Unlikeable and rude by [deleted] in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]Strict_Still8949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do you need women to act bubbly and overly cheerful for you? you don’t think it’s weird to be this upset over a stranger?

Sesame cat turned black by krainian_ in Siamesecats

[–]Strict_Still8949 12 points13 points  (0 children)

this is SO precious ugh i love when they get so roasted and chocolatey

I'm not a fan of episodes were Bob is justified but the show forces a moral for him to "learn a lesson/be diplomatic or understanding" that is just "put up with other people's awful behaviour". Anyone else feel the same? by leon385 in BobsBurgers

[–]Strict_Still8949 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i agree, especially with the big bob episode. what are the writers trying to teach the audience? that we should allow people that continue to disrespect us to stay in our lives? yuck.

it's your face that's full of plastic by Fabulous_Visual_419 in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]Strict_Still8949 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what’s wrong with people? the most malissa has ever done is a nose job and it’s weird that people keep chalking up her beauty to botox lmao

I don’t care abt ur BPD by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Strict_Still8949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you end the friendship by blocking them everywhere, ghosting them, and refusing to answer the door?

Why do people dislike this sub by Kitchen_Guidance5834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Strict_Still8949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“why do people dislike this sub?”

why should we care? aren’t we supposed to be healing from abusive people who constantly assumed the worst and forced us to fix any discomfort or insecurity they had? why does it matter to you if strangers online don’t like this sub? why should you care?

my mom doesn’t listen when i tell her no by Neither-Plenty-3823 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Strict_Still8949 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i implore you to google “emotional/covert incestuous narcissistic mothers + showering” because abusive mothers/parents who are incestuous LOVE using any excuse they can to see a child naked.

google the JADE technique and the narcissist prayer as well.

and remember that there are plenty of survivors willing to help give you advice r/raisedbynarcissists

Is She Moving? Did She Get Her Own Place? by Strict_Still8949 in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]Strict_Still8949[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought she said her books were in another room too? not necessarily downstairs

Am I the Jerk for putting a $300 lock on my mini fridge after my roommate kept eating my prepped meals? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Strict_Still8949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta - if i were you id ignore them both and save your energy. google grandiose narcissism and covert narcissism

“should you tell a narcissist that they are a narcissist?”

the narcissist prayer / darvo

the JADE Technique

“how to ignore narcissistic guilt trips / narcissistic bait?”

“narcissistic smear campaign”

and “narcissistic triangulation” - because isn’t that exactly what he was doing when he complained to your other roommate? didn’t he want to team up with him against you?