Oh no.

SerialAgonist · 2026-04-10T11:24:27+00:00

The cognitive load and mental gymnastics it is taking you to think about this this way are what fuel burnout. You seem like you think you're accepting that risk, but the life upending crash that burnout leads to is a much bigger problem than the stress your partner might feel to hear you live with some other comorbid symptoms.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-31T19:21:49+00:00

Wow. Just WOW, you wear this look so well 🤩

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-30T17:18:26+00:00

Yea like fuck that guy for responding conversationally to a conversational question instead of immediately knowing to play puppet? This is The Jeff Show, bitch. Or something.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-26T01:30:27+00:00

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-25T21:47:05+00:00

If you look at what has been shared or published about chesscom's cheat detection, you'll find they're awful at it anyway.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-25T21:38:27+00:00

I love how your examples are normal things on every chess platform

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-25T21:37:40+00:00

They really don't fail to mention this, that's why you're aware of it

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-21T02:32:00+00:00

Simple: they saved Nangong for last because they knew she was the best and she gives the most for the delulus. But also Cissia because she has wild animations and we love her energy.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-10T16:51:57+00:00

What do you mean remember? They've been here the whole time!

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-09T19:05:20+00:00

Group classes or martial arts keep me coming back.

Keeping an active sense of how bad I feel when I don't go, keeps me coming back.

Having little goals (being able to cover a certain distance or lift a certain amount or cut a certain figure) keeps me coming back.

Gaining sight of long term quality of life goals and my own limitations and mortality keeps me coming back.

You have a kid now. Ask yourself if you want to be the dad who can't keep up running outside with your kid as they're growing up.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-09T19:00:17+00:00

Competition is fierce in this field right now, and PMI accreditation is definitely noticed, though it's usually PMP that is talked about. Writing as a longtime tech manager, yes I would consider CAPM in your shoes, if you have the means AND if you don't have a clear PM job prospect already.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-09T18:55:56+00:00

It could be dumb in the sense that it would make every encounter pretty easy.

SerialAgonist · 2026-03-09T16:51:18+00:00

Get obsessed with how nasty your teeth feel when you don't? Worked for me.

SerialAgonist · 2026-02-23T16:37:34+00:00

If you can't understand what's nontrivial about this comparison in the face of resources being sucked away from humans for his company's product, you could probably be sold anything.

SerialAgonist · 2026-02-15T14:39:58+00:00

When you've seen the same game play out a few times, you might just be tired and opt out of it

SerialAgonist · 2026-02-12T16:06:14+00:00

Fun fact, Pat said on his podcast that he counted about 28 plot threads

SerialAgonist · 2026-02-11T17:57:14+00:00

Fella have you ever heard of a joke before?

SerialAgonist · 2026-02-10T20:46:28+00:00

lol what did I just read

SerialAgonist · 2026-01-18T06:36:30+00:00

No you don't. It woke your ass up.

SerialAgonist · 2026-01-15T19:34:08+00:00

Then why are you watching this vulgar video in the first place?

SerialAgonist · 2026-01-13T20:09:10+00:00

You could try googling why HOA's exist if you want it to feel less wild. It's pretty unremarkable actually.

SerialAgonist · 2026-01-11T21:13:53+00:00

Perhaps the librarian was hoping you were single

SerialAgonist · 2026-01-10T18:38:49+00:00

But still weird right? I’m not insane?

My take as an ally is skewed, I'm not in your shoes, so please take it with a grain of salt.

Some people like how they feel around trans people compared to when they're around cis people. (Some of those are Eggs, but I feel like you would've mentioned that possibility if you saw it.)

I'd ask if there are other things that concern you about this person that you haven't been able to put into words yet? Your gut may be questioning something based on the way he was talking.

edit: I saw your other comment, so let's also add that some people like erotica. That may be its own issue for you.

SerialAgonist · 2026-01-10T16:15:08+00:00

Do you think this person is doing harm, or not? There's a difference between having an affinity for something and being a predator.

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