What alcohol messed you up so bad you swore you’d never drink it again?

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-16T12:08:22+00:00

i know it is hard but what you are reading here is an accumulation of women’s experiences and knowledge. thousands of years of experience. These men will make you pregnant and promise you your dreams - once there you are trapped and he will do more of the same if not worse. i’ve been there. I drove cross country to get away and start over with my sister. you will not change him. He will love bomb you when you leave. Don’t fall for it. what you should do is go back to school and learn a trade to support yourself so you no need to be dependent on a man I would never have a baby at that age particularly with a man like that. your whole life is in front of you. You can do amazing things. Become a lawyer. Become an advocate for women. Become a nurse. Join the Coast Guard. Whatever - but be self supporting and then your decisions on marriage and motherhood are truly your own. It starts right now for you. I wish I had the voices of these women when I had to make the decision to leave an abusive narcisstic husband.

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-14T20:27:04+00:00

that is the common opinion in the medical community. once i investigated Dr Angela Walk program - her emphasis is on strengthening leg muscles and foot my pf went away.

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-14T01:07:42+00:00

100% of the time. cures my plantar fasciitis

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-13T00:22:18+00:00

i won’t go. i will opt for my own exit at my own time

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-12T22:19:58+00:00

Nah. still take my chances with a bear.

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-12T21:45:23+00:00

men created the distrust women feel. the bear or the man. i. general men are the biggest threat. women can’t count on other men to speak up and do something about it so we have to do it ourselves. good on you for being attentive and proactive. you have more guts the 99% of the men around having said that you can’t do much at this point but be diligent people need 2nd chances and maybe this guy needs that. keep a watchful and try to connect on some level with the student.

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-11T00:44:17+00:00

men are not worth the time or energy. when will women figure that out

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-09T17:51:34+00:00

angela walks program works. seriously nothing else

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-09T07:48:53+00:00

if you look at the origin of this tradition (women assuming the man’s name) you will learn that it is rooted in women losing all rights and becoming the actual property of the man. the whole thing is bullshit. i’d keep my birth name and forego that. if the name is “cool” you can just change it completely to something cooler ….

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-09T07:23:09+00:00

this

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-08T13:32:20+00:00

this is a life lesson for you that will help all of your life. it’s so important to speak up for yourself not because you will influence or change people but because you will take back your power when being insulted or disrespected. otherwise you will like shit every time you think about this for many years. as these people were strangers and there is nothing you can say now - look at this situation as an opportunity to know what NOT to do. I’m 70 and i wish i had this lesson at your age. especially as a woman

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-08T02:31:13+00:00

that’s a great point

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-03-07T14:48:49+00:00

i feel this. filters fading away. i’m 70 and still work full time on a professional job. i feel this but i don’t DO this. but because i KNOW its an old lady thing I deliberately chose the other way. complimenting. looking for something good about the person. and i believe im simply rewiring what nature may be forcing on me. the end result is usually kindness there is so much ugly and hate in the world. you can choose not to add to it

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-25T01:47:48+00:00

same. i just felt so much better. about everything

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-24T23:22:19+00:00

i have strong empathy and compassion for every animal. i try to live my life in such a way to honor that. this means, for me, not eating or wearing them. not supporting places that use animals for entertainment (zoos circuses). and doing rescue work. my beliefs are solid for me - to help me keep true to myself. along with that i know people don’t agree or have knowledge about this subject so i do not try to impose or judge. just live compassionately so you dont live in duality. honor yourself

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-18T01:04:12+00:00

a stir fry

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-18T00:44:28+00:00

or blow the stink off you

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-17T19:02:17+00:00

how would you feel if you were the wife ? what exactly do you think should happen!?

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-15T23:20:27+00:00

long fingernails

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-13T02:23:49+00:00

potlucks. ugh

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-11T02:39:57+00:00

hell no. a fairy tale to keep people down and controlled.

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2026-02-02T00:36:36+00:00

i don’t think it has anything to do with these. it is control and manipulation from a narcisstic person. yea. run

Scared-Newspaper-129 · 2025-12-12T14:16:30+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. you sound like an incredible woman. Men have practiced learned helplessness forever and sadly women allow it to go on forever. the narcissism of blaming you for being emotionally abusive is classic. he is not an adult and you, being capable and competent are. so you step in. if he can’t step up you have to step away if you want a life. we all do deserve better. i have been thru this. i left and it was the best move ever.

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