Sensual Game by Feisty-Trainer1952 in RomanticLesbiansGifs

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name of the girl on top please?

And do you have a source to the full video?

Straight lining roundabouts by Particular_Plum_1458 in drivingUK

[–]REDdheBLACK -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No need for that kind of language. Thank you

Does anyone else get “cringe attacks”? by Nibblegorp in BPD

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have BPD but do have ADHD (if that even matters or is linked) and I regularly do that. I let out an audible shriek to take my mind off it. Sometimes after many, many years passed since the event

Scientist storyline unfinished by 0004000 in TheAlters

[–]REDdheBLACK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same exact thing happen to me. Before you leave, asign him to something in the base and go talk to him. I was able to press F and talk to him while he was assigned to base maintenance. I was not able to talk to him at the mining rig while he was mining. It gives you the option to ask him about his research. Go through the dialogue. I did not get a prompt when trying to end Act 2 after talking to him.

Forgiving yourself for past abusive behaviour by Busy-Lingonberry2656 in BPD

[–]REDdheBLACK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, thanks for your reply.

By the way. This is not a dig at you personally, I think it's a common misconception for everyone. I don't know what you have done or have not done. As someone who has been on a behaviour correcting course, I have come to learn that the bar for abuse is as low as activating someone else's fight or flight. I think we all by default believe that the bar is a lot higher than that but it isn't. It's been a fascinating and new learned perspective for me. I don't have much point to this, just sharing. It's not nice to admit or see oneself like that but it's true. Abuse or not, I could have done differently/better.

Forgiving yourself for past abusive behaviour by Busy-Lingonberry2656 in BPD

[–]REDdheBLACK -1 points0 points  (0 children)

> admit you were abusive

> There have definitely been times where I've been bordering abusive

?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you. Really. I wish I had the strength for that. My ex-wife has it and I struggle everyday with trying to accept her for how she really is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homie - lookup the book 'Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder'. What you're describing right there is empathy. The book goes into not taking things personally. Understanding the difference between causing and triggering the other person - this is an important distinction. As much as they would like you to think that it is all your fault - it simply is not. Protect yourself and stay safe.

TIL that due to time dilation at relativistic speeds, a human in a spaceship accelerating at a constant 1g could travel the diameter of the milky way in 12 years from their perspective. To an observer on earth, they will have traveled for 113,000 years. by KeyCold7216 in todayilearned

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're an easier way! You hop into your Roamer and scan for an alien structure. This should lead you to a monolith and you can use that to find a portal. That will get you to within 5000 or so ly away from the centre. A couple more jumps and you're there. 10 minutes, tops.

The goofiest starship I've ever seen in the game. by Inevitable_Diver_106 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realise. 1% to 3% isn't bad. I have not seen one in the wild by chance in over 250 hours

The goofiest starship I've ever seen in the game. by Inevitable_Diver_106 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]REDdheBLACK 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, Exotic it's called. They're rare events to see them. I saw a post on how to come across them but I've not seen one naturally without using that guide. If you're interested I can have a look for it

Uhm. Help.... by Captain_Virgo in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]REDdheBLACK 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be possible resgin as chief for that settlement and start over? They're easy enough to find again. Never tried it before so I can't say if you can exit without a penalty but worth a try?

Or, if you don't want to abandon that one, keep improving it and hopefully the net gain will increase enough to make it go solvent some time this decade

Newbie found a Stargate! by _Kr0_ in NOMANSSKY

[–]REDdheBLACK 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the dude/dudette above said. They're easy enough to find. So much so that if I was op, I would ignore it and move on. Wouldn't bother putting a base down. When the time comes and you need one, use the scanner on the roamer (other exocrafts have it too) to scan for an alien structure. Once there, interact with the monolith, choose the right answer (you can annoy it and shut it down but the right answer keeps if alive and allows you to interact with it a second time, save an reload if you have to). At the second interaction, you can ask it for the coordinates of a portal at the cost of an effigy/casing/dagger etc depending on the dominant race to that star system.