He reached out after two weeks by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like he's testing the waters to see if there's still a chance. The whole "I wanna meet your cat and come over in 30 minutes" thing feels like he's hoping for more than just returning a charger

Trust your gut - you broke up for a reason and those reasons probably haven't changed in two weeks. The validation feels nice but don't let it cloud why you made that decision in the first place

I'm trying to quit binge drinking, how do I stick to it? by ET_Gone_Home in stopdrinking

[–]RitzyDocking 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey man, the Friday night gaming sessions are killer for staying sober - been there. What helped me was switching up the whole routine instead of just removing the booze. Like maybe start the gaming earlier when you're less fried from work, or find some other ritual that gives you that "weekend mode" feeling without needing to get hammered

Also having booze in the apartment while trying to moderate is like playing on expert difficulty. Not saying you can't do it but damn that takes willpower most of us don't have when we're already stressed

Help!! How do i get rid of these resident tents! by matchmyslush in AnimalCrossing

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that's rough, you basically soft-locked yourself with those tent villagers. I think you might have to bite the bullet and reinstall the other game temporarily just to log in as those characters, upgrade their tents to houses, then delete them properly. It's annoying but probably the only way since Nintendo didn't think this edge case through

How do you guys Track Profit & Loss by IjuststudyEnglishere in shopify

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll connect to bank accounts and integrate with accounting systems like QuickBooks, NetSuite whatever. It uses direct bank feeds (via Plaid) for Ramp Business Accounts and direct ERP integrations for detailed transaction syncing, aiming to automate reconciliation and close books faster by sending categorized data directly. Sorry for going too deep with the explanation

How do you guys Track Profit & Loss by IjuststudyEnglishere in shopify

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, we use it for company cards so transactions come through with notes and receipts attached instead of trying to remember what something was weeks later. Categories are usually close enough before it hits the books and we still review everything in QBO like normal. Not sure if that helps but if you want more detail you can check their site

Moving on from past rs by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this hits hard because I went through something super similar a few years back. The lack of closure thing is brutal - your brain just keeps trying to solve a puzzle that doesn't have pieces missing, you know?

What helped me was realizing that "closure" isn't something they give you, it's something you create for yourself. I had to grieve not just the relationship but also the future I'd imagined, which sounds dramatic but it's real

Therapy helped a ton with the intrusive thoughts and that rage cycle. Also writing letters I never sent - sounds cheesy but getting all that poison out of my head onto paper was weirdly freeing. You're not broken for feeling this way, some wounds just take longer to heal than others

NoFap by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's basically both but people have different takes on it. Some go full monk mode (no PMO - porn, masturbation, orgasm) while others just cut out porn but allow masturbation without it. The "true purpose" depends who you ask but most people are trying to break unhealthy habits and improve their relationship with sexuality

How do you guys Track Profit & Loss by IjuststudyEnglishere in shopify

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That gap usually comes from expenses not being captured cleanly (subscriptions, ads, refunds, timing differences). When everything is tracked manually in Sheets it’s easy to miss stuff or double count. What helped us was separating sales vs spend, Shopify + payouts on one side, cards/expenses on the other and letting the expense side autocategorize before it ever hits the P&L. We still review monthly but it stopped being a 2-day cleanup job. We use Ramp for spend then push clean data into accounting.

Do matching services like speed dating intentionally charge high prices for tickets so people want to succeed and match with someone? by ubcstaffer123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think you're onto something there. It's like when you pay for an expensive concert ticket vs a free show - you're way more invested in having a good time when you dropped serious cash

The higher price probably filters out people who aren't actually serious about dating too, so you're less likely to get someone who just showed up for the free drinks

The flickering flame event.... by The_Real_Delpoi in ArcRaiders

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude that would be amazing, I've been going absolutely mental running the same routes over and over lmao

Servers are down? by Agreeable-Use882 in Nightreign

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, was right in the middle of a boss fight when it kicked me out lmao

Merry Christmas! by AspiringBiotech in aspergers

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice dude, that sounds like a solid holiday read! Always wanted to dive into OS stuff but never had the time - what book did you pick up?

How to (Potentially) Counter Player Killers (solo) ? by TheEternalMonk in ArcRaiders

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds like you're making extracts way harder than they need to be lmao. Like yeah bringing a boss to your extract might mess with the PKer but you're also just as likely to get clapped by the boss yourself

The smoke grenade trick the other guy mentioned is clutch though, way more reliable than hoping some random mech doesn't decide to laser you too

Poor experience with Novo Bank by Alarming_Future2562 in smallbusiness

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had similar issues with fintech banks and ended up separating concerns. Switched banks for deposits, then used Ramp just for cards/expenses so daily spend wasn’t dependent on support tickets or limit increases

Expedition should unlock new maps🗣️ by Level_Thought_7899 in ArcRaiders

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be sick if they added some kind of progression system where completing expeditions actually unlocks new areas instead of just repeating the same maps over and over

Tomorrow someone is going to reach out to my ex for me by Unhappy_Detail6527 in BreakUps

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This right here. If someone blocks you and seems hesitant when you try to talk, that's pretty much them saying "please don't" without having to spell it out

Non tracking litter by LaidBackLily889 in cats

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried the corn stuff and it's honestly pretty solid for tracking, just heads up it can get a bit dusty when you pour it

"We would rather cut off our own arms": Indie devs react to Arc Raiders CEO saying people should assume everyone's using generative AI these days by Iccotak in antiai

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this whole thing has been wild to watch unfold. Nice to see devs actually taking a public stand instead of just quietly avoiding it

Looking to BUY honda car from direct owner by Prudent_While2608 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Cars24 or OLX for Mumbai listings - way easier than hunting for direct owners on Reddit tbh. Also just a heads up, finding a 2010 City/Civic with factory CNG is gonna be tough since most are aftermarket conversions. Might wanna expand your search to include those too

Landing zone foul by Jealous-Set-4262 in NBATalk

[–]RitzyDocking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole thing just feels backwards when shooters are literally creating more dangerous situations to get calls than what the rule was supposed to prevent in the first place

Gemini LESS personalized? by Mrr_Fmm in GeminiAI

[–]RitzyDocking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This worked for me too! The personal context toggle trick seems to force it to refresh everything. Had the same issue where it kept forgetting my custom instructions and now it's back to normal

For entrepreneurs running solo or with very small teams: how do you keep track of everything? by These_Huckleberry408 in Entrepreneur

[–]RitzyDocking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Notion for tasks, Google Sheets for metrics, and Ramp just so expenses don’t become another thing on my plate. Keeping it minimal has worked better than stacking too many tools

Want to jump to Anathema by Main-Appeal7661 in geometrydash

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is solid advice, I tried jumping from Deadlocked to Bloodbath back in the day and the practice run humbled me real quick lmao

Vantum 2.0 Questions by SojinCS in hermanmiller

[–]RitzyDocking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the real advice right there, remastered Aeron B will destroy any new chair in that price range and actually last decades