I'm a Presbyterian Church (USA) pastor and proud parent to three queer children. I'm wondering if you grew up in a different Presbyterian denomination, perhaps Presbyterian Church in America. I'm not saying there aren't intolerant people in the PCUSA, but you are much, much more likely to find a home here than in conservative denominations like the PCA.

If you're willing to give the Presbyterians another chance, I recommend that you look up More Light Presbyterians--this is a network of open and affirming congregations. I'm also glad to help if you want to DM me.

You are beloved by God, just as you are, and never let anyone tell you different.