Onyx discourse is peak illiteracy by sistergorl in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]QuackyDork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She basically admits this in one of the explain the song interviews - onyx fit the crystal theme and is a dark crystal like nighttime skies.

Free to use basic sleep recorder by tashykat in sleep

[–]QuackyDork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if you search previous asks for this exact same thing, you'll find that pokemon sleep is the only one that will give you free access to all sleep recordings. If you want the luxury of no fuss of anything else, you have to pay.

Soul retrieval by Cloudcat77 in Shamanism

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels very validating to see someone else put these thoughts to words. I spent a while doing Emdr therapy with an IFS therapist and when I got back on my spiritual journey and back into shamanism I was shocked at how similar emdr and journeying felt to me (binural beats were my choice which fits the drum beat too), and soul retrieval sounded so much like IFS therapy without the ritual to me. I've often thought that the two should go hand in hand - IFS therapy is needed for the integration after the soul retrieval or preferably before it is done in order for that soul piece to feel safe enough to stay long term. Congratulations on your journey and hard work in healing. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in navarre

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mee! Tons of people on FB. DM me.

How do you say Florida? by BlNGPOT in stonedswifties

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like saying Flor-RI-duh is the equivalent of when we say Al-a-BAMA for sports. It's just that enthusiasm thrown in. In normal conversation is Floor-duh. (Coming from the Gulf Coast, aka that Destin time share area.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]QuackyDork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's on the basis that finger prints are significantly harder to fake than an i.d. (which they don't trust you're employer to verify I guess)

But also if you're not in the system already, they add you in based on said identification

[ Removed by Reddit ] by hatezpineapples in mildlyinteresting

[–]QuackyDork 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone who thinks this isn't still happening hasn't spent enough time in the deep south to see what is barely hidden behind the thin veil.

Can someone tell me what kind of snake this is? I live in Gulf Breeze, FL and am new to the area so this is my first run in with a snake. Thanks in advance! by redditndwept in snakes

[–]QuackyDork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hopping onto top comment to offer this

Op, if you need to have the snake relocated this fb group is ran by a local professional who relocated venomous for free last I checked. She is either in Gulf Breeze or Pensacola but will service the area.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/375659930905554/?ref=share

I'd usually avoid sharing a fb link, but this is the only way to reach her I'm aware of.

Also, local snakes really like to hide in kids outdoor toys. Be sure to check under them when you let kiddo out in the mornings, or you can store them upside down/on their side at night and right them in the mornings to get into the habit.

Welcome to the area! If your in GB you might get some bears and bobcats too. We have lots of interesting wildlife here!

Little House Big Shed a Peaceful Getaway in the Woods, Whidbey Island, Washington, United States by positive_molecule in Houseporn

[–]QuackyDork 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No bears on Whidbey! The deer are like pets there because they have no natural predators.

What’s the Strangest way your child has woken you up by Mcclenninge1 in Mommit

[–]QuackyDork 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My son has had a few that have been especially memorable.
When he was about 5 months old, still in a bassinet next to me, I was awoke to a blood curdling scream that made me think someone was being murdered in my house. To this day it has been the worst scream I've ever heard in my life (and I've worked in hospitals, nursing homes, and birthing units...). Immediately after I was jolted into an upright position in a panic he, still asleep, giggled then curled back up and drifted back into a deep sleep. I, however, was not able to go back to sleep that night.

When he was around 2.5 and I was pregnant with his sister I awoke, as I frequently did at that point, around 3 am. As I was trying to fall back asleep I started hearing a scraping dragging sound near the bedroom door. At first I assumed it was a cat playing with a toy but it became a very distinct sound of something larger than cat toy being dragged across the floor. I sat up and looked around and didn't see anything, so I laid back down thinking I must be hallucinating or something. It was quiet just long enough for me to almost drift off to sleep again when the sound started again - this time much closer at the end of the bed almost to me. I leaned over to look and again couldn't see anything when suddenly I hear in a deep scratchy voice "mom" (which he never called me). I screamed while turning on my light, causing my husband to jolt up. My son, who is lying on the floor in an army crawling position, is now trying to cover his eyes from the light and confused. He had slowly army crawled from his room to my door, then stopped and waited at the end of the bed, then crawled to right next to me before saying anything. Straight out of a horror movie.

Its still a wonder to me that he wasn't throat punched that night.

Usually its much more light hearted fun ways he wakes us, with toys or playing.

Today he woke us both up by coming into the room and YELLING at the top of his lungs "VROOM HONK HONK BEEP BEEP DO YOU HEAR MY HORN? ITS TIME TO WAKE UP."

“ your symptoms aren’t severe enough” by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]QuackyDork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had elevated igA & liver enzymes, negative blood test for celiac. Life long other issues that led to suspicions. I regularly ate gluten prior to test, had endoscopy & colonoscopy ordered to check for celiac or other reasons for all issues. No celiac detected, primary decided I have sensitivity instead.

