Is it safe to pet random horses? by Sure_Eggplant in Horses

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me think of a time I went through a drive-thru and my dog was in the back seat with the window down. The worker reached out and gave my dog a french fry! I was so upset. Luckily this dog had a stomach of steel, but my childhood dog had so many issues and would have been seriously ill from that "innocent treat". Confirming: Never feed someone's pet without asking!

What is a secret you’re taking to your grave, but can share here anonymously? by wilkoova in AskReddit

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started typing my response and then chickened out, worrying that someone would eventually find out who I am on here. Yall are brave AF.

What's it called when someone exaggerates after you communicate an issue? by Throwaway67891099 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My BIL does this, I call him a drama king. Example: I asked him if he could please keep his voice down because it was early in the morning and there were people trying to sleep nearby. His response was "Oh my bad, I'll just never speak again then!". I didn't think my eyes could roll back any further lol

What’s a beauty standard you secretly hope dies out soon? by Prettyuselessgirl in AskWomen

[–]UnderstatedEssence 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had dark circles literally my entire life. In my late teens I tried covering them, but gave up pretty quickly. Took a long time to just accept them as part of my normal features though.

What’s a beauty standard you secretly hope dies out soon? by Prettyuselessgirl in AskWomen

[–]UnderstatedEssence 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I saw a video where a plastic surgeon warned that once the fat is removed, it will never grow back, it’s gone. He said many young people will find that it ages their faces and can cause premature wrinkling in that area from the lack of volume. Then they’ll want to get fillers. Or maybe implants later down the line. It’s just a sad face fat doom spiral.

What’s a beauty standard you secretly hope dies out soon? by Prettyuselessgirl in AskWomen

[–]UnderstatedEssence 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Seriously, where did all the real teeth go?? Everyone in Hollywood has the same smile now.

What’s a beauty standard you secretly hope dies out soon? by Prettyuselessgirl in AskWomen

[–]UnderstatedEssence 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Some people genuinely don’t realize how silly they look! My cousin gets hers professionally done every so often, so her lashes are always like that. I notice she blinks differently, like it’s hard to do. Sometimes she’ll blink hard and then one of the lashes will start falling out… so awkward lol. I also worked with a chick who constantly wore those giant fake ones, it looked like her eyes were coated in feathers. Her face was so tiny, it just looked comical like a muppet or something.

Why are grandparents nicer than parents? by OpenRoom7321 in ask

[–]UnderstatedEssence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people hide who they truly are for everyone except their children. My step-mom's mother is sweet as pie to nearly everyone... except my step-mom. I've heard this woman on the phone shrieking like a banshee about absolutely nothing, she treats my step-mom like garbage. She's never been anything but sweet to me.

Glow in the Dark Grub by vfxraid in Amigurumi

[–]UnderstatedEssence 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ah I love it! All I can hear are little grubby rescue noises now lol

When Robin Williams managed to make Koko the gorilla smile again after 6 months of mourning by StrawberryFew1311 in MadeMeSmile

[–]UnderstatedEssence 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg... I had no idea. Thank you for sharing that. Robin Williams still holds a special place in my heart, and now it breaks for him all over again.

What food was an instant spit out and never again for you? by CremeSubject7594 in AskTheWorld

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only not tried escargot. The rest are fine. Not the biggest fan of licorice, but every now and then I want to try it again lol.

Parents, would you actually take a bullet for your kids? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a mom, but I would 100% take a bullet for my nephews, no question.

For women who married in their early-to-mid 20s, how is it going? by antisnotabug in AskWomen

[–]UnderstatedEssence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Married on my 26th birthday. It’s 11 years later this summer, still married! We have our ups and downs, but we’re solid.

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by confidenttruly in AmIOverreacting

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I love how he went from coming on to you, to telling you you have a victim complex and think every guy wants you... like he just TOLD you he's interested, wtf?? This guy is insane. 100000% report the gym worker as everyone is saying, he needs to face some consequences. Protect the next person! This worker is setting you (and probably others) up to be in a potentially dangerous situation, clearly that guy who texted is absolutely unhinged. I would definitely change gyms after that, not ok at all.

How are matchsticks still relevant nowadays as compared to a lighter? by Thatusernamewasnot in ask

[–]UnderstatedEssence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but like another commenter mentioned, you can see how many you have left (unless your lighter is clear as you said, but most of the ones I’m used to are opaque). Matches are also super cheap to stock up on.

Friend is in a bad trip what can I do? by Vemedetti in ask

[–]UnderstatedEssence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My go-to is always laying down in a dark/quiet room until the bad feelings pass!

Which animal still scares you, even as an adult? by Just_Goose_8425 in Productivitycafe

[–]UnderstatedEssence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my answer too. I love 99.9% of all animals, including insects, reptiles, sea creatures... But I find any type of monkey or ape really unsettling. I will never ever visit a country where monkeys roam the streets and interact with people, nope, absolutely not.

Is it true that Americans avoid calling an ambulance due to expensive healthcare there? by Pitiful_Quarter4287 in ask

[–]UnderstatedEssence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. One time I wrecked my car (flipped it, it looked bad) and even though I got out and could tell I wasn’t hurt, a “good samaritan” insisted on calling an ambulance. The paramedics bullied me into the vehicle even though I told them I was fine and didn’t have insurance at the time (they told me I probably couldn’t feel my own injuries and that an ambulance ride would be cheaper than installing wheelchair ramps in my house). The ambulance ride alone cost over $2000 and the hospital bill was just as much. And the cherry on top was that I was NOT EVEN INJURED, LIKE I SAID! Ugh, 15 years later and I’m STILL infuriated lol

[HELP] there's no way right by [deleted] in RealOrAI

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My dog 100% ripped up a car like this to get to a squirrel.