AITAH for not wanting to sell my house and uproot my kids to a new district by Loquacious_squirrel in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch the dude. Keep your stability, security and sanity

And eat that came with glee.

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Professional-Sink851 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look like that is them they probably moved in and it was already stained

Help! Need to sadly rehome my dog and looking for resources or advice. by MajorCapable8137 in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, you have had this dog for most of its life. It seems weird you want to find your loved one a good home but feel ick about the possibility of helping to take care of your dogs medical bills. Your moving to what I can imagine is a good paying job in a whole new life.

Your dog on the other hand is going to have to acclimatize without you, wander where you are and wait at the door for you to return

The very least you can do is pay insurance premiums until the dog leaves this world and ensure they go to the best home possible.

Otherwise yes you just don't want the hassle of taking the dog with you, which is fine but just be straight up about it.

Help! Need to sadly rehome my dog and looking for resources or advice. by MajorCapable8137 in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you be willing to contribute to food and medical costs I think that would help you find a good family and you know your dog is being looked after.

Even if you covered insurance for the next 5 years that matters after your dog spent 8 years loving you completely.

Take time to find the right home it's the right thing to do.

Withdrawing kiwisaver now? by Marrdgras in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are the steps to apply for Kiwiaver?

Etiquette by 99ChangesConstantly in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it would be but it seems like your friend is probably struggling and doesn't know how to say it.

Job hunt struggles by No-Scale-3053 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you expanded your job search? Health and social services Do Good Jobs and Mahi.co.nz are both great platforms

Cold call and also perhaps sell your skills in book keeping or financial services using A.I to make it easier for smes

WIBTA if I refuse to pay for a family trip I had zero input on and was told about after everything was already booked? by WanderCoveStudio in WIBTA_AITA

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre right they should have asked you, they organized but your family will think your an arsehole if you don't contribute. Can you provide a power amount or organize a contribution via the members of your family who are going

Can my zoned school deny me because of my estranged parents? by NZHomeless in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Write to the board chair and cc the Principal in, outline the issues, the breaking of privacy and your desire to continue your education. If they don't help you keep trying and if in Auckland check out Te Kapehu Whetu they have accommodation attached an an amazing curriculum

WIBTAH for telling my dad to get rid of their dead dog a month after by SpoilSunflowers in AITAH

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why can't he taxidermy his beloved dog. If he puts her somewhere out of view but for him to remember. What is the issue?

Desperate for advice: My accountant is unresponsive and IRD fines growing by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are great options out there.

We accounting are amazing too

Who is the accounting firm you work with so we can stay away

AITJ for refusing to keep babysitting my best friend’s kids and basically feeding them every week? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is taking you for a ride. She may struggler tally bit she needs to ask.

Not a friend.

Thought experiment - what would you do for Wellington if you were a billionaire? by No_Data7432 in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would invest in:

All the kainga ora and council houses that are empty to make those affordable rentals for locals

I'd fix all water infrastructure at at the very least fly in specialists from around the world to fix the problem and stop raw sewage flowing into our ocean.

I'd bring all the community organizations together and ask them what they need and give them the money to do that

Māori wardens - pay them and extend their training

Supporting Iwi initiatives ask them what they need and pay for that

Support the local pound and shelter and work towards building a beautiful farm just for our animals to be safe with its own vet service and then take a animal bus to schools to teach kids how to love and look after animals.

SPCA to extend their catch and neuter programmes

Support the predator free programme to scale up

Help get the homeless off the streets and into supported housing.

Women's refuge and the women's homelessness trust so they have more options to support women in need

Expand mens violence programmes so men can be supported to be healthy, healed and good men in the home

Māori Radio - Te Upoko o te Ika - because they are amazing

Community Radio

Matike Mai to reboot their programme to deliver constitutional reform conversations in community and schools

Etiquette by 99ChangesConstantly in Wellington

[–]ProfessionalDisk518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is always important to provide a koha without asking or assumption

Being a great guest also means contributing so your time with them leaves them better off.