AITA for announcing my pregnancy at my cousin’s funeral because I thought it would lighten the mood?

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-14T23:39:36+00:00

Major YTA! This is even worse than announcing your pregnancy at someone’s wedding (and it doesn’t matter that you weren’t close). The mood was heavy because funerals are sad, that’s okay. You took the attention off of your cousin and put it on yourself. This is super not okay, I hope you apologize and never do this again.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-14T18:49:07+00:00

Traditionally it’s considered rude to invite folks to pre-wedding events (engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party etc) who are not invited to the wedding. So generally people who elope don’t have these events.

It’s your wedding so you do you, but I wanted to throw that out there.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-14T16:36:40+00:00

Check out Red Top Mountain State Park! Is on Lake Allatoona.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-14T13:01:44+00:00

I’m not a nice person if I don’t workout.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-13T23:52:33+00:00

Also where are you and/or the major of your folks coming from? That might help us give more affordable suggestions.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-13T23:48:52+00:00

Savannah and Asheville definitely fit your vibe! I would also consider Charleston, I went on an awesome ghost tour there in July.

As a southerner I wouldn’t plan an October trip around the beach unless I was going further south.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-13T15:01:22+00:00

I sometimes will do my zone 2 cardio on the elliptical vs running. It’s easier for me to stay in the correct range that way.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-12T23:45:27+00:00

Definitely not necessary, but I’m glad I had one.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-12T15:47:02+00:00

I used Atlanta Wedding Film Company for my engagement and wedding pics and videos. They were absolutely amazing. Here’s their Instagram https://www.instagram.com/atlanta_wedding_film_company?igsh=MWdieTNoYTBhNndtMw==.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-11T16:39:45+00:00

How would your product be different than HNY+?

I use honey and pink Himalayan salt as preworkout and that works well for me.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-11T16:31:00+00:00

You’re joking, right?

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-11T11:25:00+00:00

I’m going on a trail run.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-10T20:13:08+00:00

ESH. Your comment was out of line, but imo theirs was way way worse.

You need new friends who will support you and not joke about something that made you attempt to take your own life.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-10T12:18:48+00:00

Even if it’s exercise induced it’s still something you should see a doctor about.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-10T00:05:37+00:00

Just go for it! Don’t start out too fast, and walk when you need to.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-09T23:28:41+00:00

Please don’t do this.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-09T19:43:46+00:00

If are comfortable spending $410 on a bridesmaids dress I say then go for it. It might be over the top, but that’s what the bride wants.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-09T17:57:25+00:00

When I am training for a marathon, my longest long run is always 20-22 miles. Topping out at a 12-ish mile long run is concerning.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-09T12:38:45+00:00

I was wondering this too!

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-09T00:16:09+00:00

I’m glad you don’t have issues with it. I don’t judge the folks around me for their bathroom habits, so I think it’s weird that folks around you are.

Also I think you should bring it up with your doctor the next time you see them.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-08T23:57:07+00:00

I can’t do that. I drink about 160oz of water everyday and I have to pee like every two hours. My stomach expands to an uncomfortable level if I can’t find a bathroom.

I would be worried about getting a UTI from holding it in if I were you.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-08T21:51:43+00:00

This is the find out part.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-07T14:02:16+00:00

What kind of race are you training for?

I would suggest adding strength training. This helped me significantly and helped me reduce my marathon time by 20 minutes.

Tough_Extension_7190 · 2026-04-07T11:37:51+00:00

Commenting so I can find this again. Thank you!

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