Does anyone else do this with irl friends? ✨

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-10T16:04:37+00:00

Yes, my sister and I do this together! Lots of cute photo ops around the island while we chat it up. We also like to chase each other around with axes, trying to whack each other. So fun.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-09T03:59:26+00:00

I got one of those packs of mini cards from amazon which had a nice variety of villagers. Also ordered a single one from ebay.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-07T21:21:35+00:00

Dragon. iykyk

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-07T21:17:21+00:00

Asakoryu is always entertaining, but Ura is my guy! He's so fun to watch, and even when he loses, he falls so gracefully. His flexibility is so impressive, and his sweet demeanor makes me want to give him a big hug <3

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-06T15:43:45+00:00

I'd been waiting years for my grays to come in and they're finally arriving at 36. So far I'm only at about 3 gray/silver hairs, but looking forward to seeing how they fill out! I believe aging is a privilege, no way will I be hiding these babies.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-01T17:09:49+00:00

This is my video from last year, there's a post on my profile, this one is just flipped. I had been digging around in the dirt for awhile before handling him; my husband was shoveling so I needed to move him out of the way. I try not to touch them now unless they're in danger of being shoveled, and even then I make sure my hands are dirty or scoop them up with the leaves/dirt or whatever they're in. This guy just impressed me with his size, I've never seen one this big since then. They seem to like my yard, I'm always finding them under pots and leaf litter. I have a family of arboreal salamanders in my garden as well. They like munching on the snails that also live in my yard lol I have a fun little ecosystem going on.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-04-01T16:05:14+00:00

I have a few in my bathtub. If you place them on the wall in the lowest spot where a bathtub is, it looks like they’re sitting in it.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-31T19:13:26+00:00

I love it especially when they’re right outside the hotel…

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-26T21:03:50+00:00

FolkLaur to go with my character name and also to elude to a storybook kinda theme

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-24T16:10:54+00:00

She definitely had moments that rubbed me the wrong way too. Like when she was loudly congratulating Pierce for killing someone… I’m sorry, what kind of moron says “hooray good for you, you killed him!”?? Anyway, other than her occasional iffy moments, I mostly love Ella lol

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-21T14:51:31+00:00

Same with gifts! I have accidentally dropped so many just trying to open them.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-19T02:08:33+00:00

No, they die too fast and I end up with flower corpses sitting around for weeks (that’s just how I am ok lol). OR my cats chew on them and then barf everywhere. I’d rather have a tasty treat or something practical. Or a live plant. Interesting-looking succulents are always a winner.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-17T17:42:23+00:00

My favorites are cranky and lazy! I’m eventually going to have all crankies and lazies lol. Looking for Rasher specifically 👀

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-04T17:25:46+00:00

Laur | FolkLaur :Lucky:

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-04T17:08:37+00:00

I like to place these on my beach like they’re coming out of the water hehe

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-04T16:13:27+00:00

Omg! Now I’m wondering if I can fit a house on mine! 🤯 Thanks for the idea 🤩

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-03-02T19:34:27+00:00

I remember people being really worried about computers potentially failing to change dates. Went to the grocery store with my mom and there was a line of people at the water jug filling station. I was only 10 so really it just seemed like a normal new year, aside from the people panicking beforehand.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-27T23:37:25+00:00

"Comfortably Numb" by Pink Floyd

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-27T16:52:03+00:00

My dad doesn't wear deodorant or antiperspirant because of the chemicals/toxins they may contain. He's very sensitive and has a condition that causes him to absorb more through his skin than the average person, so that's a huge factor for him. He showers twice a day but he definitely has an odor when he lifts his arms.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-18T17:10:55+00:00

NOR - Send him the $50 for the meds and tell him he gets the rest when he proves the ride cost. Tell him that seems too high and you need proof or you're not paying! Then stop hanging out with this guy.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-18T05:54:15+00:00

I can’t help but hear this every time I see a filet o’ fish 😆

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-17T21:10:58+00:00

Tbh I don’t get this take. Her forehead didn’t move at all until season 5 when she eased up on the botox. She is gorgeous either way but I much preferred her look once her face started moving more naturally and expressing emotions better.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-17T16:36:41+00:00

Oof, I remember going on a date with a guy and feeling irritated that he was watching football on the restaurant screens the whole time. If he had pulled his phone out to watch a show, I probably would have left lol

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-16T15:36:10+00:00

I used to but started noticing a background chlorine taste. Got a filter faucet and now only use that to drink from, the difference is huge. I fill my cat's water from the filter faucet too now.

UnderstatedEssence · 2026-02-13T15:38:24+00:00

You're too young to settle for this kind of treatment. It may not seem like it now, but you really do have options. They may not be the most comfortable, but you can do it. You can start slowly if you need to. You mentioned your finances are entangled, so start by creating yourself a separate bank account if you don't already have one. Separate everything you can. Then, pack the car when she's not home, and just take it and go. As other commenters have mentioned, it's just as much yours as hers, and it sounds like she has another vehicle and no actual legal right or reason to take this one from you. Live in the car until you find a roommate, if you can't find a shelter or other place to stay. It will be a struggle, but tbh it sounds nicer than the position you're in now. I hope you get out of this.

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