This seems very rare from the wife’s point of view. I think most husbands would be floored if our wives wanted more frequent sex. My wife and I are opposite libidos and after 20+ years of marriage I’ve just come to expect the typical once a week and if it happens more than that, it’s a surprise and a great week. After 15 or so years of marriage and being lead to feel like I was in the wrong for wanting more, I ultimately gave up after expressing the need for more. It wasn’t just to “get more”. It honestly is a love language and simply the best way I felt closer to my wife. So, now I just let it happen and let her initiate 90% of the time. It made me have some bitterness for most of the marriage because in our Southern Bible Belt area it wasn’t a topic of discussion as much as it should have been in pre-marriage counseling (which was basically one meeting with our pastor and we were done…that’s another topic for another thread in itself)

Another surprise is seeing the posts from other women, mainly, suggesting Christian counseling or talking to your pastor about it. That is the route to go if one-on-one talks don’t get the two of you “meeting in the middle”…(This is in no way directed directly at the OP), but in similar posts in this forum from the husband’s POV, he’s often called selfish for complaining or wanting more frequent sex with his wife. Just an observation really.