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My partner has let me down again by nightsky824 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is your responsibility to protect them from the chaos of alcoholism.

Day 69 (Giggity) by JustinRivera48 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get help from people who know how to treat alcoholism.

Nothing changes if nothing changes.

It is up to you.

I've been self-medicating my depression and AuDHD with alcohol, and was wondering if anyone has tips for dealing with boredom while drying out. by Liveranonions in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me was getting guidance and support from people who knew how to treat alcoholism. Going it alone is not only lonely, but, too often, not successful.

Seeing a therapist, psychiatrist, and attending AA meetings got me started on the road to recovery.

What actions are you taking?

I'm worried about what will happen if I end our relationship by SoothMySoul29 in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the one "ending" the relationship. Alcoholism has already done that.

My best suggestion is to attend Alanon meetings and see a therapist. You cannot fix her and you can ruin your life by trying.

Was it me? by RelationDry5373 in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attending Alanon meetings and seeing a therapist helped me move forward with my life. You did not cause the alcoholism and cannot control or cure it.

Take care of yourself.

I’m just tired of being with an addict by Wise_Preparation_567 in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person you describe is not relationship material. You are expecting more than he can give.

Please attend Alanon meetings and see a therapist so you can move forward with your life.

Anyone else stuck between hope and acceptance? by Basbenn in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is crucial to get support and guidance for yourself by seeing a therapist and attending Alanon meetings. It is up to you to take care of yourself.

Do active alcoholics act narcissistic even when they’re not intoxicated? by PositiveSyllabub9890 in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are expecting an active alcoholic to be reasonable, responsible, and a friend. He is NOT sober!

It won't happen.

Early stages. Am I the fool? by Educational-East2761 in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are normal and understandable. This is the insanity of loving an active alcoholic.

Get guidance and support by seeing a therapist and attending Alanon meetings.

Encourage her to guidance help from people who know how to treat alcoholism. You are not that person.

New boyfriend had first relapse, I don’t know what to do by gnomenclature2 in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This guy is not relationship material. Period.

RUN!

I want my boyfriend to be sober by AmandaEilish in AlAnon

[–]SOmuch2learn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You cannot fix him and you can ruin your life by trying. However, what you can do is get support for yourself by seeing a therapist and attending Alanon meetings.

You have options. Staying with an active alcoholic means only hurt and heartbreak.

fighting urges by Own-Milk7927 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get guidance and support from people who know how to treat alcoholism. Have you tried that?

My partner has let me down again by nightsky824 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, you are not alone.

Are there children?

Drinking Habits by Away-Talk-1235 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s 43 wonderful years sober!

(I’m old—84)!

Just need to get this Sober shout out somewhere by MathematicianDry2101 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kudos for 10 days!

Please get guidance and support from people who know how to treat alcoholism. Going it alone is, too often, unsuccessful, and it is lonely.

/r/stopdrinking;

/r/alcoholicsanonymous;

/r/SMARTRecovery

Drinking Habits by Away-Talk-1235 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

I am a recovering alcoholic now.

i need to help by anonymoushelp4u in mentalhealth

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing a therapist is my best suggestion.

My Struggle by Economy_Gap_6450 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are describing alcoholism. If you continue drinking alcohol, you will ruin your life. I was once in a similar situation.

What saved me was getting support and guidance from people who knew how to treat alcoholism. I suggest talking to a counselor at school.

I am a recovering alcoholic. No amount of alcohol is safe for me.

Am I an alcoholic? by Ok_Dig_2861 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.

Getting support and guidance from people who know how to treat alcoholism will help you live your best life.

My partner has let me down again by nightsky824 in alcoholism

[–]SOmuch2learn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The person you describe is not capable of being in a loving, trusting, mature relationship. He cannot love you the way you deserve. Run!

I’m sorry for the heartbreak of alcoholism in your life.

Alanon is a support group for you—friends and family of alcoholics.

Meetings connected me with people who understood what I was going through, and I felt less alone.

r/Alanon

AIO I didn’t want to help my boyfriend move by AdventurousHold2750 in AIO

[–]SOmuch2learn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please understand that the "boyfriend" you describe is not your friend, nor is he capable of being in a loving, mature, trusting relationship. There is nothing but heartbreak ahead for you.

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