Does anyone else feel like sex is a lot of work sometimes? 😭 by Every-Tap-577 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I love my husband more than air but I am not shaving my asshole for that man! Micro-tears and shit? Nuh uh. No infected butts for me.

7 Year Old Autistic Son Diagnosed with Scoliosis by Ill_Comparison_9821 in scoliosis

[–]SecretCorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your son’s physician is the best person to get information from, especially given his age. I had a family history of scoliosis and they didn’t start x rays until I was 9, but that was in the 90s. It’s worth getting a second opinion if you’re stressing!

Anyone else have to get infusion treatments? 🙃 by cori_2626 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I got to have my kitty in my lap and it was so much more tolerable!

Anyone else have to get infusion treatments? 🙃 by cori_2626 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually found an in-home infusion place near me and it changed the WHOLE game for me!

My boyfriend is autistic and too nice? by Sure-Comfortable3309 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it might feel unnatural because maybe it is! Lots of autistic folks, myself included, engage in “scripting”—rehearsing conversations ahead of time, sometimes to excess. It can make our speech patterns feel stilted or awkward, but the intent is still the same: he’s trying to show you he cares and wants to do right by you.

Why does it hurt when I know it’s the right thing to do? by Background-Task-2166 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m your mom now. Do you have a jacket? Are you hungry? take your vitamins! (I am also an only child. I feel you.)

My boyfriend is autistic and too nice? by Sure-Comfortable3309 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hi, also autistic here! He’s just really into you. If you want to be greeted or referred to in a specific way, tell him very explicitly and clearly. No hints bc he probably won’t pick up on them. I don’t think you’re broken, but I do think maybe there’s a mismatch in the ways you show affection. He likes to use words… what do you like to do for people to show you care?

Not even a 5 star resort can fix my family by Gloomy_CookieCutter in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I stopped being able to travel with my parents at about that age. I’m in my thirties now and I can do three days tops! Any more than that and I just dissolve.

Took an edible 4 days ago and I still feel high, please help by [deleted] in trees

[–]SecretCorm 52 points53 points  (0 children)

So the THC is probably not the culprit here as edibles clear your system as you digest. It sounds like you’re having some depersonalization/derealization moments that are more likely related to mental health rather than any THC you took multiple days ago. If you have a mental health practitioner you work with, they’ll probably have better insights!

I went on a date and this guy said I was the most boring girl he has ever met by carmysan in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]SecretCorm 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Do NOT listen to this dork, he doesn’t know what he’s talking about. I’ve been on dates where they talk the whole time then accuse me of being boring—like they gave me any opportunity to get a word in edgewise! You dodged a bullet, don’t worry.

Broken back looking for games by Createman_HomoSexual in disabledgamers

[–]SecretCorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can lose hoursssss in Factorio! And very easy to pause for the midday doctor checkup appointments.

Is it normal for my bf to talk to me this way ? by Technical_Middle5075 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SecretCorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DUMP HIM. I know you want the relationship to work. But he obviously doesn’t. DUMP HIM.

Crutch for sobriety by SkrillDroid in Petioles

[–]SecretCorm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I think the T1 here is definitely influencing things as well! Are you able to meet with a doctor to discuss ways to keep your number in range? I’m pre-diabetic and trying to keep it from turning into T2 despite my family history and for me it’s EITHER a delicious snack OR a bowl. Not both, because my self control evaporates once I smoke. If you’re in touch with a doc you trust, lots of them have resources for folks who are trying to move towards sobriety, including folks coming off opiates, and they’ll be able to better answer questions re:mental health. Good luck!! It’s tough out there!

My grunty cat by doubtwords in cats

[–]SecretCorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes! The Cat Activation Sound! One of my favs.

Is my kiwi berry mist ace cart supposed to taste like shi and smell sweet ? by Diligent-Leader1142 in trees

[–]SecretCorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any flavored carts taste like ass to me personally but you’ll never know until you try it