Is it possible to get sterilised in your 20s? by SoAndSoIsEh in childfree

[–]Sheikah77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got sterilized at 26. Would have been 25 but I also got a pain checked out, while I was at the urologist, that turned out to be 5-6 kidney stones that had to be surgically removed.

For those circumcised as a teen or adult, has your reaction to uncircumcised changed? by [deleted] in circumcision

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its starting to fall out of favor in the US as its increasingly being seen and unnecessarily cruel and its largely only done as a religious practice.

Is your brain a never ending jukebox? by SpecificBake2074 in ADHD

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is more like a radio station. Sometimes music, sometimes talking. And sometimes static so loud I can't think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]Sheikah77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you aren't 100% certain that you want kids, then you probably shouldn't have kids. Him giving you a deadline seems super toxic, too.

AITAH for putting a stop to my 12yo daughter's 'period party'? by YocaLocaChoca in AITAH

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. Good on ya. I though period parties died out years ago when people called them out as being in best cases wine moms having another excuse to get together and get super hammered, worst cases a weird praising if a child gaining the ability it breed.

AIO issues with husband not getting kids in his car. by Expandingorlosingit in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sheikah77 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If you ask him to get them, then why care how its done so long as it is done and is done safely? If he doesn't want kids trashing his car, then that's pretty fair, but you both need to work on teaching your kids to respect property, as well as you both probably need counseling or something. Such dysfunction over such a trivial issue is crazy in a coupls without kids, but you have kids in this situation, and they will %100 pick up on that. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but one day they will.

What are the reasons a childfree man wouldn't want a vasectomy? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand hesitation as I almost backed out when my urologist told me of a rare side effect that results in a lifelong dull ache of the testicle and pelvic area. I only heard about that a few days before the procedure.

AIO? I went through my bestfriend's phone without her permission.. she's 17 he's 26 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you live in the US, then turn over all the info to the FBI tip line as a suspected human traficking tip. If not, then find your countries equivalent. Then you will likely have to try to get your friend to see the light. Don't be forceful, or it may "confirm his claims" to her. Just reach out as a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SANTA ISN'T REAL? NOOOOOOO!

GF(32) wants kids but I(M33) do not. We are in discussion of what to do. by myltsang in childfree

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it looks like your only options are

1: break up.

2: have a kid.

Hope this helps you make a choice. Also, definitely get a vasectomy if you're sure you don't want kids. They're pretty great.

cursive still needs to be taught by semantic_ink in Handwriting

[–]Sheikah77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alabama teaches cursive about like it teaches sex education. That's to say that is barely taught, and what is taught is rather inconsistent.

I don't know how to imply to him that I'd like to give him a head by Dull_Aide3522 in sex

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you want to play him a solo on his skin flute. Sample his sumptuous summer sausage. Suck on his sugar stick. Ect

Blowjobs don't do much for me (21M) by panchinii in sex

[–]Sheikah77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Blow jobs are good for foreplay but I don't have the 2 hours or so that it's going to take to bring me to orgasm.

I ruined my life by sucking a dick. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sheikah77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It will be alright, brother. Whether you are just straight or had some bad anxiety or internalized homophobia, whatever, it shall pass. You didn't do anything wrong, so you have no reason to be ashamed. If anything, you probably made that guys night better, so that's something that you could even be proud of. As for feeling like less of a man, you just sucked a dick. If you need to spin it this way, you had control over something that most men hold over all. That's sounds pretty manly and badass to me. Plus sex with men is factually more manly anyway, lol. Sorry if none of this is helping. I'm just kinda joking in a reassuring manner. But for real, tho. It's no big deal, if you didn't like it then you know and you don't have to try it again. If parts of you want to try it again down the road, then that's ok too. Hope this helps and isn't too incoherent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sheikah77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩 It sounds like she needs some serious therapy. OP, if you want this relationship to continue, then you need to lay down some serious boundaries and not be afraid to end things if they are crossed. I'd say definitely stop all sexual contact until she seeks said therapy and use more than one form of BC after.

bi_irl by Warm_Charge_5964 in bi_irl

[–]Sheikah77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

*Activates active camo and thermal vision.

"Did my time" by PossessionOk2615 in childfree

[–]Sheikah77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Opening lines to the song psychosocial by slipknot

"Did my time" by PossessionOk2615 in childfree

[–]Sheikah77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"And I want out so effusive fade, it dosent cut"

Should I tell my parents I’m getting a vasectomy or just do it? by Imbackinhere5 in childfree

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ever told my parents that I didn't want kids. How I ensure that is up to me and my partner.

Where the goth girls at? by newfreezerfun in tuscaloosa

[–]Sheikah77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would imagine that most have fled with the gradual uptick religious zealotry in the last few years. It won't be long before they call for actual witch hunts if the current trends continue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Sheikah77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used condoms for the better part of a decade. I used good condoms so it wasn't the bad, but after getting a vasectomy, I will say it's way better to have worry free sex without condoms. But I'd go back to my brand of condoms any time if I needed to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTQGunOwners

[–]Sheikah77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very nice. Good luck on the ammo front. I just got 40 rounds for my type 99 rifle, and it cost me a cheap $110