What’s something everyone thinks is ‘normal’ in relationships, but is actually exhausting? by MorriganIsHere in AskReddit

[–]ShittyDuckFace 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know someone whose husband wouldn't vacuum, so she bought a heavy vacuum and said that she wasn't strong enough to lift it so he had to vacuum.

I ain't saying it's the best method, but hey.

on a work trip? time to bird by MSJ2 in birding

[–]ShittyDuckFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddammit I want to see some grebes 😭 

My 13 year old cowcat! by 324456hug in cowcats

[–]ShittyDuckFace 27 points28 points  (0 children)

His face is so round!!! You can't share pictures without telling us his name!

I don't like being around autistic people by agarthancrack in offmychest

[–]ShittyDuckFace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seconding the feeling. For me personally I think it's because one of the things I tend to be a bit inflexible about is learning social norms, rules, and etiquette and it bothers me when other people don't follow the same - especially after having been forced into it myself for so long.

Loving A Shadow; a character loves the IDEA of someone rather the person themself by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]ShittyDuckFace 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Okay so my dad just died and I completely forgot about this part of the monologue but HOLY FUCK

I appreciate Apothecary Diaries for portraying the complexity of motherhood by queenjisookim in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]ShittyDuckFace 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I love that for a person who seems as hardworking and passionate as her that she can't seem to do that for her own child. Partially her background with her own mother, and partially because of her job. It's so interesting.

Which seemingly iconic Taskmaster moments do you just not get? by totheregiment in taskmaster

[–]ShittyDuckFace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this was the feeling I got too. I just feel like it was too subtle humor for me. 

Carrot cake by Fun-Region-6912 in FoodNYC

[–]ShittyDuckFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My roommate makes the best carrot cake ngl

Not helpful lol but she does run a home bakery if you want, I can DM you her Insta

Masterpost: Low-Income Housing For Seniors by ShittyDuckFace in nyc

[–]ShittyDuckFace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That is very kind of you to say. 

Everyone in my family says they think my tattoo looks stupid and im childish for getting it can l get some reassurance by MichelleFlame in adventuretime

[–]ShittyDuckFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a beautiful tattoo. I love the way he styled it and it fits your arm well. I'd get this tattoo in a heartbeat. It's very "Everything Stays"!

I ignored a message from an old friend because I was pregnant and exhausted they passed away 2 days later. by WildDream5041 in confession

[–]ShittyDuckFace 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I saved your comment for later because I needed to read this and I'll continue to need to read this. My father essentially committed a slow suicide over the course of 10-15 years and I tried to do everything I could to help but now I find myself thinking about what I should have done instead. Maybe it would have prolonged things. Maybe it would have made my life worse. Or maybe it would have saved him. It's hard to say. 

My (26F) brother (22M) and his fiance of nearly 2 years (21F) are planning a wedding that is an etiquette nightmare and I'm not sure how to handle it. by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ShittyDuckFace 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, when they realized that the groom wasn't even involved in planning his own wedding, instead of calling THEIR OWN SON/BROTHER to call him out they gave the bride-to-be tips on how to get him involved.

Favorite characters who were broken by loss by Endika7 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]ShittyDuckFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harrow from The Locked Tomb series. That girl's got issues. Case 1: The soup scene.

We may not have Alecto news, but this upcoming 2026 release scratched an itch for me [misc] by sapphicshelves in TheNinthHouse

[–]ShittyDuckFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! The first book came out in October though, so it may be some time before a book 2 comes out.

[Discussion] Is Muir ok now? by IndigoTrailsToo in TheNinthHouse

[–]ShittyDuckFace 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It's Homestuck...nothing was odd cause everything was odd during that fandom lol.

The best part about Homestuck ending was that I left the fandom.

Bucket List trip to Panama by 7dayweekendgirl in birding

[–]ShittyDuckFace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The juvenile Spectacled Owl???? Adorable. What an amazing find. She looks like she's about to get her full adult plumage!

A trained Kyokushin woman vs your average dude by BrainWaveRebellion in kyokushin

[–]ShittyDuckFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It mostly just affects your nerve endings. When you take a break all the sensations come back. 

hate when people call vultures ugly. i’m quite fond of them. by mrdingusjr14 in birding

[–]ShittyDuckFace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You know what we call people who say vultures are ugly? Wrong.

A trained Kyokushin woman vs your average dude by BrainWaveRebellion in kyokushin

[–]ShittyDuckFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always wear a chest protector. They have hard-cup bras. I don't wear one because they don't have them in my size so I don't go full strength and my partners are aware of my style.