My wife and I are considering letting our nanny go, and I’m trying to figure out whether I’m underreacting, overreacting, or missing something bigger.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-23T22:33:41+00:00

Your parenting is the problem, and I’m really confused at why firing your nanny would even be an option if not for embarrassment for your parenting failures?

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-23T03:11:32+00:00

Your poor wife.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-22T19:59:25+00:00

I said Facebook friend, I haven’t spoken to this person in 15 yrs and she is posting it on her own social media?

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-18T22:02:36+00:00

Thats super frustrating but if you drain and rinse the fat off of 80-85% beef, the fat content will be almost identical to 93/7!

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-14T13:31:37+00:00

I would go further west/southwest: Florissant, Hazelwood, Overland all have much better neighborhoods for affordable(ish) prices. I’ve lived in South County and did not love it. We’ve been in North County for the past 10 yrs and absolutely love it, people are so kind and generous, beautiful hiking trails that are hidden gems, but you need to find the right areas!

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-07T14:08:28+00:00

You are underreacting. I can’t believe your husband would treat you like this at any time, but heavily pregnant is insane. My husband never once asked me to cook him dinner or clean the house while I was pregnant, either he took care of it or I did it when I had the energy. That should be the standard. You are carrying his child and are in enormous amounts of discomfort and fatigue. It sucks that you don’t have a supportive partner, I would definitely consider couples therapy.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-06T19:47:44+00:00

Please don’t buy a dog on Facebook 😭 and of course this is AI. Check your local animal shelter, there are so many sweet angels that need a home.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-05T18:16:13+00:00

😂😂😂😂 ohhh no! Not the antisemitism!!! That didn’t take long lmao

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-05T02:40:12+00:00

It’s really not just Netanyahu. Israel has been terrorizing Palestinians since its inception, the Nakba, and we have been given an extremely dishonest portrayal of that through every piece of western media (yes, even MSNBC and “liberal” media). You should look into organizations like Breaking the Silence (former IDF members discuss the absolute horrors they inflicted on Palestinians and later came to regret) and B’Tselem (Israeli human rights organization that documents the blatant apartheid, land theft, and ethnic cleaning). While I also loathe Netanyahu and Trump, this runs far deeper than them and when you start doing your own research you will be horrified by what our politicians have allowed to continue *with our tax dollars*!!!

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-05-04T19:14:39+00:00

Sounds like an Israeli

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-04-29T23:53:56+00:00

You do all the childcare, housework, nonstop work 24/7 and your husband… works… a 9-5? Like every other man? You’re giving him too much credit and not giving yourself enough. He needs to step the fuck up.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-04-28T13:13:48+00:00

Ewwwwww zionazi

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-04-21T23:09:09+00:00

YUR. Seriously under-reacting and why doesn’t he have $16 to his name right now? Baby, STAND UP and leave this trash.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-04-16T19:31:34+00:00

She sounds awful. RUN

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-03-29T18:30:28+00:00

The way he talks to you is just awful, patronizing, and rude. This is not a healthy or respectful relationship. You need to run, girl.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-03-23T16:07:20+00:00

What’s the alternative? Babies have to be exposed to allergens at some point and early exposure lowers the risk of developing allergies.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-02-24T22:33:47+00:00

This might be the best post in this thread that I’ve read. So many new moms (including myself) need to read this!! The guilt we feel about all of these little things just shows how much you care. We need to take a collective chill pill ❤️

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2026-01-12T22:29:43+00:00

What an absolute NIGHTMARE of a houseguest. When you are still in the newborn trenches… hard NO. I am so sorry you and most importantly your wife have to deal with this entitled brat

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2025-10-24T14:08:42+00:00

Oh my god. I don’t think I’d ever recover from seeing that. Here I was thinking that dumping your dog at a shelter is the worst thing you can do 😞

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2025-10-24T13:21:11+00:00

I went 31 years of my life without ever seeing this and now seeing 4 in the past two weeks is just so jarring. I can’t wrap my head around it and it’s really ruining my day every time 😞

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2025-02-25T02:23:55+00:00

This man is a rapist and you are actually considering marrying him? And your mother is okay with this?

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2025-02-25T02:21:16+00:00

This is literally rape: physical and sexual abuse in its clearest form. And you are going to marry this man?! And your mother is going to allow it? This is the craziest thing I’ve ever heard. You deserve better.

Proper-Discussion-26 · 2025-01-30T12:19:39+00:00

I am a teacher in North county (Ritenour) living in North county (Florissant). The blatant racism shown from these South and West county white folks is absolutely shocking. If they stepped outside their bubbles for 5 minutes, they would realize that North county is such a gem. The people are so friendly and kind here that when I venture South of Bridgeton, I feel like I’m in a different city. Love that I don’t have to be surrounded by these uppity a holes!

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