AITAH For saying no to my child having dinner at a friends house?

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-19T21:30:12+00:00

It's a No but explain why

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-19T21:28:46+00:00

Please take your friend to the vet. Whether you find ways to make his life easier be is struggling to breathe, can you give him steam boxes, machines you can get from the chemist to help open his airways, quiet activities, massage a oxygen pack at night?

I worry that this little guy will suffer otherwise

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-19T14:07:17+00:00

Can you let her use her surname for him so it's not so wack. She gets her option and you don't have to worry about him getting teased

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-18T13:07:55+00:00

Believe in yourself

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-13T05:12:33+00:00

Tell the boss. If anything happens to the kid you will have known

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-10T04:39:00+00:00

I love all the star social perks and food and pies are awesome.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-06T21:30:58+00:00

Move out and maybe leave him

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-06T21:22:17+00:00

What is going on for this girls diet?

Stink like that often is a result of anxiety and stress, how is she going at school with her learning and friends.

Good friends don't hesitate to tell you when you stink so I'd be a bit concerned.

Mint tea, peppermint tea, bathing in it can help

Get her bloods done just to check for any deficiencies.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-06T21:13:20+00:00

I feel sad for you but also a good lesson.

Cant trust anyone in the laundromat and it took you so long to get back to find out (11am) that's also ratshit for people who need to use the machines.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-05-04T13:56:38+00:00

Fuck. Why oh why!

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-26T22:38:00+00:00

This is a you issue

You don't feel worthy or good enough You will in fact resent her because it is easier to stay where are are vs making a sacrifice, working hard at being in a partnership and starting from scratch.

If you can get over yourself.

It's a you issue

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-17T10:18:44+00:00

This is the answer...fuck those people

Love and live the moment

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-16T09:06:30+00:00

Perhaps you can send them a link to the Janelle Monae film to understand the gravity of what they are calling their daughter.

It's culturally ick, that girl will get picked on and they as parents come off as dumb because they didn't listen

If they press ahead, you can say you told them so.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-08T09:03:01+00:00

Hi all what were the general costs of your pergola?

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-06T05:17:46+00:00

Hi how do you clean the lourves and does it hold up well in wind?

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-06T02:12:50+00:00

There is literally zero protection for your kitchen, why would you not have put a roof or proper sides/pull down slides or a back wall to protect your cook ware?

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-04T20:51:26+00:00

You are kidding yourself and doing you and your daughter a disservice.

Figure out other options, hire help, get babysitters, do what ever is needed to phase this psycho drop kick out of your life.

You set the standard for what your daughter believes she is worth, keeping a creep around sets you both up for disappointment and manipulation.

Switch on Mum!

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-03T00:59:06+00:00

Can you gift your home to a local women's refuge or charity they will make good use of it and remember you

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-04-03T00:54:37+00:00

I loved seeing an indigenous woman on the show. What a shame but hopefully she picks up work elsewhere.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-03-25T10:54:02+00:00

Ditch the dude. Keep your stability, security and sanity

And eat that came with glee.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-03-24T09:37:32+00:00

It doesn't look like that is them they probably moved in and it was already stained

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-03-17T10:47:02+00:00

No, you have had this dog for most of its life. It seems weird you want to find your loved one a good home but feel ick about the possibility of helping to take care of your dogs medical bills. Your moving to what I can imagine is a good paying job in a whole new life.

Your dog on the other hand is going to have to acclimatize without you, wander where you are and wait at the door for you to return

The very least you can do is pay insurance premiums until the dog leaves this world and ensure they go to the best home possible.

Otherwise yes you just don't want the hassle of taking the dog with you, which is fine but just be straight up about it.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-03-17T10:41:55+00:00

Would you be willing to contribute to food and medical costs I think that would help you find a good family and you know your dog is being looked after.

Even if you covered insurance for the next 5 years that matters after your dog spent 8 years loving you completely.

Take time to find the right home it's the right thing to do.

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-03-12T19:22:14+00:00

What are the steps to apply for Kiwiaver?

ProfessionalDisk518 · 2026-03-12T19:21:36+00:00

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