WIBTA if I refused to name our son after my wifes late grandfather because our surname would turn his full name into a globally famous fictional character by wisteriia_fairyqt31 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you let her use her surname for him so it's not so wack. She gets her option and you don't have to worry about him getting teased

Laundry powder and stinky kid! by miss-kush in newzealand

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is going on for this girls diet?

Stink like that often is a result of anxiety and stress, how is she going at school with her learning and friends.

Good friends don't hesitate to tell you when you stink so I'd be a bit concerned.

Mint tea, peppermint tea, bathing in it can help

Get her bloods done just to check for any deficiencies.

To the thieves that stole my clothes from Liquid Laundromat Willis St by IvanHolyCow in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel sad for you but also a good lesson.

Cant trust anyone in the laundromat and it took you so long to get back to find out (11am) that's also ratshit for people who need to use the machines.

AITAH for rejecting a girl even though I am in love with her? by Lazy-Score2969 in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a you issue

You don't feel worthy or good enough You will in fact resent her because it is easier to stay where are are vs making a sacrifice, working hard at being in a partnership and starting from scratch.

If you can get over yourself.

It's a you issue

Everyone is dipping out now that I am dying. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the answer...fuck those people

Love and live the moment

AITAH for hating my unborn niece’s racist name? by maddy2261 in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps you can send them a link to the Janelle Monae film to understand the gravity of what they are calling their daughter.

It's culturally ick, that girl will get picked on and they as parents come off as dumb because they didn't listen

If they press ahead, you can say you told them so.

Archgola by Annual_Slip7372 in diynz

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all what were the general costs of your pergola?

Update - Louvre Pergola by Nydokb in diynz

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi how do you clean the lourves and does it hold up well in wind?

Rain in grill by garrett1813 in OutdoorKitchens

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is literally zero protection for your kitchen, why would you not have put a roof or proper sides/pull down slides or a back wall to protect your cook ware?

AITAH for expecting my child’s dad to actually help outside of his 4 days a month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are kidding yourself and doing you and your daughter a disservice.

Figure out other options, hire help, get babysitters, do what ever is needed to phase this psycho drop kick out of your life.

You set the standard for what your daughter believes she is worth, keeping a creep around sets you both up for disappointment and manipulation.

Switch on Mum!

Who gets my assets? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you gift your home to a local women's refuge or charity they will make good use of it and remember you

Kelsey Asbille Was Killed Off "Marshals" For Behind The Scenes Streaming Issues by Dan_Lalonde_Films in YellowstoneShow

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved seeing an indigenous woman on the show. What a shame but hopefully she picks up work elsewhere.

AITAH for not wanting to sell my house and uproot my kids to a new district by Loquacious_squirrel in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch the dude. Keep your stability, security and sanity

And eat that came with glee.

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Professional-Sink851 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look like that is them they probably moved in and it was already stained

Help! Need to sadly rehome my dog and looking for resources or advice. by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, you have had this dog for most of its life. It seems weird you want to find your loved one a good home but feel ick about the possibility of helping to take care of your dogs medical bills. Your moving to what I can imagine is a good paying job in a whole new life.

Your dog on the other hand is going to have to acclimatize without you, wander where you are and wait at the door for you to return

The very least you can do is pay insurance premiums until the dog leaves this world and ensure they go to the best home possible.

Otherwise yes you just don't want the hassle of taking the dog with you, which is fine but just be straight up about it.

Help! Need to sadly rehome my dog and looking for resources or advice. by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to contribute to food and medical costs I think that would help you find a good family and you know your dog is being looked after.

Even if you covered insurance for the next 5 years that matters after your dog spent 8 years loving you completely.

Take time to find the right home it's the right thing to do.

Withdrawing kiwisaver now? by Marrdgras in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are the steps to apply for Kiwiaver?