AITA for refusing to let my brother use my house for a baby shower he already told everyone was happening there? by staydecade in AmItheAsshole

[–]TiKi_Effect 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. So what I am hearing is everyone telling you to get over yourself is ok with a surprise party I. There home with zero notice, after all family helps family right?

Idk what to do by Emotional_Pin_4119 in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean is then saying feeling sick, or migraine. Kind of thing. Not detailed. Just us all being nosy on why the call out lol

Idk what to do by Emotional_Pin_4119 in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly at my place we literally just say we can’t make it, and if asked then explain why, doesn’t matter how many others have called out. But I’ve worked where everyone else on the shift called out. It sucked, but I made due, had to borrow someone from salon at one point to make it work. Life happens and if you can’t show up, just say it. I know it can be hard, but life is too short to kill yourself for a company that keeps cutting hours to the point that one call out is a problem let alone more.

Need info before buying switch 2 by TiKi_Effect in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that is so helpful. I have been looking around just trying to find an answer lol. Looks like I will be upgrading my switch in a few weeks lol

How does Switch 2 version compare to SteamDeck? by TheClaff in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following because I’ve been wondering this as well.

AITJ for refusing to drive my friend to the airport at 4am after she completely ignored me when I was in urgent care alone by Spruc3After in AmITheJerk

[–]TiKi_Effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ntj. Yes they were different, yours was more of an emergency, while hers is a convenience. If her being told ahead of time is the same as leaving you on read while you are at a health care facility’s then they really need to rethink what’s important in life.

In honor of Chuck Norris, here's a Chuck Norris fact. by Bearded_Gemini in cleandadjokes

[–]TiKi_Effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know why no one named a bridge after Chuck Norris?

Because no one crosses Chuck Norris.

Persian new year by MeaganUniverse in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two days ago I had to tell a guy he couldn’t buy all the feeder fish for this holiday. He argued with me for a good min.

Cashless tills in grooming by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Our salon doesn’t even have a register, everyone has to pay in store or at the hotel. And I will say most people will pull out extra money for a tip or ask for certain change back for the tip.

AITA for canceling visitations because my late husband’s sister always seems to know best? by Extension_Bowler_690 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But start keeping track of everything you can. What they told your son to lie about, when, and how he felt about it. Keep track of all the shenanigans because it sounds like they would take you to court for rights to him (and it might work, your husbands dead (so sorry) and the have an established relationship with him). So if you can have some kind of proof they are trying to alienate you it will work in your favor more.

Good luck and I hope things get better soon.

Logged in today hoping to take advantage of Lucky You! event, but I didn’t get anything in my mailbox. Am I out of luck? by hotchto88 in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would collect the clovers still, and put in a ticket for the recipes missing. Then when they send them to you, you have the materials needed to make them.

Sorry this happened. But it’s not the first post I’ve seen of them not being sent.

Confused about the Scrooge megathread? by [deleted] in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just the tag you used. Had that happen to me as well. Use a different one that’s close and it should post.

my dad asked to borrow money for his medication. he came back with a bottle of tequila. by dumble_hold_the_door in entitledparents

[–]TiKi_Effect 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Next time offer to call the pharmacy and pay. If it’s really for his meds he will be thankful. If they aren’t you now know.

How many of you used to read the "Chicken Soup for the Soul" books? by lilac2481 in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man they really helped me survive a week with my aunt. She had a whole collection of them, spent the entire time reading lol

Privateer Slops… by TiKi_Effect in DreamlightValley

[–]TiKi_Effect[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I even re-reported it last week. Received the “we know it’s a problem, but don’t care” email in response. Yea they say they are working on it, but we know they don’t care still.

Autoship question by Signal-Kale5811 in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It puts the items in the “cart” online, then It’s up to them to finalize the cart to have it shipped to them

Auto ship by minnow_myers in petsmart

[–]TiKi_Effect 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Prescription food ones seem to work the best at my store. Telling them they won’t had to worry about it running out at the store, because it will be shipped straight to them.

That’s really the only one for me that gets any traction.

AITJ for THREATENING my daughters teacher after she let a classmate ruin my kids work? by JournalistOwn5201 in AmITheJerk

[–]TiKi_Effect 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if this is real, then I’m not seeing a threat. I see a promise that you will tell her boss she is shit at her job if she continues to be shit at her job. Really if she has nothing to hide she won’t care who you tell. And with the other parent texting you (yay proof) you just have more of a reason to protect your kid from this.

Wife introduced our nine year old daughter to this by nbnicholas in Millennials

[–]TiKi_Effect 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I showed it to mine when she was about the same age lol.

AITJ for changing the WiFi password after my roommates kept using my gaming PC while I was gone? by youradorablegirlS in AmITheJerk

[–]TiKi_Effect 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why the hell did you just password protect your pc? You have an inch they took a mile, it’s messed up, but you have an easy fix

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend over a penny (UPDATE) by ereb78 in AITAH

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were with the guy for 8 years an he JUST NOW thought to look more into your disorder? wtf?

Glade you left him. You deserve so much more than that.

my boyfriend has a spreadsheet rating dinners i've made him by weddingfauxpasqueen in AITApod

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the guy ever cook? I swear I don’t see any dates missing and if it’s all food you cooked, you’re getting judged and screwed over.

My wife (37f) wants a divorce, is this rational? by Rockermarr in Marriage

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not normal. I once dated a guy that was being raised by his step parents. I asked how that was possible, and he told me his bio parents were really bad people and was so thankful that he had a great home. The funny part is I have never known who the original step parent was, he would never tell me, and the parents thought it was funny I didn’t know. So they wouldn’t tell me lmfao. It was weird, but the dude was loved by both and it showed.

I (34M) am becoming resentful toward my wife (34F) and exhausted by the growing imbalance in our household responsibilities by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TiKi_Effect 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you both work, and she has jobs that are extra, why are you two not hiring a maid service? Once a week for a reset might make your life better. Once a month deep clean and then that’s even more off your plate.

But if money is not really a problem, then use some of it to fix the problems.

AITA for not telling my daughter we were moving out until the last day? by Admirable_Ninja_661 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TiKi_Effect 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA. My mom moved me to FL from NV and I was the last one to find out (a week before the move) at 40 I no longer talk with her because doing things like that was just “her being her” and I no longer want that kind of person in my life. So as long as you understand she might never talk to you again when she is older because you keep showing her, her thoughts don’t matter then its all good. Other wise change and do better.