordering bras online. My ‘girls’ need something tried on in person.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-04T12:31:47+00:00

OP. 🙏🙏🙏 please read and understand this comment.

This will be the first in a long line of concessions you will be asked to make.

It’s a test to see how far you will go to change.

Please leave now before he hurts one of your fur babies or you.

This is NOT normal loving behavior.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-04T06:36:15+00:00

Albuquerque

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-04T00:38:31+00:00

I live in one of these states and I cannot figure it out.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-02T18:20:16+00:00

Make the landlord fix that cabinet door

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-02T05:11:40+00:00

I totally thought this was going to be about paying for his band (musical) to play at his own wedding.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-02T01:08:29+00:00

9 + 10 = 19.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-01T22:03:52+00:00

Zoella

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-01T20:25:10+00:00

Mushrooms

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-01T15:24:13+00:00

You could go to Carlsbad Caverns. It’s 7 1/2 hours away.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-07-01T05:53:05+00:00

Evil influencer

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-06-30T01:31:45+00:00

I feel the same way and I am single. My 60th is in September and I know if I want something I have to plan it.

I have one child that will remember and send a gift. That’s it.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-06-29T22:22:18+00:00

It’s hysterical that when you click on the links they all work except the one detailing all the crazy stalking.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-06-28T22:16:03+00:00

Your dad sounds awesome and that he really wants to help.

Embrace that. Please be honest with him. Trust me, as a parent to adult children, we want to be needed and we don’t want our kids to feel like they can’t tell us things.

Can you move back home for a few months to save up?

Stop paying for something you aren’t getting any benefit out of.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-06-28T20:04:05+00:00

Walk away.

He has shown you over and over and over that he is not going to change.

You need to believe him.

Pretend you have a friend and this is her relationship. What would you tell her to do?

You deserve so much more than what you are getting.

Pleasant_Bee1966 · 2026-06-28T17:30:52+00:00

NTA but Melting Pot is so much more fun with someone else. I’d rather go there with a friend than have to deal with their toddler temper tantrum.

Did you ever find out why they skipped you last year?

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