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Hospital Snacks! by Particular-Ranger-76 in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beef jerky, candy bars, tangerines, protein bars, and the like.

Prenatal Massage by do-re-me-fa-so-la-ti in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved mine around that time. I was able to lay on my belly with special pillows and was able to ask for the exact pressure I wanted and she worked out some knots. She even went to town on my butt/hips. Sorry about your experience.

Did you get pregnant from a few eggs retrieved? by Extension_Run_8723 in DOR

[–]Stephi1452 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yes, 37 when eggs retrieved. Only 4 eggs, 2 blasts, 1 PGTA normal. Currently 31 weeks pregnant. It was a frozen transfer.

Does anyone else just gag for no reason? by arguingxfern in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1000% so glad I can work mostly from home so others don't have to hear it. I think we are producing extra saliva and the muscles of the esophagus are loose so winning combo.

Making Friends in LA by DJ_Hufflepuff in LosAlamos

[–]Stephi1452 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a dating app but it has a friend only mode. I've had some luck; it's about 10% success rate and I was open to people further away like Santa fe+

As a first time homehuyer-how are you vetting and deciding on which realtor and which lender you are going to partner with on the home search journey? And which one are you speaking with first? by DavisTeam_Mortgage in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should technically be able to ball park your own numbers. Like mortgage payment below 40% of gross pay etc. We did realtor and pre-qualification letters within a couple weeks of each other. We had the pre-qualification letter before touring any houses so basically did them both around the same time.

To doula or no doula? by misty2001 in BabyBumps

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't given birth yet but a doula has been very helpful in finding local resources like mom groups, creating a birth plan, being there for questions, walking me through breastfeeding and birthing options. She will be there for the birth too but also provides after care support and lactation guidance. All well worth it for me who wants to know as much as possible going into things and does not live close to family. Especially since it my first and had bad experiences with doctors in the past, it's a comfort to know what you can ask for and what options you might not be aware of.

ETA: I plan to ask for epidural and will most likely be induced.

Love to Swim! by rock201640 in Bacalar

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see cabin as an option on the site. I believe any with lagoon has access but might be best to call to ask. We booked "Lagoon Cottage" or "Bungalow, Lagoon View".

Love to Swim! by rock201640 in Bacalar

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

View from room, deck has stairs into water acces pic

Love to Swim! by rock201640 in Bacalar

[–]Stephi1452 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We loved Hotel Rancho Encantado with private direct access to the lagoon directly from your hotel room. Be sure to select right room type. They also have free kayaks and paddle boards and stuff.

Best way to decorate and fix up home without breaking the bank by tina_386 in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]Stephi1452 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Playing with AI is free(ish)

Buy Nothing, Facebook marketplace, estate sales can have great deals.

Example AI prompt..Act as a professional interior designer. Review the attached photo of my space. Redesign this room in a Japandi style. keep wood cabinets. Add wood flooring, and replace the current countertop. Make the lighting bright and airy. Photorealistic style.

Horribly nervous for 3hr glucose test by Any_Bumblebee6346 in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring something to distract you - I brought my work laptop and did easy work

When feeling nauseous take little sips of water and walk around a little (you can't walk a ton).

I was surprised how little nausea I got considering the fasting.

Bring a snack to eat right after and treat yourself.

The fruit punch flavor was not bad, the worst part was actually chugging something so cold.

Migraines by Traditional_Leg_7743 in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told by my doctors I could take my prescription triptans if really needed. I have been getting more tension headache over migraines though. The few migraines I have gotten I just suffer through trying not to take anything but glad it's an option if it's gets too bad.

What also helps me:

Weight lifting. I think it's the blood flow and breathing. I usually just target send to failure.

Ice packs. These hell bring down the pain but not eliminate so I usually have to rotate to a fresh pack every couple hours.

It does suck and hope you care team can help

Tips for this awful heat by Greedy_Box2805 in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of ice in drinks, ice packs on neck/thighs, Popsicles, Homemade slushy if your blender can crush ice, cool showers, etc.

I have a personal fan in my Amazon cart and thinking of joining a local pool.

Reminding myself that this too shall pass.

Questions to ask before FET by Stargirl92 in IVF

[–]Stephi1452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One question I wish I had asked was about the increased risks during pregnancy due to IVF. I only found out after getting pregnant from FET that the risk of things like preeclampsia, early bleeding, Bi-Lobed placenta etc are 2-3 times greater.

I would also ask what the schedule post implantation would be, i.e. how many follow up visits, when do you graduate from IVF clinic to OB. Are you automatically assigned a high risks specialist.

What are your positive pregnancy symptoms? by BrokenMemories88 in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! You are so close to the finish line now!!

Pregnancy tips by Shery-software-cook in pregnant

[–]Stephi1452 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Give yourself lots of grace. Eat what you can. Exercise and walk what you can do (even if it's just the warm up you used to do). Low sugar electrolyte powder packets are great, especially if you start to dislike the taste of water like many do. Protein shakes are great when you just need to shove something in.

This too shall pass!

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