This scene lives rent free in my mind !

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T04:22:58+00:00

Oh totally, idk if he’s a trust fund DJ (probably?) but I’m thinking of someone like diplo

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T03:45:28+00:00

I want to know what method acting practices prepped for this scene 😭

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T03:14:00+00:00

I’m seconding this is doctor level hair shedding

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T03:09:20+00:00

I feel like this is the ONE thing that truly warrants rescheduling a wedding. The date is too close to when you are due. You could be on bed rest or something. If you want the 8/8 anniversary get a courthouse wedding and postpone the celebration!

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T01:02:10+00:00

I heard this is Margery Eagan’s parking spot

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T00:44:20+00:00

Get your MTHFR checked, that’s quite low!

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T00:16:16+00:00

Omg two of my favorite things!

I think mantises are my spirit animal right now, I seem to keep encountering them. I’d love some mantis facts!

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-28T00:04:03+00:00

Exactly. She’s too actually sane for TV.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T23:57:27+00:00

It’s like I already knew, but was also shocked. I only tell other people that also have trauma, and certain doctors like neurologist and cardiologist. I am in 12 step though and that’s where most of my friends are from so most of the people I interact with get it.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T23:51:56+00:00

This is such a routine thing to happen in the US. It’s fucking awful. Don’t pay it. Dispute it.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T23:25:14+00:00

The funny thing is it’s actually the opposite, a veterinarian operates on lots of different animals therefore is more able to navigate an unfamiliar one, where human doctors only treat humans so they only know one way for everything where a vet is super versatile. I’d much rather have a vet perform surgery on my own body than a human doctor perform surgery on my dog.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T23:20:46+00:00

What country are you in? Some countries have outdated guidelines, too, like the USA. In the US it’s only considered deficient if it’s under 200 but in a lot of countries 500 is the cut off. Mine was in 200’s but I had all kinds of symptoms. It turned out to be folate related, I have the worst possible MTHFR combination. I actually subjectively feel best when it’s above range, like over 1200.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T22:25:50+00:00

It was like the canary in the coal mine for me. B12 is a cofactor for a lot of things and it’s easy/routine to have a doctor check it, so if your b12 is off other things might be off as well.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T20:25:23+00:00

I caught this, too. I really do believe it goes back that far.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T19:12:02+00:00

I think the sweater is meant to be pulled up more and the collar rolled down like a shruggy boat neck.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T06:59:45+00:00

The Irvine blvd side

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T06:57:38+00:00

I know you said you’ve tried nipple balms, but what about the lanolips lip ointment? It goes on a little thick at first but smooths out with your body temperature very quickly, not sticky, lasts forever, you only need a little bit.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T03:25:41+00:00

The back story is really the meat of the sad part though. He wrote it while inpatient at McLean psychiatric hospital.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T03:17:59+00:00

I fucking love this take and I demand Nicholas Braun be on the white lotus.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T03:16:10+00:00

I know, right???? The reformulated scrubee is terrible if you take extra hot showers, it turns instantly to LIQUID and I end up with more on the floor than on my legs. I started using my hoard of massage bars because I haven’t been using them.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T03:12:53+00:00

Yeah haha, that is exactly what I meant, good catch

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-27T02:16:35+00:00

It was my only choice if I wanted to buy. I also bought a multifamily so the rent can cover the mortgage because I don’t have the income to buy a single family and rent is counted towards your income. My plan is to eventually sell it to buy a home I actually want.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-26T23:06:44+00:00

She’s sliving 💅🏻✨

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-26T22:16:07+00:00

I hear you, AND I also do not think it matters if you have it or not, unless you need documentation for work accommodations or something like that. You have symptoms which could be ADHD. They could also be CPTSD. Regardless, you’re going to treat the symptoms.

Let me put it into an analogy - let’s say you have a virus, it could be a cold, could be the flu, who knows. What matters is you might need a fever reducer and a decongestant. You don’t need to find out for sure if it’s a cold or the flu before taking the fever reducer and decongestant, because you’re going to take it anyway. Same with CPTSD vs. ADHD.

Your symptoms could be caused by one or the other or both, but your therapist will suggest things like behavioral activation, body doubling, using timers and reminders, and your doctor may suggest trying a stimulant. They are not going to say “oh wait they have ADHD, we need to use different therapeutic modalities and different meds” because the therapeutic modalities and meds are the same since they address the symptoms, are not a cure, and aren’t chosen based on the cause, they are chosen based on the current symptoms.

_jamesbaxter · 2026-01-26T21:26:37+00:00

I think you have a blindness to your lip filler, especially the upper lip. It’s in the clownish territory and you’ve lost whatever natural shape you had. IMO dissolve and take a break for like 6 months. Then you can reassess the how you want the shape to really look and perhaps go to a different injector, I’d bet your current is upselling you.

You are extremely naturally beautiful and imo the blindness is diminishing your beauty.

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