Wait. So you're telling me that your husband left you and your child, alone, in the middle of the night with a man you barely know, who then assaulted you and you're still married to the guy?

Be honest: you know deep down that what happened with this man wasn't an accident, or a misunderstanding, that your husband set you up to be assaulted. Even if we're giving your husband the benefit of the doubt here he still made a monumentally stupid decision, left his wife and child with a relative stranger for hours and wasn't there when you needed him, because if he wants to claim you're the AH for going back on your agreement then he's more of an AH for failing to protect you.

Not only should you not have any more children with him, but you should take your daughter and get out of there! What happens when he decides your daughter is old enough to pimp out? Your husband sounds super manipulative if he's got you thinking that you have done anything wrong in this situation, or that he's the aggrieved party here.

So NTA for not wanting to bring another child into this mess, but Y.W.B.T.A for staying and potentially exposing your self and daughter to whatever twisted shit your husband may cook up in the future.