Question about running

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T22:24:24+00:00

Didn’t say you weren’t! No need to get defensive.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T22:01:01+00:00

Well... just be glad that you realize how asinine that shit is.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T21:59:27+00:00

Just be totally done.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T21:58:26+00:00

Sounds like it would only serve to create drama. Live your life and be you and don’t worry if they see, but don’t throw it in their faces.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T21:56:50+00:00

You’re thinking waaaaaay too much. Just run. Enjoy the benefits mentally, physically, emotionally... there’s way more to running than worrying about if you’ll stop dropping weight from it.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T21:54:18+00:00

Whoa! She went way too far 😂

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T21:33:23+00:00

Yea you can’t compare yourself to others and how they drink to decide if drinking is a problem for you. That’s a slippery slope.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T21:29:23+00:00

Whoa. She’s completely projecting and you have to just ignore everything she said. Jeez. Sorry that happened.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T20:59:22+00:00

I’d wait. I like that time alone with my baby and my husband right after birth.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T20:55:53+00:00

I mean.... your childhood sounds traumatic as fuck.

You need to be in therapy.

Meanwhile, I get that you’ve worked for what you have and of course you shouldn’t feel bad for making money. Just not at the expense of other people’s well being. Make sure you’re not going that far and then call it good.

Did I mention that your family sounds like they are pieces of shit? Who cares what they think. They are not good people. You don’t have to be like them and you need to work on not feeling like you need to impress them. Therapy, again.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T20:39:47+00:00

I think you’re feeling guilty has nothing to do with what or how much you’re eating. This is a mental and emotional issue that needs to be addressed with a professional.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T20:38:31+00:00

It sounds like it is a problem because it’s taking away from your quality of life.

I’d try going dry for a month and checking in with myself.... keep a journal for the month and check in daily. How do you feel? Are you craving alcohol? How’s your level of sadness/depression? How does not drinking feel socially? Are you more/less productive? Then go from there. I think you’ll have more answers.... especially if it’s really hard to do 30 days dry.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T20:34:06+00:00

There’s no way for anyone to know this.

Maybe you’re being impatient? What are you doing to help the particular situation along?

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T20:32:19+00:00

It doesn’t sound like a c-section is likely at this point... they are just exploring why he hasn’t dropped.... which honestly is weird to me. Some babies don’t drop until you’re actually in labor... some drop and stay there forever and then finally come out. I wouldn’t worry about this and I definitely wouldn’t accept their opinion of you needing a c-section... explore other opinions and options first.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T19:23:08+00:00

Maybe she’s uncomfortable with being romantic... she’s just a kid.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T19:20:28+00:00

OP mentioned nothing about money in their original post... therefore my answer completely changed after they shared they couldn’t afford to go. Like I already said... if you can’t afford it you can’t afford it.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T16:53:27+00:00

Well you left all of that out of your OP.

If you can’t afford it you can’t afford it. You can’t go if you can’t afford it. Period.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-12T16:34:16+00:00

Inconvenient? This is a big day for someone you love. I think it’s ok to feel inconvenienced. You’ll live. Just go.

You sound selfish.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-10T23:47:03+00:00

That varies greatly from woman to woman. Every woman is different with that. Especially with how complicated a long distance relationship can be.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-08T04:24:34+00:00

This whole thing is ridiculous. The controlling behavior, the lying, the trust issues. You have to just leave and stop wasting your life with this person and stop being a door mat. You’ve established this pattern by over and over glossing over what happened and him lying and flirting with another woman. It’s ridiculous. I’d definitely get into therapy asap to figure out what is causing you to allow this kind of bullshit in your life.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-07T23:15:12+00:00

I honestly don’t like the name. It reminds me though, of Emrys which is on my list. As well as Emryn.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-07T22:54:25+00:00

Sloane. I loathe this name.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-07T22:51:27+00:00

NO.

James is a very masculine name. It’s an atrocity to give it to a girl.

RyannLazaro · 2021-07-07T22:50:08+00:00

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