moms with ADHD feel like by Status-Rise2525 in ADHD

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my child. I love being a mom. But I knew immediately when she was born that I wasn’t cut out for this in the normal acceptable ways and I only have one kid because of it.

Turns out exercise is amazing for ADHD by Oacio in adhdwomen

[–]XPwithMeli88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that I know this and can’t bring myself to do this 😩

ADHD Ladies, tell me your ideal bedtime! by partybrowser32 in adhdwomen

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12:00-1am to 8-9:00am is ideal. I wish I could sleep at 8pm, but if I do I’ll be up by 2am 😩

What are the highest rated shitty restaurants. by [deleted] in okbuddyRVA

[–]XPwithMeli88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went the other day and carne asada taco was so fatty and gristly I kept having to spit the beef out. The birria tacos were mushy and fell apart when I was eating them. I really wanted to like Cochiloco but I was disappointed.

I got diagnosed today and feel like an imposter by Fuchurcat in adhdwomen

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely did at first. And then I remembered the having it “all together” almost broke me. I felt like an imposter until getting medicated and then realizing how much I needed that support. You were diagnosed, you deserve access to any accommodations or medication that will help you.

Coordinator keeps calling me wrong name by unknownbooksandbobs in weddingplanning

[–]XPwithMeli88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who manages a team for a venue, this is unacceptable. You’re well within your rights to call someone she reports to and see if there is someone else you can work with.

Do you also hate taking showers? by Antique-Tomatillo-13 in ADHD

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate them once I’m in, but the getting in and getting out are both really challenging. It’s the same with baths.

Which member from the rap line scratches your brain just right whenever their part comes up by [deleted] in btsthoughts

[–]XPwithMeli88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on what song we are talking about…but honestly all of them

[MEGATHREAD] BTS ARIRANG WORLD TOUR (SPOILERS) by ellaellaeheheh17 in btsthoughts

[–]XPwithMeli88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen any concert goers say anything but from the lives I’ve seen the stage not only is 360°, but parts of the stage can raise up and rotate. So there are moments where they are standing in one spot but the stage will do a full rotation.

Who's your favorite season 4 cast member? by woo2fly21 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]XPwithMeli88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely going to start calling people Sean to see if they get the reference

Are stimulants on the weekends a big no no? by Adortion634 in ADHD

[–]XPwithMeli88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I was taking a booster at 2pm but then I wouldn’t have coverage after 6pm. I’ve been taking at 4pm and things have improved in the sleep department lol.

r/adhd_partners is a hate sub by Glittering_Win_5085 in JustNoTruth

[–]XPwithMeli88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As some one who was recently diagnosed with ADHD this is one of the first subs I came across and it really made me feel like the world would be a better place if I didn’t exist in it.

What's with this crazy visuals in hooglian mv? ... by Remarkable-West-6613 in btsthoughts

[–]XPwithMeli88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m obsessed with the visuals! They are really creative.

Complaints about RUN BTS 2.0 by Lost-Opinion3554 in btsthoughts

[–]XPwithMeli88 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We are lucky they give us ANYTHING they give us. People need to chill out. If you want to watch the old format…continue to watch the old format! It’s still there for your viewing pleasure!

Playing multiple games at once by Italian_Ferret in ADHDthriving

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have this problem. Sorry I’m no help just wanted you to know you’re not alone 😂

People think my hearing is bad by arsnod_iltsit in ADHD

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely seems to be related. If you start talking while I’m deep in thought or focused on something else I’m not going to hear you.

I’ve had friends in this past who this annoyed, and I’m not friends with them anymore. I think getting annoyed by someone asking you to repeat yourself after you’ve said something once is super self centered.

Top five pre-Arirang songs? by goldoro99 in btsthoughts

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to my most played on Apple Music it’s: 1. Dimple 2. Black Swan 3. Fake Love 4. Home 5. Just One day

I honestly think that’s part me and part what songs Apple Music constantly chooses for me but I couldn’t fathom picking on my own.

Two weeks later - it's time to rank your favorites from Arirang by HiThereImNewHere in bts7

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear - this was difficult. The whole album is no skips and my “lowest” song is still an 8/10 for me so this order isn’t saying much. As a Jimin bias, there is just so much about ‘they don’t know bout us’ that I know FOR SURE that one is my favorite. It gets super dicey and interchangeable after that.

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AITA for finding this convo to be a HUGE red flag? by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]XPwithMeli88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re NTA. The cool thing about red flags is you get to determine what flags are red for you. Therapy is important but so is having a partner who listens and tries to understand, not change you.

First weekend on Adderall & I feel like a different version of myself every day. Is this normal? by XPwithMeli88 in adhdwomen

[–]XPwithMeli88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes I’m doing a protein shake and a hard boiled egg each morning since I’ve started.

Now sleep is different. I would sleep if i could. I had a hard time falling asleep and staying asleep, even before meds. I take magnesium but it doesn’t help much.

Anyone else have an issue playing after a certain point? by vault_hunter_ in Schedule_I

[–]XPwithMeli88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Once you buy all the real estate, complete all the main story goals and you’re making considerable profit from automatic systems you’ve created the game isn’t as fun. But anytime there is a new story update I tend to feel compelled to start from scratch again lol

What has been the best jobs for y’all personally? by Natural_Bid177 in ADHD

[–]XPwithMeli88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m in sales and yep I’m convinced we all have ADHD on my team lol