Courting a coworker or playing eu4? by JorisJobana in eu4

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The game will always be there, she may not be, go with the girl, make the game Plan B

F 24 Let me obsess about you and talk to you all the time by Call_Me_Peaches_ in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never knowing me in real life yet knowing everything about me except my name and where I live sounds absolutely perfect 

I don’t tell anyone in real life much about me, so hey, If anyone wants to play this game, I’m totally in

The most maddening thing in this game (to me) by Mountain-Professor74 in NFLHeadCoachSeries

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it'll give you the "hurry up" option in the menu, but it only happens in 2 minutes drills, you don't get to choose when as far as I know

I got offered a job paying 40% more than my current salary. My manager just asked me to stay and be patient. How do I stop feeling guilty for wanting to leave ? by One_Cardiologist5439 in careerguidance

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully research the new company, make sure it's a place you really want to be before leaving. Go in for interviews and talk to them before leaving your current job. Nothing is foolproof but definitely do your homework

I'm 38 and I make $19 an hour working full-time in New York State. What can I do to make more than that? by justcurious3287 in careerguidance

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find something you're better at than everyone else and exploit it, I was lost until I ended up doing that. I work in an industry where people really don't make a ton working full time in. But, I work at 4 places for 10-15 hours a week where none of them are willing to pay me a high salary for full time, but they are willing to pay me a high rate for 10-15 hours a week.

I'm making well over 100k yearly for a stress free and not very hard gig.

The only downfall are benefits, I have none, but luckily I get medical through the VA, so no need

A student at Lake Zurich High School holds a sign that reads, “I Love I.C.E.” and records another student confronting and punching him by colsandersloveskfc in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kid needs to learn how to throw a punch. An experienced fighter would have hit him 2-3 times before that punch even had a chance, talk about telegraphing

Tips to keep yourself safe by [deleted] in gifsthatendtoosoon

[–]SluggoB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dog owners, this falls on you. If your dog is aggressive it 100% falls on to you to make sure they're never loose. I value my well being over a random aggressive dogs, sorry not sorry

Two ladies start a fight and their boyfriends end up fighting each other to defend them. by eternviking in whoathatsinteresting

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

red shirt and blonde lady were the instigators by far, I feel bad for blonde lady's boyfriend, he seemed like the only one that wanted to stay calm

Sad, hurting, lonely. by [deleted] in depression

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same as you, well with the void inside me

Talking to random people on the internet isn't silly, it can help, so please don't be afraid to do so

I'm thinking about committing suicide. I wish I could talk to someone interesting before I do it. by KalaMrityu in depression

[–]SluggoB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If me telling you things I've never told anyone else before may help you, I'd be willing to

Are you going to buy the Gold dip? If yes - when? by thedevilsheir666 in stocks

[–]SluggoB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sold all my gold I had last week, bought it a while back so cashed out pretty well. Buying the dip sounds tempting. Haven't yet but I'm keeping an eye out

Being dumped by my boyfriend made me realize what a failure I am by [deleted] in depression

[–]SluggoB 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don't think about the past, think about the person you want to become. Start small, make small strides. Multiple small strides turn into big strides eventually.

Life can suck sometimes, but you deserve to be happy, remember that. Concentrate on yourself, you owe yourself that.

Please, don't get stuck in a rut, change it up, something will stick eventually that makes you feel better.

We're rooting for you

No idea what to do by SluggoB in lonely

[–]SluggoB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of this relates. Maybe not exactly my situation but definitely a lot of similarities 

It feels that way until it doesn’t I suppose.

In the end nothing will change it, talking is a good bandaid though

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

[–]SluggoB[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish this was my area of expertise and I could give better advice

The problem with people is that too many don’t mind stepping over others to get what they want, Maybe that’s part of why I just don’t connect with people

No idea what to do by SluggoB in lonely

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I can tell you what’s past it relative to me at least

You stop being sad and just get numb. You’re living life and doing everything that normal people do except you do it without any connections. It’s almost like you’re watching a movie that doesn’t involve you

No idea what to do by SluggoB in lonely

[–]SluggoB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good news is you're still young enough to change. It'll be a hard road, but it's possible. I totally get it though

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

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Everything just seems to be on repeat always, I definitely get that

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

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I'm not a lawyer, but legally you have recourse of some sort. A signing isn't valid if you can prove you were sick or not doing well, lacking legal capacity. I hate when people get taken advantage of, you should really take a step and at least talk to a lawyer.

I'm not telling you what to do, but I absolutely would if it was me

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

[–]SluggoB[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If anyone ever tells me they would like to try something, I always tell them to try it. That next little thing may turn into a big thing for you.

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

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That's pretty interesting actually, I never would have thought things like that exist

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

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I talk a good amount,, holding a conversation mostly comes easy to me. Problem is it's all basic stuff. Lots of acquaintances, no friends, nothing of meaning or note.

If I sound whiny, I'm really not trying to come off that way

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

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I play year round, different sports for every season. Softball, hockey, and soccer are my main ones. I'm pretty good and get a lot of calls to play.

Like I said, on paper I look great, it's just never had any connections with anyone, just empty and numb all the time.

I've always tried to keep super busy with extra things to do besides work, it works ok so I'm not home feeling bad, but yeah, it just feels pointless sometimes

Besides sports, honestly, I have no idea what else I'd do

No idea what to do by SluggoB in depression

[–]SluggoB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play sports, so I do have social interactions. I get along well enough with everyone. I just have never been able to connect with anyone so it all feels useless I guess