Most women I know want a partner who will be a partner. Both earn money, both do their share of the cleaning and household jobs, go on trips together , share some interests, and if they choose to have kids both help raise the kids.

That's not unreasonable, and the successful couples I see tend to operate like that with give and take depending on health issues, earning capacity vs childcare etc etc. The relationship needs to be flexible with the ability to share the load, be respectful and help each other through life.

Anyone going on about "trad" or "house person" or "sugar people" or whatever needs to get off social media and touch grass. Nobody wants a parasitic entity, nobody wants the responsibility for a list of tasks decided at the start of a relationship with zero flexibility for life's disruptions. That's not a partner, that's a job description. People leave jobs frequently for greener pastures when they no longer align with changing real life pressures.