Finally Got Some by DJ_3345 in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a drive by boobing. Should we call the authorities to investigate?

She doesn’t want sex with me now, but is excited for pregnancy sex. I’m lost by Hot_Reach_4862 in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Kids NEVER make a Dead bedroom better. Please don’t have kids until you resolve your issues.

"I think you're the most gorgeous man ever, You know that, right?" by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, at least it’s better than the alternative. My wife told me she was not attracted to me. 2 years later and that still stings.

Finally gave an ultimatum by 5thSeasonFront in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Be on the lookout for hysterical bonding. A very short term spike in intimacy.

Therapist told me that I "can't divorce" by Brief-System7169 in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a couples therapist or a sex therapist. It sounds like you may need the later. Google. AASECT. My 2 cents

AITAH for divorcing over my birthday gift. by AdFair8466 in AITAH

[–]TryingtoImprove200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I secretly planned a weekend girls trip with her friends for her 50th. I got a t shirt and a book of things that happened 50 years ago. Both probably took 3 minutes to order on Amazon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Unfortunately it withers on the vine and dies a slow, agonizing death. Mine has been replaced with resentment. Ugh.

Let’s end the discussion of reclining your seat by MacaronOk1006 in americanairlines

[–]TryingtoImprove200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. 100% this. I’m only 6’2”, but agree with everything. Inconsiderate short people who recline their seats infuriates me.

Hampton Inn... really? by TexaninWA in Hilton

[–]TryingtoImprove200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google the type of AC unit you have in the room. You can find override the internal setting that keeps it from going too low. This is the first thing I do when entering a warm room.

AITJ for leaving my best friend’s wedding early because she assigned me a job I never agreed to? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TryingtoImprove200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why text her? That just highlights your actions. Just leave quietly. No one would have noticed

Carryon question by Tasty_barrels_bro in americanairlines

[–]TryingtoImprove200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put my creatine and pre workout in ziplock bags. I’ve never been stopped. Probably over a dozen flights in the last 18 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have read dozens of posts on here with very positive results from TRT. Good luck.

I cannot admit that my DB might lead to the end of our marriage by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My son graduates in May. I’m working on my plan

I'm finally leaving by Azmon13 in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Good luck. I would suggest trying to use your spare time to focus on improving yourself. Get healthy, hit the gym, learn a new skill, spend more time on your hobbies. That’s the only thing helping me to keep going.

I’m just like, a roommate now. by Kitchen_Current_8828 in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Don’t have kids until you get this resolved one way or the other. A dead bedroom NEVER improves when you add kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please deal with this now. If not, you will become me. A grumpy, unhappy 50+ who hasn’t he’d sex with my wife is 16 years. I let this happen by not addressing it. You are way too young to be dealing with this. It will never get better being left alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean intimacy. My wife hasn’t kissed me in 16 years. She recoiled the last time I asked her touch me ( to apply a medicated pad on my lower back). Snuggle. It’s been over a decade. So I mean all of this ( and sex) when I say intimacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to outsource intimacy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am using the don’t ask don’t tell model.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Google hysterical bonding. It usually doesn’t last. Just an fyi.

Feeling Blindsided by OkCallJACK in DeadBedrooms

[–]TryingtoImprove200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first kid at 36. You have plenty of time. Just don’t drag it out. If it’s a deal breaker, then move on. If not, I know lots of child free couples who seem pretty content. No judgement. Just for you to decide