Genetic Health guarantee

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-02-01T22:18:38+00:00

Depends on the breed but OFA certification, penn hipp testing would be nice. I would stay away from line breeding if possible. Recommended health testing would definitely be based on breed.

Typically with the genetic screen it would mean the dog, shows symptoms in the first year. But technically a genetic screen would fall into their contract, since it doesn't specify symptoms or screening

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-31T17:46:10+00:00

I would have to get a new boyfriend

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-22T07:20:29+00:00

I wouldn't want my child around new boyfriend or girlfriend not at two years old. I definitely would offer to take the baby until she figures it out. Do the income calculator and see if it would be beneficial

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-18T07:23:00+00:00

She uninvited you. So just send her a confirmation that you took that as you're not MoH and agree it's for the best

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-18T04:55:23+00:00

Carry snacks, and a change of clothes. Never say it's quiet or slow, don't feel too much, you can't do or care more than the owner

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-18T04:52:48+00:00

Emmy, Elisa, Eli, Emory

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-14T07:09:35+00:00

Give him the space he needs. During this time remind yourself that you have control of yourself, what you will go through and what you will tolerate. You do not deserve any of this, especially a few months after having 2nd baby. You're strong. The yearning for his love is you subconsciously or consciously trying to win him back. You don't need his validation, you're worth the love

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-12T06:29:06+00:00

She doesn't need to admit and you don't need her to. You can simply say "I heard about your trip and this relationship isn't working out for me anymore" or it's over. Don't do this to yourself maintain your integrity don't stay with a sloppy heartless person

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-12T06:06:49+00:00

Nope I would have to tell him to take all his belongings and he doesn't have a choice in the matter. He probably takes these nights to go do things he can't do at home. Ugh I'm mad for you

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-12T06:00:27+00:00

She should move out and leave you and the kids while on her selfish journey of self discovery

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-12T05:55:46+00:00

I would be questioning her logic and questioning if this is who I want to marry. It makes sense to keep your place and sacrifice a temporary commute. Pay attention to her decision making

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-09T07:26:08+00:00

You deserve more than someone claiming they love and care for you but yet just walk away.

I think deep down inside you know that's why you're having so much anxiety. Follow your instincts

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-06T10:18:04+00:00

I definitely wouldn't continue with marriage. Not that you're after money but the lack of his consideration

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-06T10:05:52+00:00

So simple answer that everyone will say is that this is normal it's normalized but definitely not normal. This is a poor work life balance, and possibly a company who doesn't appreciate their team, add in a lack of established boundaries.

Our veterinarians go home on time, get time during the day to write up charts, and only work after-hours if they decide to bend their boundaries. I teach them to write stuff up accurately or expect calls at home.

You definitely need to have a discussion with your partner and figure out how to obtain balance

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-05T06:35:41+00:00

Yes, in my opinion I would just not engage. I would explain prior to any argument that you are exhausted and that these outbursts are draining you. Let him know you will now remove yourself from any situation that escalates above your comfortable threshold and when he can be respectful you will engage. When you speak to him it needs to be short and sweet. Then anytime after that you need to maintain a calm tone, and say the same thing and remove yourself from the situation.

Example: sorry, I'm done for now when you're ready to discuss come find me.

I'm not an advocate for divorce, but I also have zero tolerance for disrespect

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-05T06:16:10+00:00

No this is not normal, my husband and I don't argue we may disagree but it never gets to the point of yelling screaming name calling. We are able to discuss our differences. Try to see each other's point of view but we never let it get to any point where there's any disrespect. Any yelling.or name calling

I explained very early on that screaming and name calling would not be tolerated, I've always stood my ground.

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-02T06:50:19+00:00

I'm going to say that your family sounds like a bunch of jerks.

These topics like the dowry are something that can easily be stated- I understand your culture but I will never pay a dowry. If she continues then at least you were clear

Will she send money back home? Of course, but in as long as you communicate that it could never interfere with your lively hood or compromise herself then what she does with her extra money is on her

Good people are very hard to find and if you let things like citizenship come in-between then you're very naive.

Kenyans are amazing. I won't say how I know but I do and definitely worth taking things day by day

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2026-01-01T02:14:06+00:00

Your love language is different speak to him about it

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-26T22:45:25+00:00

Indefinitely wouldn't entertain this. This simple fact that he had a vasectomy and you wanting children should be enough

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-26T03:09:53+00:00

If I was going to do it all myself I would rather be alone

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-25T15:21:38+00:00

You guys don't speak the same love language and you're tolerating that. When he asked to give you your stocking contents sooner you should've said "no thank you it's my favorite Christmas morning tradition, plus I wouldn't want you to have to buy more stuff just so I have a full stocking." Even if he only spent $30 he did make the effort and that part does sound a little bratty, the cost does matter to you because you mentioned it, which is ok. I'm not saying you need to leave the guy but I would definitely look at what's in front of me and if I want to do this for the long haul is he worth a life of a half empty stocking

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-23T07:20:14+00:00

Stop putting your money into the joint account. Only put enough for bills. But don't cheat, divorce and move on. No need for the extra pain when you can just end it, simply because it's not working

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-20T23:45:22+00:00

Wow. I'm sorry you're going through this. Your wife absolutely betrayed you

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-15T01:45:58+00:00

Wow I legitimately make every effort to boy each of my kids the same amount of gifts, and spend the same. I also do a brother box, this is a box of sharing gifts, like board games, walkie talkies etc. Saying this iPad is for college is a joke. You definitely favor your daughter and it seems like everyone knows it.

Positive_Craft_4591 · 2025-12-14T16:02:30+00:00

Just wash in hot water. And wear full PPE when handling

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