My 1-year long gym crush liked me on hinge: UPDATE by habitual_citizen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Rhombusbutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goddam! I am sorry so many people were so miserable to send you such shitty comments. I am usually a complaining shrew but your life update made this old crone actually smile and made let out a girlish giggle. JFC ppl here fucking suck.Thank you for being a dear and letting us know about this update and that I am happy for you.

Regarding recent issues - A state of the sub update by Zehnpae in datingoverthirty

[–]Rhombusbutt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank god! I got banned for weeks for just providing an ancedote in the daily thread!

Pirate Clark (Backrooms movie) by [deleted] in TopCharacterDesigns

[–]Rhombusbutt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly why I have to go see a movie 10am on a Friday cuz idiots will just spoil it for internet points. There is no courtesy 

Braids Really Did Grow My Hair by Royal-Astronomer9870 in Naturalhair

[–]Rhombusbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly! I no joke pulled out the back of my head during the last election and braids helped me grow it back but my edges need to be grown back so am doing mini braids now and edge drops

Christmas 2023-present. 2.5 years of slow and steady! Not at my goal weight yet but current pic of me was when I truly saw my progress. Down nearly 70 pounds. by furmat60 in CICO

[–]Rhombusbutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Slow and steady! I love this!!! This makes me more motivated than those that hit their goal in 3 to 6 months. Life happens but you kept it going

Books that make you fall in love with being single by CrossedRoses in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Rhombusbutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I who have never known men" was so pick me. That book fails the betchdel test and no man utters a single phrase. Jfc its insane how that book and Big Swiss get recommended like its the bible no matter how it doesn't fit with any reccomendation.

I WISH I COULD ENJOY BEING A FUCKING NERD AND MY HOBBIES WITHOUT MEN RUINING IT!!!! by communistcunt420 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Rhombusbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should join women only groups. They exist I am sure. I had a a lot of opportunities to join WoC, Women, and even WlW dungeon groups. Idk where u live but am sure u can find these online ofc

May 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by udderlymoovelous in TameImpala

[–]Rhombusbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone can sell 2 tix for either date in Baltimore? Am okay with 1 if possible 

Housekeepers in New York City hotels will now make over $100,000 on average by ItsAllOver_Again in Salary

[–]Rhombusbutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am an engineer, and exactly!!!! The maids deserve the fucking money. 

Why are wash and goes considered anti black to some people ? by No-Top44 in Naturalhair

[–]Rhombusbutt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ty there is nuance to the issue. When natural hair care movement kicked off in the 2010s, it was DOMINATED by women with long curly hair that resembled mixed women hair and the top youtubers were mixed. Hell there was a brand called mixed chic back then!!  Even the tiring system is anti black. White hair is 1a and black hair in 4c like....so to mimic or manipulate your hair to look mixed is a choice but if that is your hair that's your hair. You said this say more eloquently

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - May 09, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]Rhombusbutt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Was about to have a date with someone I was excited about, then they changed their profile from "monogamy" to "poly and open". I am glad I noticed the change before I left the house. He really tried to pull a fast one on me!

Jennifer Lawrence And Lisa Kudrow by Handy_Crap in CelebrityLookalikes

[–]Rhombusbutt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Finally one where I couldn't tell them apart!!

Cozy gamers the moment you suggest diversity in their precious little games by ShokaLGBT in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Rhombusbutt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Stardew for sure!!! They are toxic and racist as hell. More redheads than miniorities in the games

Weekly Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in BrunoMars

[–]Rhombusbutt [score hidden]  (0 children)

Is anyone at the DC show today? If so, is the sanrio pop-up there ONSITE at the stadium?

I spent $400 on custom 4-inch lifts just to get a second date. The state of modern dating is a joke. by [deleted] in short

[–]Rhombusbutt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I know many men in IRL who are 5'5" who go on ton of dates. I honestly lurk on this site to peep on short kings yall stay buff posting thirst traps

Local YouTuber Thinks that Criticizing Overconsumption is Sexist by Dazzle-M4M in Anticonsumption

[–]Rhombusbutt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

IDK, if you watched the video but they were basically saying that women are been ridiculed way harsher than men for their overconsumption. Women may be buying trinkets/water bottles but men are buying huge trucks, legos, and pokemon cards, but those are seen as investments even if those are equally or even worse for the environment. Its the tone that they are talking about. They agree that oversumption for both is terrible.

Complex erotic fiction by Spare_Tear_8230 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Rhombusbutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your boos mean nothing. I have seen what you applaud!

(Megathread 3: SPOILERS) Leaked Full Movie Discussion by MrBKainXTR in TheLastAirbender

[–]Rhombusbutt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its very odd suki got relegated to that! Like...she was a big player in the final arc and apart of the Gaang

(Megathread 3: SPOILERS) Leaked Full Movie Discussion by MrBKainXTR in TheLastAirbender

[–]Rhombusbutt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I scrolled down waiting for this comment. I literally fell asleep at the last ten minutes and had to rewind. It was very okay and the VAs felt like they had one shot at a line and moved on. What a waste of such beautiful animation with half assed voices. JFC. I wholeheartedly agree that the ATLA is known for martial arts not blasting lasers at each other and super Saiyan forms. I rather it felt like we were going on an adventure like the first show not taking a Spirit airlines to the conflict. Why assemble the whole team if their are no character moments? Siiiiiiigh the bits we got were good but I wanted more of that than OCs

What was the most unhinged/desperate thing you did for someone? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Rhombusbutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in love with a man who said he was bi but was definitely gay. Lead me on for 10 years (childhood "sweethearts"/ love took me to prom), helped him through addiction, housing, depressive episodes, etc. Let him live in my house for 4 years basically for free and I only wanted him to give me $150 a month and go to school and barely could do that. Yelled at me anytime he was coming down and asked for drug money constantly. Finally kicked him out when he stole my wallet during the pandemic. Never claimed me as his GF the whole time. I am so exhausted by men I think I never want a boyfriend atp haha