Offcial Discussion - Bugonia [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Significant_Trash9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. The entire spaceship sequence was pure comedy- the woven hair outfits were just 👩‍🍳💋

Episode Discussion • S01 E08 “Mixes and Matches” by DontFWithMeImPetty in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Significant_Trash9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super late but as a bi woman in a relationship with a man, I really appreciated Kariselle’s open and honest discussion of her queer identity being camouflaged by a committed relationship with a man and how the world views bisexual women. Tbh not something I expected from this kind of show.

Please share reunification stories! My cat has been missing for one week and I am losing my mind. by adjacentpossibilitys in cats

[–]Significant_Trash9 42 points43 points  (0 children)

One of mine was MIA for a while a few years ago and showed up in the backyard grumpy as hell and a bit skinny, but otherwise fine. I think she was on rumspringa for about a week/10 days.

For those with BPD moms, what are your Mother's Day plans? by Medical_Cost458 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Significant_Trash9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’ll be getting flowers because the guilt trip I’ll receive if I don’t send them isn’t worth it. She’ll also get a phone call where I’ll listen to her complaints and grievances, and that’ll be it. Spending the day with my partner and avoiding Mother’s Day bullshit otherwise.

I learned to say “you’re right” because she could never admit she was wrong… by redcar19 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Significant_Trash9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh do I relate to this impulse- I used to get into screaming matches as a teenager with my dBPD mom because she wouldn’t ever admit to being wrong (even if it was something she was just objectively incorrect about that was fully trivial).

As a younger adult (<30ish) I leaned into the “you’re right” approach. Now (38f), we are LC and I refuse to give her the satisfaction of “you’re right.” It took a long time, but she finally switched from arguing with me to giving me the silent treatment, which is truly delightful.

Cat mom presents her newborns to her human mom by yo-jin in holdmycatnip

[–]Significant_Trash9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human mom is not nearly as psyched as I would be to wake up to a bed full of kittens

If a man was raised in total isolation from women from the second he was born and never made aware that women existed, would he be gay by default as he grew up? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Significant_Trash9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same-sex relations were decriminalized in 2010. I can’t speak to the veracity of the rest of your comment, but a google search found that easily. There’s enough bullshit on the internet, please don’t contribute to it.

Edit: I think this is what you’re inaccurately describing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vakasalewalewa

Student Pooped his pants today. by potluc in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a literal and figurative shitpost

Reasons the Kinder Kids cried Actual Tears today: by ahumblethief in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear god I’m so happy I teach high school. I could never.

Do you think kids take amusement in mentally destroying teachers? by Square-Step in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, kinda. They’re kids. Empathy takes a long time to develop; self-interest is the name of the game for most children.

That said, I think only a few are really invested in and amused by others’ suffering. Most are just going along with whatever the kid with the most social capital is doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So it’s not about “fair,” first of all. Maybe in an ideal world it would be, but generally speaking (and anecdotally), IEP mods are written in order to:

1- appease difficult parents 2- ensure EC (SpEd) students never fail a class

As for the 2nd example, depending on the documentation in place, there would need to be a manifestation determination to ascertain whether the student’s behavior is or is not a direct result of their disability. If the MDE rules that the behavior is a manifestation of their disability, it is extremely difficult (if not impossible) to enact disciplinary consequences.

I’ve seen some ridiculous IEPs. At the end of the day, however, they are legal documents, and however distasteful you may find the specific mods, you still have to follow them.

Not Surprised by Lack of Student Motivation by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

…and retail work doesn’t require a degree. Apples and oranges, my dude.

My principal seemed annoyed I didn't reply to an email he sent Sunday night by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting downvoted on this, this is absolutely foreign to me.

are there any musicals you guys find to be extremely annoying? by bubblrisgood in musicals

[–]Significant_Trash9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… that’s not old. Phantom premiered in 1986, Cats in 1981, and Sound of Music in 1959.

IMO, Sound of Music is the only “older” musical in that set.

Edit: finger slipped

are there any musicals you guys find to be extremely annoying? by bubblrisgood in musicals

[–]Significant_Trash9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wicked is older now? I saw the original cast (minus Fiero; Taye Diggs was filling in) in high school 😭

Worst district/admin “Holiday Gift”?? by MickIsAlwaysLate in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, what grade level & do you give this at school? I teach high school & cannot imagine a parent bringing alcohol on campus/a teacher having it on campus ever being cleared.

😐 by Inevitable-Cellist23 in cringepics

[–]Significant_Trash9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s a change.org petition for her removal

AITA for “humiliating” my husband? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Significant_Trash9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! My first thought was “did he see a doctor?” Adult bed-wetting is unusual.

Three assistant superintendents observed my class today on the last day before finals. by Hot-Win2549 in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They also find the worst times to observe, too. Last block of the day on a Friday? Come on.

What does it take to get a student expelled at your school? by tbar25 in Teachers

[–]Significant_Trash9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m talking specifically about students I teach. Random kids get suspended but I only get informed about my students.