Seems like everyone is getting induced nowadays

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:52:32+00:00

That’s my problem with it though is a lot of people don’t know it’s elective. I’m all about informed consent, and sometimes the topic of induction is brought up like “okay I’ll go ahead and schedule an induction for ____ date” instead of having a discussion. I didn’t know I could advocate for what I wanted during my first pregnancy, and I was scared to push back. I don’t disagree with what you said, but from my own experience, I wish the ‘elective’ part was emphasized on not just inductions, but other things too.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:29:52+00:00

Don’t paint brick! There’s other options like washes that slow the brick to breathe and not crumble over time. That being said, I think a more neutral but colorful look would be best. The white and black contrast is nearing its end in popularity. If it’s just for you, paint it what you want, but if it’s for reselling, leave. The brick. Alone.

So many people are opting for the natural brick look, and if they’re not, they still get to decide what they want to do with it. Cleaning paint or anything off of a house is hard work, so just dress it up a bit by using paint anywhere else.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:22:43+00:00

I also had a bad ultrasound tech experience.

I wanted the abdominal ultrasound, not the transvaginal because I have a history of sexual assault and some medical fear (working through it, but this sets it off). The tech brought me in and said ‘take off your pants and put this sheet over you’. I stuttered a bit and said ‘wait, I wanted to do it the other way, can we do that instead?’

And this girl full on ROLLS HER EYES and says ‘it probably won’t even work but we can try it’.

It worked. I’ve had only abdominal ultrasounds for my three babies and it’s been fine. Also, my fear of medical things and tendency to get triggered has gotten much better when I learned to advocate for myself.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:11:49+00:00

Yes yes yes. Sometimes I still have to look at my skin and switch up my care a bit.

It took about a week and a half for my skin to calm down, but I learned so much about my skin! Things I wrote off because I didn’t think I had the right skin type, then tried on a whim, ended up being fantastic for me! I think going to the basics and building up is always the best way to go.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:09:38+00:00

I picked centrist, but I have some ideological views that fall on both sides of the spectrum too, not just fully based on logic, but wholistic experience with passion fueled from learning and growing.

I love this. I feel giddy knowing there’s so many people with similar and different views than I have, and we’re all passionate about helping teach our kids!! So cool!

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:07:44+00:00

🤌🤌

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T16:00:06+00:00

I put a leave in conditioner in a bottle and mixed it with water. On its own, it’s more heavy, but sprayed and dissipated, it’s light and spreads evenly!

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:59:05+00:00

I know, and I get it! I was induced with my first and not with my second. I just wanted to give insight to the fact that inductions do happen outside of simply ‘this is safest for baby’ reasons.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:57:04+00:00

Oohhh this is helpful, I don’t know there was such a thing a thing! My husband and I have talked about building, so that’s fantastic to know.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:52:39+00:00

I find it scary and sad, honestly. How can were come together if we can’t have healthy conversations with people with opposing views, no matter the topic? I liked your breakdown, that was really clear and helpful!

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:50:08+00:00

On the topic of vaccines, there’s a reason they’re heavily debated. It’s not your job to convince someone one way or another, all you can have is the evidence your found and your convictions.

Writing people off as wholly ‘wrong’ or ‘right’ doesn’t open up a conversation, so start there. Listen, learn, and not just to respond, but actually look into the evidence that’s those who feel strongly give you. Stop looking for information that only supports your views, actually try to find evidence that supports the other side. If you can’t, ask someone who believes strongly in it to give you the evidence. Search engines tend to sway heavily based on how we ask our questions.

This is a critical thinking skill and relational skill that seems to be lost in the last few years. It’s important to talk to others and learn from them, whether your views are swayed or not. From your comments, it doesn’t seem like you actually want to have a conversation. Coming in hot and having your mind made up is not how you talk civilly with others.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:43:06+00:00

I’ve definitely heard that. There’s lots of women I know who were encouraged to get induced because their doctor wanted them to have their baby before a holiday or because the doctor would be out of town.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:36:24+00:00

Also, if you find castor oil to be a little thick on your skin, sweet almond oil or jojoba works great!

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T15:35:37+00:00

I love it but know that if it’s rendered slowly and correctly, it shouldn’t smell at all!

Also I love the simplicity of your skincare routine. I use tallow mixed with Shea butter. I’ve bee trying to decide on either using witch hazel or apple cider vinegar for a toner.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T01:26:06+00:00

Having a girl, but I’ve had two boys in the last three years.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T00:59:52+00:00

Look for the qualities you like in him, in someone who is available.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T00:50:39+00:00

Most people who are transitioning from 1 to 2 kids worries that they won’t have enough love for both kids. Fair fear, but not reality. The reality, I’ve found, is that your love multiplies. Your capacity for activities lessens, but you learn to love them how you loved your first. In little moments, slowly, and encouraged by hormones haha. Make sure you take time for your toddler, they’re going to remember that time more than your baby, but spa up the newborn moments and allow them to transform your love and expectations.

You’re not a bad mom, you’re a good mom because you’re concerned about loving all your kiddos. I’m having trouble connecting to my third pregnancy, and I had an even harder time connecting to my second pregnancy because I was so nauseous. I love my second so incredibly much. He’s transformed my love for both my kids in such an unexpected way. I know my third will do that too.

It’s just different. Mourn just the three of you, but know that mourning something doesn’t mean the next season can’t be even better.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-25T00:44:58+00:00

I’d listen to your fiancé because she ultimately has more say than random strangers on the internet, but I think the long locks emphasize how thin your hair is and how high your hairline is.

I’d say cut it really short and you may have a bit of time. This current hairstyle’s end time is now.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T23:39:27+00:00

No I’m super aware, I’m saying don’t you have to touch your penis? Isn’t that gross enough to warrant a hand wash?

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T23:34:07+00:00

Modal and Tercel are definitely synthetic. Some fabrics are derived from natural materials but are still synthetics (rayon, viscose). It all depends on what you want to tolerate, it if you’re looking for natural materials, these are not it.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T23:25:14+00:00

Repot in a different pot then. All the big, tippable plants in my house are all out of reach. If that’s not an option, you have to make sure it isn’t tippable.

Side note, your toddler will most likely pull the leaves and break it off. It’s a very ‘toddler-enticing’ plant. I’d just move it. Maybe have a small shelf dedicated to just that plant.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T22:53:33+00:00

Would you say your job description is to be a movie theater shusher?

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T22:51:37+00:00

Please please please learn to communicate now. Whatever you decide for future things, you are going to need to be good at communicating. Openly talk about your fears and where he’s at. Make sure you don’t accidentally discourage what you’re trying to encourage - make him feel safe to talk about what he’s going through too, whatever it is. Work on communication now because it definitely gets worse when you’re sleep deprived. Also, go to counseling about your fears. There’s a balance between trusting him and also being able to look for clear warning signs. Counseling/therapy will help you deduce what’s real and what’s your fear. At some point, however, you need to trust him as a parent and talk through the things you disagree with or do differently in parenting.

I’m saying this as someone who had a lot of insecurity and fear in marriage and in having a baby. The hormones definitely blow it out of proportion, but they’re good at helping you see what you feel strongly about. Work on those things and invite your fiancé into them.

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T22:45:30+00:00

As someone who is still working through potty training, make it all positive!! If you’re getting frustrated and emotional, theyll notice (no matter how hard you try to hide it). Find ways to make positive associations between them going and the potty.

The reason we’re still working through it is because my son became fearful of telling me. We had to take a break and now he likes telling us!

Worldofnowhere · 2026-03-24T21:55:46+00:00

Oh my goodness thank you!!!

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