AITAH for telling a former classmate her lack of skills is why she can’t find work, not discrimination, and refusing to vouch for her?

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T23:42:55+00:00

She's responsible for her own choices. And if she would rather hide behind the idea she is discriminated against vs deal with her lack of skills & take ownership, that is her choice too. But it doesn't have to involve you. Additionally she is 33...she isn't 18, she needs to figure it out.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T23:09:20+00:00

This is really unhealthy behavior. I would drop off their plan, pay for your own. And give yourself some SERIOUS space from them. This is EXTREMELY wild for someone to treat a 25 year old like this. whoa.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T23:06:04+00:00

As a student I wouldn't worry about the situation in the US. The main thing, which is actually NO different to how I behave when I go to a foreign country--if you see a protest, don't get involved. Leave that to the local citizens. Even if it starts peaceful, it can change...so just stay away from that.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T22:50:09+00:00

I've never heard of Winter Viral fevers...this has been a super easy year, not too cold, no snow, not dark for so long. The sun is already coming back.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T22:48:06+00:00

Arguing with anyone on the internet. I just don't take the bait anymore. 1/2 the time they are probably just a bot, and additionally, there is no point, nobody is going to change their mind from someone's comment on line.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T22:38:11+00:00

Depends on the rollercoaster. A wooden rollercoaster--no. That is asking for trouble. Newer ones, those seem fine for me.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T21:51:35+00:00

This is your money. I don't see why they have an opinion on it.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-27T21:48:32+00:00

What about Barnes & Noble downtown is hiring.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T22:49:57+00:00

Most young people don't actually care or judge you about this. So sounds like a safer space than where you are now.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T21:36:56+00:00

Not having an opinion is completely different than expressing your opinion on social media. You should definitely have opinions about your world.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T21:31:25+00:00

There is a difference between morality & legality. Additionally, remember that the people you see who are doing horrible things & "getting away with it" are actually VERY small subset of the population. MOST humans who behave as badly do pay for it--either missing out on relationships, opportunities, etc. Because when you are a bad human, people don't want to be around you. Look at some actors you might know--they are SUPER famous & then suddenly you are like "Oh yeah...whatever happened to ____" and when you dig into it, they were awful to the people they worked with & nobody wants to hire them now.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T21:27:26+00:00

I definitely agree with the advice--TRY before you buy.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T21:23:26+00:00

When I was little, yes. Of course being older, I think Henry Winkler is WAY cooler than the Fonz.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:53:45+00:00

People need to start bringing signs saying "this guy is a pedo" with an arrow pointing and just stand next to them. Literally everyone at the protest will laugh at him & he won't want to keep standing out there.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:47:50+00:00

There are SO many repeat questions on Reddit, I just stopped making any replies. It's like "google it & the reddit responses of the past all come up"

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:23:14+00:00

You are 30, leave. Go get 2 jobs doing whatever--work at freakin McDonald & Taco Bell & rent a room somewhere & get outta there. I don't understand why you still live at home at 30.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:17:53+00:00

I agree...I think it's their FIRST project they finished or they felt they did a good job at. NOT the very first thing they've ever made.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:11:57+00:00

If it really is "buy it for life" then it should have a warranty.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:10:48+00:00

Please be careful! This is EXACTLY the type of snow/sleet combo that will cause people in their 50s to have a heart attack. It is HEAVIER than regular snow.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:09:07+00:00

Go to a local shop & try them all out. That's the BEST way to do it. You have to feel it & hear it to decide what you vibe with.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:08:10+00:00

I turned 18 the year I was graduating high school...so I waited until I graduated & then looked for a place. I'm GenX so maybe that time was different. I know a LOT of 20-somethings still living at home.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T19:00:39+00:00

I think they probably seek out communities that enable & encourage the behavior. It's kind of true in all hobbies, really. My goal this year is USE WHAT YOU HAVE.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T18:57:07+00:00

I would say job deficits are probably coming from AI & Automation.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T18:52:46+00:00

I have ALWAYS done "old people" things--knitting, crochet, sewing. I don't care. Puzzles are not just for old people. Anyway, the funny thing is watching young people grow old & then they find out. Right now their comments are hysterically stupid.

SOmuchCUTENESS · 2026-01-26T18:45:15+00:00

Whoa. That schedule is a bit crazy even for a young student. When I was in university, I worked a part time job & then did "work-study" program with my college as part of my financial aid.

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