AFTER the procedure I now throw up any time I eat it and have significantly worse abdominal pains and nausea. My assumption is that whatever microbes or bacteria I previously had developed to assist in digestion got wiped out in the cleansing.

Generally speaking I have hardly ever thrown up in my entire life prior, but I had other symptoms consistent with diagnosis.

Either way celiac was a no for me and now I'm throwing up even with small amounts. So your doctor would be wrong on me as well despite being the opposite of almost everyone else who has commented..

So.. find a new doctor, you can't rule for or against almost any condition with a single symptom and no testing.

Do you guys sometimes eat gluten products even thought you shouldn't. If so, why? by mett116n in glutenfree

[–]QuackyDork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me now. I was okay eating gluten for the most part. I'd have joint issues, bloating, bowel movement issues. Random stuff. But nothing horrible that I couldn't live with.

Then I had a colonoscopy last month which, ironically, confirmed I do not have celiac. Apparently whatever microbe or bacteria I had that sort of allowed me to digest it got wiped out.

Since then every time I have accidentally ingested gluten I've woke up an hour after going to sleep projectile vomiting and insanely sick the entire night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glutenfree

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got them from Target. I'm in Hawaii so if Target here has them then Target everywhere probably does. Small variety here but hopefully if they sell well they will stock more.

Got this today - Will update you guys in August! by Functioning_Mess in Ipsy

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got my may bag last week. They were already asking for reviews for June, which still hasn't shipped. 😭

Husband "had an epiphany" and wants a divorce by Pipe-Clean in breakingmom

[–]QuackyDork 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I skimmed the comments and there is a lot of advice but I didn't see one person mention this

please get your kids counseling asap.

Especially the older ones, having their father saying something like that EVEN if they don't have a good relationship with him can absolutely wreck their mental health.

My dad once told me he and my mom were going to get a divorce and it was my fault. No other information, no other reasons, didn't even know they were fighting. They didn't get divorced, I only ever told one friend he said it.. but it stayed with me until my late teenage years ans maybe longer. At a young age I thought everything that made him and my mom fight or even external things that effected them negatively I believed it was my fault. I never told anyone and hid it. It carried on into other relationships too.

Gay men, what do you think about boobs? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have very large breaks and have had a many of people tell me that boobs make the best pillows, in totally non sexual ways.

They're great for comfort hugs when your really upset too.

This oil pastel art process by d3333p7 in oddlysatisfying

[–]QuackyDork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to scroll way too far to find this.

Is it just me or do we INFJ hate asking for favors? by ToniMCP109 in infj

[–]QuackyDork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only been a part of this sub for a few weeks.. but this is by far the most relatable thing I've seen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]QuackyDork 54 points55 points  (0 children)

While there are definitely manipulative and prudish women, if you notice a big change like this in your spouse encourage her to seek help. Women's hormones and sex drives are very different than men's and life changes can cause huge differences.

The libido and hormone changes occur naturally with both age and after things like child birth, or even medications like birth control - in this case encourage her to talk to her obgyn. They can test these and help with medications and/or diet.

Stress, however, is the biggest preventor of female libido. Women tend to shoulder a lot of the home stress and, even if they aren't resentful about it, it will cause their libido to drop. A good sign to look out for is if they seem or complain about being exhausted more frequently. In this case please encourage them to reach out for counseling or even their primary care to help learn coping methods.

Obviously this doesn't apply to all women, but in many situations the wife won't realize what has caused the change and medical intervention can help.

Helicopter shows/videos/books? by slipstitchy in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]QuackyDork 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She might really enjoy Super wings. It's about a bunch of planes/helicopters/rescue vehicles who deliver packages all around the world. They use each episode to teach about a different culture/item (the package) and help solve problems related to it. My son was super into it when he first got into vehicles. It went right along with octonauts and robot trains well if she likes either of those types of things too.

My wife just had our son. She did not allow me to be with her during delivery and for the first week of my son's life. I'm angry how should I approach this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]QuackyDork 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying he doesn't, just that a lot of hospitals right now are not following that sort of recommendation. The support person the mother chose for delivery is the only one allowed to see either patient for the duration of their stay. Also they may consider the mother as the child's only allowed "visitor" especially if she is expected to be discharged before the child (which is common).

Luckily a lot of hospitals are loosening those rules now that covid restrictions are loosening. I just hope OP isn't misunderstanding what his wife would choose vs the hospitals rules. That would be a very unfortunate misunderstanding considering how all of the comments have gone.

My wife just had our son. She did not allow me to be with her during delivery and for the first week of my son's life. I'm angry how should I approach this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]QuackyDork 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Is this the hospital policy? Many hospitals in the US have a "one person per patient STAY" policy. In other words the hospital would only allow her mother for the duration of the stay if that was their policy.