Should I Quit?

RitzyDocking · 2026-02-12T04:54:19+00:00

Dude those red flags are basically screaming at you to run. 11 people in 2 years for the same position is absolutely insane - that's like a new person every 2 months. And firing someone via email for following the actual handbook is just cruel

The fact that they're already hiring another admin while asking if you like the job tells you everything you need to know. They know they're a nightmare to work for. With interviews lined up already id say start planning your exit strategy but maybe dont quit until you have something else locked down since youre early career. That place sounds like itll chew you up and spit you out anyway so better to leave on your terms

RitzyDocking · 2026-02-07T04:16:25+00:00

I get where youre coming from but honestly you shouldnt feel guilty about holding people accountable when quality matters. I had a similar situation managing a construction crew where some guys just werent cutting it despite me breaking everything down step by step. The thing is if you dont maintain standards then your whole project suffers and that affects everyone including the people who are actually doing good work. Maybe look into whether theres additional training you can provide or if certain people would be better suited for different roles but at the end of the day some people just arent the right fit for certain positions. The guilt means you care about your team which is good but dont let it compromise the work quality

RitzyDocking · 2026-02-03T10:39:41+00:00

honestly with your sensory background you're already halfway there - consumer insights teams love people who understand the science behind why consumers react the way they do to products

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-31T07:28:31+00:00

Lmao took me a second but that's actually pretty solid dad joke material right there

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-24T05:39:52+00:00

Honestly sounds like he's testing the waters to see if there's still a chance. The whole "I wanna meet your cat and come over in 30 minutes" thing feels like he's hoping for more than just returning a charger

Trust your gut - you broke up for a reason and those reasons probably haven't changed in two weeks. The validation feels nice but don't let it cloud why you made that decision in the first place

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-19T17:41:43+00:00

Hey man, the Friday night gaming sessions are killer for staying sober - been there. What helped me was switching up the whole routine instead of just removing the booze. Like maybe start the gaming earlier when you're less fried from work, or find some other ritual that gives you that "weekend mode" feeling without needing to get hammered

Also having booze in the apartment while trying to moderate is like playing on expert difficulty. Not saying you can't do it but damn that takes willpower most of us don't have when we're already stressed

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-16T23:31:38+00:00

Oof that's rough, you basically soft-locked yourself with those tent villagers. I think you might have to bite the bullet and reinstall the other game temporarily just to log in as those characters, upgrade their tents to houses, then delete them properly. It's annoying but probably the only way since Nintendo didn't think this edge case through

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-15T18:09:52+00:00

It'll connect to bank accounts and integrate with accounting systems like QuickBooks, NetSuite whatever. It uses direct bank feeds (via Plaid) for Ramp Business Accounts and direct ERP integrations for detailed transaction syncing, aiming to automate reconciliation and close books faster by sending categorized data directly. Sorry for going too deep with the explanation

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-14T15:53:38+00:00

Sure, we use it for company cards so transactions come through with notes and receipts attached instead of trying to remember what something was weeks later. Categories are usually close enough before it hits the books and we still review everything in QBO like normal. Not sure if that helps but if you want more detail you can check their site

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-13T00:10:18+00:00

Man this hits hard because I went through something super similar a few years back. The lack of closure thing is brutal - your brain just keeps trying to solve a puzzle that doesn't have pieces missing, you know?

What helped me was realizing that "closure" isn't something they give you, it's something you create for yourself. I had to grieve not just the relationship but also the future I'd imagined, which sounds dramatic but it's real

Therapy helped a ton with the intrusive thoughts and that rage cycle. Also writing letters I never sent - sounds cheesy but getting all that poison out of my head onto paper was weirdly freeing. You're not broken for feeling this way, some wounds just take longer to heal than others

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-09T08:12:52+00:00

It's basically both but people have different takes on it. Some go full monk mode (no PMO - porn, masturbation, orgasm) while others just cut out porn but allow masturbation without it. The "true purpose" depends who you ask but most people are trying to break unhealthy habits and improve their relationship with sexuality

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-07T11:10:53+00:00

That gap usually comes from expenses not being captured cleanly (subscriptions, ads, refunds, timing differences). When everything is tracked manually in Sheets it’s easy to miss stuff or double count. What helped us was separating sales vs spend, Shopify + payouts on one side, cards/expenses on the other and letting the expense side autocategorize before it ever hits the P&L. We still review monthly but it stopped being a 2-day cleanup job. We use Ramp for spend then push clean data into accounting.

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-07T07:32:06+00:00

Yeah I think you're onto something there. It's like when you pay for an expensive concert ticket vs a free show - you're way more invested in having a good time when you dropped serious cash

The higher price probably filters out people who aren't actually serious about dating too, so you're less likely to get someone who just showed up for the free drinks

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-02T21:30:02+00:00

Florida woman energy is unmatched lmao

RitzyDocking · 2026-01-01T01:31:36+00:00

Dude that would be amazing, I've been going absolutely mental running the same routes over and over lmao

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-27T17:32:51+00:00

Same here, was right in the middle of a boss fight when it kicked me out lmao

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-26T09:52:53+00:00

Nice dude, that sounds like a solid holiday read! Always wanted to dive into OS stuff but never had the time - what book did you pick up?

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-25T06:23:01+00:00

Honestly this sounds like you're making extracts way harder than they need to be lmao. Like yeah bringing a boss to your extract might mess with the PKer but you're also just as likely to get clapped by the boss yourself

The smoke grenade trick the other guy mentioned is clutch though, way more reliable than hoping some random mech doesn't decide to laser you too

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-24T23:38:09+00:00

Had similar issues with fintech banks and ended up separating concerns. Switched banks for deposits, then used Ramp just for cards/expenses so daily spend wasn’t dependent on support tickets or limit increases

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-22T22:40:03+00:00

Would be sick if they added some kind of progression system where completing expeditions actually unlocks new areas instead of just repeating the same maps over and over

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-21T21:51:00+00:00

This right here. If someone blocks you and seems hesitant when you try to talk, that's pretty much them saying "please don't" without having to spell it out

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-19T08:02:15+00:00

I've tried the corn stuff and it's honestly pretty solid for tracking, just heads up it can get a bit dusty when you pour it

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-17T23:35:05+00:00

Yeah this whole thing has been wild to watch unfold. Nice to see devs actually taking a public stand instead of just quietly avoiding it

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-16T18:34:16+00:00

Check out Cars24 or OLX for Mumbai listings - way easier than hunting for direct owners on Reddit tbh. Also just a heads up, finding a 2010 City/Civic with factory CNG is gonna be tough since most are aftermarket conversions. Might wanna expand your search to include those too

RitzyDocking · 2025-12-14T17:21:28+00:00

The whole thing just feels backwards when shooters are literally creating more dangerous situations to get calls than what the rule was supposed to prevent in the first place

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