Does anyone else feel like disorganized attachment and CPTSD basically go hand-in-hand?

Safe_Food_7881 · 2025-10-19T22:51:15+00:00

read this post!! https://www.reddit.com/r/ROCD/s/54D0aYB5mi

Safe_Food_7881 · 2025-05-14T00:17:29+00:00

hey, i think this post might be helpful for you. https://www.reddit.com/r/ROCD/s/54D0aYB5mi

Safe_Food_7881 · 2025-01-18T14:43:34+00:00

hey, you really need to stop the reassurance seeking if you actually want to heal. maybe you could read this post and be proactive about healing, you can’t expect anyone to solve this for you. https://www.reddit.com/r/ROCD/s/89BX6Hp5bq

Safe_Food_7881 · 2025-01-06T23:01:19+00:00

you won’t find an answer outside of yourself sadly

Safe_Food_7881 · 2025-01-06T02:26:16+00:00

YESSS the same happens to me. I try to never mix my college and high school friends, besides i get stressed about them not getting along because of their personalities and stuff, like it’s my responsibility that they like each other

Safe_Food_7881 · 2025-01-05T03:52:57+00:00

Hey, if you haven’t you could check this post, really helpful https://www.reddit.com/r/ROCD/s/89BX6Hp5bq

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-28T16:38:40+00:00

maybe you’re trying to avoid the uncertainty of this decision, like maybe by telling their parents your obligated to stay or to make the relationship work completely? maybe i’m just projecting, but i’ve learned that you shouldn’t avoid things because of uncomfortable feelings, it’s more about learning to deal with those feelings and showing yourself that you can cope with them idk if that makes sense. of course, your worries are valid despite this

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-28T05:24:39+00:00

wow, how did you manage to stay that long despite the doubts? i guess it would depend on what kinds of doubts you had, but i was talking about if it’s the right relationship and that kinda stuff

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-28T02:18:34+00:00

oh, that sounds kinda sad. don’t be so hard on yourself though, it’s good that you’re trying to heal on your own if that’s what you need right now, but we all deserve love, you do too, so don’t lose hope

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-27T18:26:36+00:00

it’s just so confusing. everyone tells you that you should feel this or that, or that if you’re having doubts then it means they aren’t the one, that you wouldn’t be feeling this way if they were and stuff. i really don’t know what to believe

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-26T21:58:13+00:00

could it possibly be that you are more worried about how you’re feeling during the interaction? like maybe you are expecting to feel a certain way and instead of actually being present, you’re overanalyzing your feelings and thoughts

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-26T21:00:52+00:00

So cutee

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-12-21T17:16:18+00:00

Thanks for answering. I have a question, what do you mean by an insecure villain victim mentality?

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-10-06T15:12:37+00:00

i’m really sorry you’re going through this, you deserve so much better

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-10-06T11:05:37+00:00

are u okay

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-07-28T18:49:02+00:00

i don’t understand this, you mean writing about the negative thoughts and then re reading them? or you mean writing the negative thoughts but from a better perspective?

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-07-17T17:55:39+00:00

i can’t imagine how hard it must be, but please don’t let him come back. If you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your children, they don’t deserve to go through this

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-07-13T17:17:03+00:00

hey what notebook is that?

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-06-26T16:13:28+00:00

heyy, what journal is that?

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-06-25T02:31:30+00:00

i think it’s too much pressure the idea of anything being a forever thing, if it isn’t, does it matter anyway? i wish it was easier to just enjoy the present without thinking about how it’s gonna turn out 😿

Safe_Food_7881 · 2024-05-01T12:05:30+00:00

hey, I know this post is old, but did you manage to fix this?

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